What is your loved one in for??

[happyjello]

My hunny is in for drinking/driving/no licence... serving 2 years in federal.

[spacecase77]

You may get some how longs, but I don't know how many people will share the whys.
I don't know how long we'll be waiting yet, most likely fed time though.

[Jennifer84]

my boyfriend was arrested for "scratching" his ex wife on the chest... plus he is on probation.. hes been locked up for about 4 weeks. he had a probation hold on him (dont really understand how that works) so hes waiting for the judge to do something.. not to sure what :/ but he wasnt able to bond out either.. would anyone know why someone isnt able to bond out?? also we dont know how long he'll be in there for it sucks! hes just sitting behind bars without a clue.. as if they forgot about him!

[lilystacey]

Originally Posted by Jennifer84

he had a probation hold on him (dont really understand how that works) so hes waiting for the judge to do something.. not to sure what :/ but he wasnt able to bond out either.. would anyone know why someone isnt able to bond out??

I noticed your in Texas? Is your Man in the Canadian system?

If not your questions might be better answered in the U.S/Texas forum.
http://www.prisontalk.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=56

~Lilystacey
(This is the Canadian forum)

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[ivieelain]

I think that it is best left unsaid for many of the women on the great website.

[mochasplash]

good luck getting answers

[Missing Someone]

Breaking the law

[lilystacey]

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Originally Posted by Missing Someone

Breaking the law

"Allegedly" lol.. lol..

~Lilystacey


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[Fancy1]

Originally Posted by Missing Someone

Breaking the law

NO WAY!! Mine too!

[dont,wanna,go!!]

well im on bail right now, just did a 18 day little vacation in remand and now my courts comeing up. so pretty much here my charge : On Wednesday July 30, 2008 at approximately 4:50pm, two
culprits entered the Scotiabank located in the Midlake Blvd
SE Shopping Centre. Once inside the bank each culprit
approached a separate teller and presented a hold-up note
indicating they were armed, it was a robbery, and demanding
cash. The culprits were given an undisclosed amount of cash
and immediately exited the bank.

The CPS Robbery Unit has completed the investigation into
this robbery with the arrest of two individuals on September
25th, 2008. Charged with one count each of robbery under
section 344(b) CC

so yeah,the way we got arrested was we were flaged for questioning because of a annomunus tip off. In the interigaion I copped out(confessed) cause i was pretty much tricked into it. I no stupidness but whatever cant change the past now.

So now a month later and courts coming up all i got for defence is that i have no criminal record, i got a good complete family that i am currently living with, im going to therapy (court order), going to school to get my GED, staying out of trouble which goes hand in hand with going to probation, and that im 19 years old.

now im thinking im pretty much F'd and really not looking forward to whats comeing up , but really all i want right now is to know what im looking at in terms of time in prison or hopefully not in prison. Anything helps i guess, thanks

[sabian]

My man is in for simple arson.

[ChristinaL]

Originally Posted by sabian

My man is in for simple arson.

No offence...

Do we really have to know, what your guy has done ???????? No, we don't...We don't want to know. (I think and most of the girl's on this forum would agree) We are all here for a reason.....

This is your private space to look around, see and listen to what's being said.........it's your space, per se........

Welcome to the forum..........

Feel free to pm any of the girls..........

C

[spacecase77]

Originally Posted by ChristinaL

No offence...
We don't want to know.

We don't have to read this thread if we don't want to know.
Obviously a lot of us won't discuss this topic, but if others want to then they should be free to.

[ChristinaL]

Originally Posted by spacecase77

We don't have to read this thread if we don't want to know.
Obviously a lot of us won't discuss this topic, but if others want to then they should be free to.

BUT, WE DO Read THE THREADS, DON'T WE?????????? THAT'S THE PROBLEM......

TRUE,,, Freedom of speech is a wonderful thing........

Speak of your loved one's charges or whatever......(In private) (Practically, no one else has). It is private, KEEP it that way !!!!!
You don't know who is on this forum or any other,. keep it that way.....

you want to talk, get in touch with a women on the forum, and trust her.......... We are all trust worthy..

Mum is always the word!!! Look, listen and be seen.......... Don't say shit about anything unless you trust the source....

A lesson is well granted, when listened to........

