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Live2luvhim · #1 05-14-2008, 06:32 PM

ladies how many of you beleave that if it was you locked up That your man would wait on you and remain faithfull like so many of us ladies have remained faithfull to them?

hopeful64 · #2 05-14-2008, 07:09 PM

Can not answer that straight out only what he told me however under the situation anything is possible and as long as he doing great by me, sex would not be a deal breaker for me.

lml34 · #3 05-14-2008, 07:13 PM

I mean, you can only hope that he would be, but theres no way to tell, we are all human, and guys well you know guys, he loves me with all his heart and i know that, i would be dumb if i tried to say that he didnt but i dont really know if he would be faithful, i'd like to think that he would be..

d-v-o-n · #4 05-14-2008, 07:23 PM

Heyell naw Daryl wouldn't. LOL! And I wouldn't expect him to. Hell...I'd tell him to get 10 pumps in for me....but when I come home, the beezie better be ghost. LOL!!!

june5 · #5 05-14-2008, 07:51 PM

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Originally Posted by d-v-o-n

Heyell naw Daryl wouldn't. LOL! And I wouldn't expect him to. Hell...I'd tell him to get 10 pumps in for me....but when I come home, the beezie better be ghost. LOL!!!

LMAO! I couldn't be *that* understanding, but I don't think it would be fair or realistic to expect another person to go without sex for a long period of time when they have the option to do so.

mts1123 · #6 04-17-2012, 07:59 AM

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Originally Posted by d-v-o-n

Heyell naw Daryl wouldn't. LOL! And I wouldn't expect him to. Hell...I'd tell him to get 10 pumps in for me....but when I come home, the beezie better be ghost. LOL!!!

Lol..I love this answer. As for my man, I do believe to an extent he would be there. But as far as being 100%, turning to celibacy, not gonna happen, and I dont think there are many guys that would. I asked my man this question awhile back actually, and he said he would be there for me, but that i already know he was gonna have to get it from someone. I laughed cuz for one, theres no way in hell that I would ever end up in prison, so the whole subject is really pointless and number 2, cuz we can be so strait up with each other and not get mad over sh.. that doesnt matter. Also i think us as women have more compassion within us, which makes it easier to "save ourselves" for our men...

thugwife · #7 05-14-2008, 07:39 PM

I brought this up on visit Sunday and he said hell yeah he would wait, but who knows we all know guys are programmed to tell us what we want to hear. Mine being in and out of prison since his teens is very inexperienced in the "girl" department, not meaning sex, that is great, but he hasnt been with many girls and it seems all my former guys have been with lots of women. That is the reason I think with my husband I would have a shot at faithfulness, because of his lack of interest in other girls. He always says I have been JO for 8 years I can JO for more than that. I told him I would at least expect him to wait as long as I have which is 3 flat years the first bit, before the divorce. Then this last time getting back together I have been faithful for almost 3 more years. But we were not together when I strayed....

I dont understand why he loves me after all I have put him thru. But I know I have been and was the best for him. I pawned everything I owned to get him lawyers, I visited every visit, sent canteen, wrote 24/7, took his calls and etc. I dont know how much greater I could have been to him.

RaysMeg · #8 05-14-2008, 07:43 PM

I don't know about SEXUALLY...but I wouldn't ask him to do that. We were kids together, so is friendship first- always. I did vote yes, because "faithful" equals honesty....and I'm confident we would always have that.......He would hold me down, for sure.

**Patty** · #9 05-14-2008, 07:53 PM

This subject comes up every now and then...

He says he'd wait faithfully, I believe HE believes that but here is the scenario as I REALLY feel it would go down in OUR case...

He would take care of me, yes. I don't think he'd write as often as I did. I just don't think he would. He'd take all my calls and visit too, I'm sure of that. He'd not feel the need immediately IMO to "get some" but it would happen eventually. He would keep it on a physical level, one nights etc. and he'd be honest with me about it later when I asked. None of it would be a factor upon my homecoming. He says different of course but seriously that's how I feel it would go down. I ain't trippin' at the same time I'm the legal end of this relationship so me goin' to prison stretches the imagination but still yanno, just keepin' it real...

Patty

angelfemsd · #10 05-14-2008, 07:58 PM

I believe that he would write me, put money on my books, and I would like to believe that he would wait for sex with me when I got out, but men are definatelty programed differently, it was funny cause I asked him this question a long time ago he said he would..
but as long as when I get home I am his one and only thats what matters to me....lolol

forever_ever_baby · #11 05-14-2008, 07:59 PM

i believe he would but i would have to see if for my self. but the way he is i know he would

Mikesgrl138 · #12 05-14-2008, 08:02 PM

He says he would be but I really dont believe it. I know him way to well and I know that if he was free and I wasnt he would go "get some" elsewhere, but I do know that once I came home it would be just me and him again.

