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MelsWife4Life
10-27-2004, 05:52 PM
My husband wrote me a dirty letter and it was good........damn good but I dont know how to write one back, i dont usually talk dirty like that to him...anyone have any ideas or know where i can find a letter to write him??:o

1dayatatime
10-27-2004, 05:53 PM
I would love to know the same. J sent me one and I dont know how to respond. Some people use (i think its called) pillow mail or pillow talk. But to me it's kind of cheesey!!

I am waiting.......

ONE

Crissymn
10-27-2004, 05:56 PM
Pillowmail is good but i usally copy paste and edit there stories a bit. They tend to use different words for certain parts makes it kinda cheesy so i just edit and put the right word in! Here is the link below for it all you need it 2 email address and then you confrim your email and then send the story to you! http://www.pillowmail.com/index.php/rd_/story

MelsWife4Life
10-27-2004, 05:59 PM
Thank you.......I'm going to look right now and check it out !!

brownshuga27
10-27-2004, 06:10 PM
yeah pillow mail is good. i sent one to my bf three times. he loved them!! but some of it is kinda cheesy lol.

MelsWife4Life
10-27-2004, 06:23 PM
OMG I like it, yeah the word are cheesy but i can switch it up........Thanks guys!!

JJsGB
10-27-2004, 07:58 PM
You can go to www.literotica.com (http://www.literotica.com) The stories there are good.

MrsBenji
10-27-2004, 08:07 PM
Y'all should be ashamed of yourselves. Write your men letters out of your own imaginations!!! Next time you have a nice fantasy or an image comes to mind of something you want to do with and/or to him, take some time alone and tell him about it. Tell him about a dirty dream you have or what you think about lying in bed at night. Just a short little scene that you come up with all on your own will thrill him. Or do a remember when... scene. Remind him about some details of a time when you actually got to do something dirty. ;) Tell him why you liked it. Or ramble about the one thing, you know, that thing, that he does that always really really does it for you. Even reply to his dirty letter. Pick up where he left off. Once you get started, it's easy. And remember. You should never have to be embarassed or anything like that with your man! He is, afterall, your man!! :)

starzzmom
10-27-2004, 08:23 PM
I know it's a little hard to start off, but it gets easier. I type it on the computer so I can edit it. I used the pillowmail site to get some ideas, but I write them myself. I'm in the process of writing my hubby a whole long story, I mail one chapter at a time. So far he loves it!

marcsbaby
10-27-2004, 08:36 PM
Y'all should be ashamed of yourselves. Write your men letters out of your own imaginations!!! Next time you have a nice fantasy or an image comes to mind of something you want to do with and/or to him, take some time alone and tell him about it. Tell him about a dirty dream you have or what you think about lying in bed at night. Just a short little scene that you come up with all on your own will thrill him. Or do a remember when... scene. Remind him about some details of a time when you actually got to do something dirty. ;) Tell him why you liked it. Or ramble about the one thing, you know, that thing, that he does that always really really does it for you. Even reply to his dirty letter. Pick up where he left off. Once you get started, it's easy. And remember. You should never have to be embarassed or anything like that with your man! He is, afterall, your man!! :)

I totally agree with this reply. I never thought I could write like that either, but I had a very sexually frustrating visit with Marc once and all the way home I was dreaming of stuff I wanted to do to him, so when I got home I sad and wrote everything...every little detail and he was so impressed! I am the kind of girl who turns beet red when I say one of those sexy words, nad he was blown away by my letter....girls when you have to have letter sex, you learn to make the best of it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sweetness
10-28-2004, 04:51 PM
YOU GO MRSBENJI!!! I'm with you girl! Come on ladies... just close your eyes and let your imagination run wild... I haven't written one of these in a long time, but we decided awhile back that we didn't wanna focus on sexual for awhile cause it frustrates both of us even more and we got 3 more years to do. Looks like its time for me to unleash the freak and surprise my baby! :yay:

impoohbearsgirl
10-28-2004, 06:27 PM
Pooh LOVES pillow mail but then he thought I wrote them so I had towritemy own :lol

trababy18
11-01-2004, 07:31 PM
i havent written my boyfriend/fiance a dirty letter.. im always scared that someone will read it and he will get in trouble but he writes me them all the time i just dont know weather to write him a dirty letter are not i dont want to get him in trouble what should i do??????

