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BobbysGirl2005 · #1 07-20-2005, 08:17 AM

I was just wondering if anybody would want to visit the Cell that you man/woman occupied durring their stay in prison system?

I personally would not, It think that it wouls stir up to much emotion, because remember your man or woman weren't the only ones in that cell at one time.

Just would like to know....What you think

COMPLETElyhis · #2 07-20-2005, 08:25 AM

I'm not that curious to know what his cell looks like...I've heard enough about it to have an image in my mind...

I think I'd be way too emotional...

Peace and blessings...

Retired-25 · #3 07-20-2005, 08:30 AM

I definitely would. I make him describe every little detail to me so I can picture him and what he's doing when I'm missing him at home. He's in a small camp and they're in cubes so I don't think it would be too hard on me if I saw it. I watched the monitor behind the CO's desk at my last visit and could see the day room, phones he calls me from, shower room door, etc. Now when he calls me, I know exactly where he's standing and what the room looks like. I'm weird I guess, but I'd love to see where he sleeps with my pics all around him. lol

MiaBellaAngela · #4 07-20-2005, 08:28 AM

Yes I would. I have seen photos of his cell and have a good idea what it is like but I think to go there would give me better insight of what his life is like now.

Doc's Sis · #5 07-20-2005, 08:33 AM

Yes. Maybe if more of us out here would see a cell and see for ourselves what it's like to be locked up, we'd better understand what inmates have to live with - and why it is so important to them to get daily mail and a few dollars to buy treats and personal items! It might make us better understand why they sometimes get pretty grumpy or complain about things that we so often take for granted. Until you've walked in someone else's shoes you can never know what or how they feel. You think that you would get emotional??? Then think of how he must feel.

RegisSweetness · #6 07-22-2005, 10:33 PM

i honestly think it would traumatize me if i visited his cell cuz i cant even imagine what it must be like in there. it would be horrible for me. but on the other hand id love to have a nice love making session and it would definitley go down if i ever made it to that cell! LOL!!!!

inalicesworld · #7 07-23-2005, 02:28 PM

and give him at least one very happy memory when hes sitting in there after you leave

i would definataly absolutely without a doubt do it.

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Originally Posted by RegisSweetness

i honestly think it would traumatize me if i visited his cell cuz i cant even imagine what it must be like in there. it would be horrible for me. but on the other hand id love to have a nice love making session and it would definitley go down if i ever made it to that cell! LOL!!!!

special_24 · #8 02-18-2008, 05:41 PM

[quote=Doc's Sis]Yes. Maybe if more of us out here would see a cell and see for ourselves what it's like to be locked up, we'd better understand what inmates have to live with - and why it is so important to them to get daily mail and a few dollars to buy treats and personal items! It might make us better understand why they sometimes get pretty grumpy or complain about things that we so often take for granted. Until you've walked in someone else's shoes you can never know what or how they feel. You think that you would get emotional??? Then think of how he must feel.

Yea alot of us women should understand that. and what u said is sooo true.i recently experience time in jail for the first time and now i see what my sons father is going through and now i see words cant explain what hes is goin through because i really seen it myself. it was so hard in there missing my kids missing my life freedom and soo much more and now i see why he sumtimes act the way he did and was so needie of letters money but that was sumthing he didnt really ask me for.now i dont take things for granted in my daily life..

witchiejeni · #9 07-20-2005, 08:59 AM

I'd sleep on the floor of my BF's cell if only to be near him.

But I would like to see it...see where he spent his time, see where he wrote letters to me, planned our futures...all that stuff.

TONYGIRL · #10 07-20-2005, 08:59 AM

yes, because he says he is a neat freak and i want to see if it is true, because he is always getting on me with pictures i send and stuff i leave around, he makes comments. so i want to see how clean he keeps his cell and how organized he keeps it.

Tulip · #11 07-20-2005, 09:14 AM

That is a tough one for me. First though was YES as I can be a nosy thing. But I know how it affected me seeing just photo's of it and reading his descriptions. I may get very emotional. Than again.... that is no real reason to not see it.........

Texxie · #12 07-20-2005, 09:21 AM

Yep! I'd see it in a heartbeat! Everything about him is important to me, and since his cell is a big part of his life right now, it's important to me too.

dvsgirl19 · #13 07-20-2005, 09:17 AM

i would love to go to his cell, just to be with him! i wonder what it looks like and all that, imagine what it would be like to spend a day with them in there, i would because i miss him so much and if i knew what it looked like i could better imagine everything, like where he writes me and all that.

bailey_b · #14 07-20-2005, 09:21 AM

Yes in a heartbeat! It would be major shackdown time

, I meant to say: shakedown!

He always talks about how he cleans all the time, I want to see what pictures he has in his locker of me or..........just everything.........I'm nosy like that!

Daveysgirl · #15 07-20-2005, 09:19 AM

I would just because I like to know everything about what he goes through. When I visit him we can see the window to his cell so I know where it is located and that to me is cool.

LadyDamu415 · #16 07-20-2005, 09:48 AM

Ladies, I think that I may be one of the few that can actually say that I have been to his cell, I know what it looks like, I know because I used to work in his cell block. I can say that him and his bunkee keep their cell neat and clean. They got a tv, radio, all kinds of stuff.

gabbygirl372001 · #17 07-20-2005, 09:51 AM

I've actually been in his cell...well not this one, but one long ago. My guy is VERY neat...like probably 99% of the other guys. Some of the cells almost looks like apartments the way the guys have them done up with all of their stuff...its amazing what they can do with a small space, and a lot of them have pictures up by their beds...lots of pictures!

Wifey-Ma · #18 07-20-2005, 10:04 AM

Just to capture the aura of the place where his being was.

When he was in the HIP program on Rikers, on graduation day the officers allowed us to see the space the guys occupied -- their bed and locker. Everything was all packed up, and yeah, it did move me being there.

B.G · #19 07-20-2005, 11:58 AM

I had to think about this one...

I often wonder how he feels, living in those conditions. Just for one visit I would want to see how it is to be on the other side. Yes I would, and I know my pictures betta be alllll over the place!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

B.G

missmyhubby · #20 07-23-2005, 05:39 PM

Yes I Would Go!! I Tell Him That All The Time, If I Could Go Back To The Cell With Him I Would. I Would Even Spend The Night!! That's How Much I Miss Him And Want To Be Near Him!!

Patricks Peach · #21 07-28-2005, 10:05 PM

Only way I would visit Patrick's cell is if he could give me the grand tour which may take at least a few hours.

messyjesse · #22 07-29-2005, 12:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Patricks Peach

Only way I would visit Patrick's cell is if he could give me the grand tour which may take at least a few hours.

LMAO!!! I SECOND THAT.

kimberlyslove · #23 05-31-2006, 10:09 AM

my answer is yes!
I would be there with him now if i could be.
may sound crazy but,I would just to be with him.
I wonder what it is like for him .Where he lays his head at night.
i certainally would go there.

Melissa1987 · #24 08-19-2006, 03:05 AM

I would I dont know why but I would.

**Anjewel** · #25 09-02-2006, 08:08 PM

I would not be able to turn down the opportunity.
If for nothing else, I would just die to be able to plunder in that locker I hear so much about. Oh, yes.