CarrotCake10 · #13 05-14-2008, 09:50 PM

I always tell my boyfriend if I were in jail he wouldn't do what I am doing for him. He went into this drawn out letter explaining how it would be if I were in there. Who knows I do not believe he would wait only because he is a man and men are men.

briandi · #14 05-14-2008, 09:58 PM

He mentioned this to me on his own a few visits ago so I know 100% that he would be faithful and wait, visit, write, send money...he would do everything in his power to get me out and stay as long as I was in.

SaNdiA · #15 05-14-2008, 10:24 PM

he says he would, i believe him but i told him that i wouldnt ask him to remain faithful
but to make me think he was (am i making sense) basically i wouldnt want to kno if he was having sex
i would just ask him to be by my side and support me and not to fall in love or get another girl pregnant

frontlinelady · #16 05-14-2008, 11:33 PM

He has never cheated on anyone he dated or on his ex-wife..although I do know he has been presented with plenty of opportunities. Everyone always tells me he is a true blue sweetheart. He is very good looking and it scared me to death when we first started dating because everyone I ever dated ended up cheating on me! He says it is not worth it and he would and has always been up front if he ever feels tempted to do such a thing. He said the only time he was tempted was when he was a teenager.

D4C · #17 05-15-2008, 08:46 AM

He has already proved this one to me. he took care of everything...my son; the house; had someone pick up my property (he couldn't); picked me up when i got out...

I was only there a few days but his actions showed me what he would do long term...although on the sex aspect of things....i wouldn't trip as long as he was honest with me...

faithfullone · #18 05-15-2008, 10:05 PM

Any Woman on here who thinks there man would be 100% faithfull to them if the tables were turn is dreaming. Hell it's hard for them to be faithfull when they are out here with us. It's like telling a child they could not have any candy right in frount of them when your not looking. Most men are not care givers and if they are out in the world all alone with no woman there to take care of them I would bet my life on them geting it from someone eles. It takes a certin kind of man who would be there and faithfull and they are few and far between. Like trying to find a neddle in a hay stack. This is my openion and none can convence me otherwize.

faithfullone · #19 05-16-2008, 12:25 AM

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Originally Posted by faithfullone

Any Woman on here who thinks there man would be 100% faithfull to them if the tables were turn is dreaming. Hell it's hard for them to be faithfull when they are out here with us. It's like telling a child they could not have any candy right in frount of them when your not looking. Most men are not care givers and if they are out in the world all alone with no woman there to take care of them I would bet my life on them geting it from someone eles. It takes a certin kind of man who would be there and faithfull and they are few and far between. Like trying to find a neddle in a hay stack. This is my openion and none can convence me otherwize.

FACT Only 1% of Women in prson get visits

LovingSoul4u2 · #20 05-16-2008, 11:14 AM

My husband says he would be faithful, he believe he will be. That being said, I truly believe he would try and give it his very best. Therefore until he actually gets in that situation, then I'll know for sure. I hope our belief in God will curb that temptation. I know he would do the visits, money, lawyers, whatever it took to take care of me there without doubt.

flforever322 · #21 05-17-2008, 05:25 PM

I believe...He would write me. He would take my calls, He would visit me, He would hold me all the way down, He would also be waving at the gate ready to pick me up when I got out, all suited up and ready to be faithful. But his pipe would be polished and I don't doubt that for a second. No matter what he says. I been around too long for that one.

lml4923 · #22 11-03-2008, 06:24 PM

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Originally Posted by faithfullone

Any Woman on here who thinks there man would be 100% faithfull to them if the tables were turn is dreaming. Hell it's hard for them to be faithfull when they are out here with us. It's like telling a child they could not have any candy right in frount of them when your not looking. Most men are not care givers and if they are out in the world all alone with no woman there to take care of them I would bet my life on them geting it from someone eles. It takes a certin kind of man who would be there and faithfull and they are few and far between. Like trying to find a neddle in a hay stack. This is my openion and none can convence me otherwize.

Thats preachin' right there girl! Amen!

jasonzwifey2011 · #23 05-29-2008, 08:44 AM

I'm not even gonna front... I know he wouldn't. He's just not strong enough I don't think. I truly think he would try not to, but I don't think he could last. Emotionally, financially I KNOW he would support me and "hold me down" but physically? I would have to say no. And it's just part of his personality that I accept. He may surprise me, but...it would be a BIG surprise. LOL

Savvy Sista · #24 07-07-2008, 09:49 AM

I would have to agree with hopeful64 . . . . I can only hope that he would be as faithful as I. If he holds it down for me and the kids and he handles his business respectfully, I would definitely forgive him.

I LOVE ME SOME HIM

myhopeneverdies · #25 05-14-2008, 11:51 PM

he says he would. I never doubt that.
as far as sex goes, I dont think that would go the same way. just because he is a guy.

I dont believe they know and can say NO to something like that.... sorry, but I dont believe it!