MrsBenji
11-01-2004, 07:56 PM
trababy18,
Who would get in trouble and why? They know these guys have *needs* and so do their women. Some states have guidelines that state that letters referencing sex between two people of the same sex and children are the things that are off limits. You can always just sign the letter with a nickname or an initial, but you have to put a return address in most cases. Sweetie, write the man something. It doesn't even have to be anything explicit. Write him sexy things about touches and kisses. If you enjoy your letters from him, think about how much he would enjoy getting letters from you.
Jenn

impoohbearsgirl
11-02-2004, 04:45 PM
I can see sex w/ children but same sex adults? ? !? !?

MrsBenji
11-02-2004, 05:10 PM
I dunno. It is just what the Michigan DOC policy says. I would think that someone would have sued to get that changed by now, but one never knows.

trababy18
11-04-2004, 03:29 AM
well i will take some advice cause i got another letter today it was niceeeeeeeeeeee he ask me why i dont do it back he ask if i was ashamed or something and in no way am i ashamed of him no no no so i think i will surprise him... :-)

Divinesgirl.MA
11-04-2004, 09:39 AM
Well pillowmail has done some good for me, but then again that was after I copied and pasted to add and delete. LOL Another good free site is

SecretLoveLetters.com....

This has alot of good free stuff, It kicks it up....

Good luck and I hope this helps
372

rosibaker50
11-05-2004, 10:50 PM
if ur like me and don't know how to start, u can go to google and type in "dirty talk" to get some ideas. i did this and my b/f loved it....he's been trying to get me to talk dirty to him for some time now and i just needed a little something to get me started.

MsAkbar
11-06-2004, 08:33 AM
I cant see anything on that pillow mail talk site. It keeps asking me for credit card info. I will not pay for something that I can't even see?:cool:

MrsBenji
11-06-2004, 11:25 AM
The pillowmail site, it should be at the bottom of the first page you go to. It is some boxes where you fill in the blanks. I am still against it though! Use your imagination. It will be lots more fun and personal. And you can put all of your extra details in! ;)
Jenn

itzmydestiny
11-09-2004, 03:05 AM
good ideals ladys keep'em comming, funinbed.com has a few ideals to

John S.
11-10-2004, 10:44 PM
My husband wrote me a dirty letter and it was good........damn good but I dont know how to write one back, i dont usually talk dirty like that to him...anyone have any ideas or know where i can find a letter to write him??:oAny mail that contains photos of actual sex acts, or violence, or sexual crimes (ie: child sex, or porn) are prohibted. Anything else is ok. Just a note: I had an inmate who thought sperm stains on his outgoing letter was cute! NOT! Obvious offensive material is out! I did'nt need his HIV!! Ever read the Title 15? Lays everything out.

bellamami
11-11-2004, 03:40 PM
Okay I realize that - everyone seems to lean to the original writings but I have been trying that link for pillow mail or pillow talk and its not working- - any ideas? any help?

whiskeylullabye
11-11-2004, 03:54 PM
Okay I realize that - everyone seems to lean to the original writings but I have been trying that link for pillow mail or pillow talk and its not working- - any ideas? any help?
try www.literotica.com (http://www.literotica.com)

pacosgirl
11-11-2004, 04:13 PM
I love these type of letter we do it once a week. he will start the story and I will end it or vese versa

tweetwashington
01-20-2005, 06:31 PM
I'm all for using your imagination. It might be awkward at first, but believe me, your man will appreciate it. :D

pam112856
01-20-2005, 08:14 PM
We Write Dirty Little Letters All The Time ,it Was Hard At First But It Gets Easier

BRANDIEMARIE
01-20-2005, 08:32 PM
Ok i have a question, I write pillow talk letters to my husband but I heard somewhere that they cannot get that kind of mail, they will get their visits taken away, is this true? I know he enjoys it, since they took the books and everything else away from them. Shoot if they didnt it's on, Like the other ladies were sayin, let it come from within you, put the kids to sleep and go and do it in quiet time, put on some nice music and go with it...

pam112856
01-20-2005, 08:53 PM
Get You A Bottle Of Wine Light Some Candles And Let Your Imagination Go ,

pam112856
01-20-2005, 08:55 PM
Where My Hubby Is They Dont Really Read The Mail Just Open It To Make Sure You Are Not Sending Any Drugs In . They Dont Care What You Write ,hey If They Had To Sit And Read My Letters They Would Be There A Wail ,they Cant Have Nude Pitchers

BrandilovesLuke
01-30-2005, 01:31 PM
i write my baby dirty letters often, because he likes for me too, and I have had trouble with them at first and used websites to help me (not pillowmail I thought it was a little cheesy) but now i can sit down and write one with no problem. So you should just close your eyes and imagine your last sexual encounter and write about that or write about what you think about doing the day he comes home. it will get easier