C

[spacecase77]

Yeah we do but we can unsubscribe to threads we don't want to read.
Quite frankly your initial reply wasn't offering any advice about the original poster's privacy as much as just saying you don't want to read it.
I don't talk about my stuff, on the forum or in private messages, that's my personal preference, if someone comes on here and wants to talk details, as a decent human it's nice to let them know that it's not always safe and why, but just because you don't feel like reading it isn't a good enough reason in my opinion.
I don't really know what you're trying to get at with your last reply though.

[ChristinaL]

Originally Posted by spacecase77

Yeah we do but we can unsubscribe to threads we don't want to read.
Quite frankly your initial reply wasn't offering any advice about the original poster's privacy as much as just saying you don't want to read it.
I don't talk about my stuff, on the forum or in private messages, that's my personal preference, if someone comes on here and wants to talk details, as a decent human it's nice to let them know that it's not always safe and why, but just because you don't feel like reading it isn't a good enough reason in my opinion.
I don't really know what you're trying to get at with your last reply though.

I was just trying to say.... Don't post your personal stuff on the public forum.. (who knows,who is on here and taking note. Send private messages to us girls on here..... She will get a lot more responce. That's all.

Did you splash on here what your loved is in for ??? If you did, that's your choice. It is an indivdual choice......

[Missing Someone]

Originally Posted by ChristinaL

I was just trying to say.... Don't post your personal stuff on the public forum.. (who knows,who is on here and taking note. Send private messages to us girls on here..... She will get a lot more responce. That's all.

Did you splash on here what your loved is in for ??? If you did, that's your choice. It is an indivdual choice......

I find that kind of contradictory - you say don't post your personal stuff on a public forum and then say if you did that's your choice, it's an individual choice. So let the individual make that choice.

Some people are quite comfortable talking about why their loved one is in jail/prison - some people need to. If someone wants to talk about it - I'll listen.

It's a scary situation, especially if you have never been through it before and that is why this board was created....for support, for people to find and talk to people who are going throught what they are. Wouldn't be much of a message board if people just PM'd.

No, you never know who is reading, but you never know who you are PM'ing either.

[NikNak88]

Originally Posted by ChristinaL

I was just trying to say.... Don't post your personal stuff on the public forum..

That really is a personal choice...not really yours to make about what other people do or do not do. My guy has already been tried and convicted....his info is no longer PRIVATE. It's online for the world to see. I don't have an issue saying what he's in for. But others may not want to "splash" that info around....and that is their choice. You are one who doesn't want to speak on it, and that's your right. I can't say I blame you. But it's not fair to try and tell others what to do....if they want to PM, they will.... if they want to post it here in this thread, they will....and if they want to keep quiet, they will

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[spacecase77]

No I didn't, and my initial response to the OP says that a she may not have a lot of replies as to the 'why'.

I agree with you regarding posting details and personal info on the forum, and I don't feel PM is always a whole lot better because you usually don't really know who that is either.

[Missing Someone]

Funy how that works hey Fancy1

[Fancy1]

LOL! Hey, this is one place you can go online and know you have at least one thing in common with everyone else! What more could you ask for?
OK, OK, I could ask for a lot (ie a million dollars in unmarked bills) but as far as talking to a great bunch of people without judgement? This place is tops!

[Missing Someone]

I hear ya! A million dollars wouldn't hurt and yes, a place where people understand. It's a nice feeling. I know this place is an escape for me from the judgement.

[Whitbydad]

Hi Folks
Me. 3X DUI and 1 X Drive disqualified. = 30days spent 2 days in custody cause I got weekends. The rest switched to the WORK PROGRAM. Did a few hours for a few weekends. SENTENCE COMPLETE.
Folks. Please. Get good lawyers. Thats the key.
Good luck!

[missingmymuffin]

wow. holy flame war. i guess we all have the choice to say why, or not... im not going to, but thats because i dont really feel like it would make me feel better, but im not about to sit back and judge someone who wants to share.... really we are all annon here... nobody is using a full name, also we have forums on this site specifically for supporting those dealing with loved ones charged with "violent" or "sex offender" crimes... so im not really sure how we got off topic. i did read this thread out of curiosity.... but im rather sad for the OP.... no harm no foul in my opinion.... and mines in till november 2012 cuz he broke the law too!! lol but hes my outlaw <3

[NikNak88]

Agg Assault Xs 4

Agg Battery w/ great bodily harm Xs 2

Criminal Poss of Firearm Xs 1

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