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dwfighterva · #1 11-06-2006, 11:55 AM

There is a man who has been in for three years and was to get out today. On Friday, he was served with a restraining order to not go home. It is his house, in his name. Owned it for many years. His wife never came to visit him; told him she can't bear to see him like that, too expensive, etc. Turns out she has been living with another guy and has a 4 month old baby. Never told him.

Now I can understand her moving on, but she should have told him so he could make other arrangements. He has had to scramble and file another home plan real quick. His whole life is turned upside down and he has to go live with his brother until he can get on his feet. He also got thrown into the hole when she called the prison and said he threatened her. He never talked to her. Because his homeplan is not stable, they can keep him another 30 days, or force him into a program for an additional 6 months.

I guess this is an appeal to those of you who have a secret from your guy. If you aren't going to welcome him with open arms, tell him. Tell him now so he can move on with his life as well. Don't mess up his life because you couldn't pull the time with him. Be an adult and tell him the truth. Then you can both move on.

honeyg · #2 11-06-2006, 12:34 PM

I agree with you a 100%. What that woman did is just not right.

PrincessTNY · #3 11-06-2006, 12:45 PM

I also agree 100%. Any person that hides something that detrimental from someone else is disgusting.

jdcjmc1 · #4 11-06-2006, 12:49 PM

Just gioes to show you women can be as scandalous as men. how sad.

orchidia_168 · #5 11-06-2006, 12:59 PM

i feel for him .

CountryCutie · #6 11-06-2006, 01:02 PM

that is horrid...my first thought is what a b**ch to do that to someone...and i agree 100% if your not going to stick with your guy tell him asap!!!!

PTO-92958 · #7 11-06-2006, 12:55 PM

What an incredibly sad situation! I can't believe someone could be so selfish, deceptive and cruel. She will have a higher power to face someday, but until then, this man's life is shattered. I'll keep him in my prayers.

Lions Heart · #8 11-06-2006, 01:01 PM

This is very sad! I hope that he hangs in there and does well for his own sake. As for her...well the only thing I can say is KARMA!!! What comes around goes around eventually!

LoDucafan67 · #9 11-06-2006, 01:02 PM

Wow!!! Unbelieveable. I can't understand some people.

Bad karma tho, she will get hers in the end.

myhusbandswifey · #10 11-06-2006, 01:04 PM

That is horrible. There is no excuse or justification for treating a person like that. I hope that he can land on his feet and turn this into a positive.

joybubby · #11 11-06-2006, 01:12 PM

That's very sad. Can't imagine what the guy is going through.

Onelove250 · #12 11-06-2006, 01:26 PM

That's a terrible story, I keep him in my prayers. That woman will get whats coming to her!

big mama 69 · #13 11-06-2006, 01:50 PM

Whooo-weee,does that lady have some bad karma coming her way! Is there any legal way he can make her move,so he get's the house? I take it her name is on the house too,or is it just because they're married she owns half of what he has? At any rate,..she should be ashamed of herself,and I wish that poor guy luck in getting out asap!

sarahlovesbuck · #14 11-06-2006, 05:51 PM

i will keeo this man in my prayers... i feel for him.. i cant believe that some wwoman would actually do that to a man that they supposely love?? come on how do you love someone if you can do that,..... he needs to get a lawyer to help him out...

Willsgirl · #15 11-06-2006, 06:01 PM

Prayerful as soon as he is back on his feet, he can make moves to get his house back. Yea she will get hers in the end, you just cant do people like that and not think it is gonna come back on you.

SlicksGirl · #16 11-06-2006, 06:13 PM

That is sooo messed up...And on top of that the house belongs to him!

Scandalous B****!

mel2020 · #17 11-06-2006, 06:19 PM

Okay, now that I've picked my jaw up off of the floor...WTF??? If I were close and knew my man would understand, I'd offer my help. Its bad enough he has to face the stigma society will stick on him for being a former inmate, now he has to deal with HER drama and start all over???

:shake:

KARMA1234 · #18 11-06-2006, 07:29 PM

I wouldnt want her KARMA for sure!! what a bitch from hell....
it unfortunately goes to show that evil comes in both genders .
Heartfelt prayers go out to this man and may he make himself the best life ever... Revenge is living well...

Foxylady101 · #19 11-06-2006, 06:13 PM

That's just awful. I hope that he can eventually get his house back and throw her a** out.

dwfighterva · #20 11-06-2006, 06:40 PM

Update: He is still there, in the hole. He did not get released today.

missginagm · #21 11-06-2006, 07:03 PM

That's a horrible situation! I agree with everyone else....she should have told him and I feel terrible for that poor man. She'll get what she deserves someday though.

Gina

Miss_Jazzey1 · #22 11-06-2006, 07:05 PM

Now that's heartless but as they say what goes around comes around but 10x harder.

LovingSoul4u2 · #23 11-06-2006, 07:23 PM

WOW!!! This is truly one of the most un-just situations! I pray he gets out of the hole, doesn't have to do an extra 6 months of time for someone soooo trifling. I know she will get what's coming to her without him having to do anything. You just don't do this sort of thing!!!

Jillian · #24 11-06-2006, 07:30 PM

i agree with you 100% she is so going to get bad karma cause if it wasnt bad enough she called and told a lie on him to get him in trouble .. waht a low life

MandyMeMe · #25 11-06-2006, 07:39 PM

Like my father told me from day one...you were with him when he went in and you need to be there for him when he walks out. I wouldn't have it any other way.