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philipswifey91 · #1 08-03-2010, 07:34 AM

ok i'm not trying to sound ALL WiERD or whateverr...but my man sends me dirty letters..and i send him some too..well he says he doesn't want me to be shy ...which in person im not at all..but im not use to WRITING what iwant on paper ..ya know. its an ajussttment i have toget use too..and eventually i will..i just don't want him to think i'm not doing it right..if that makes any sense at all. lol ??? . lol but my question is.does anyone have any pointers lol ...weird question i know ..im sorry. hahha...

QPunky7408 · #2 08-03-2010, 07:43 AM

I would ummm Search websites I cant think of them right now but you can do a search. I stink at dirty talk in person/on paper etc. etc. So I use the help of the internet. Also I sometimes will just feed off his letters.

Jazzione · #3 08-03-2010, 07:57 AM

I love getting his dirty letters! I usually just pick up where he left off in his. There is this website called hoochymail.com that I have heard of people using to get ideas...you can also do a google search for erotic stories. Good Luck!

QPunky7408 · #4 08-03-2010, 08:13 AM

Thats it Hoocymail - I used to go there get there stories rearrange it to fit "us" and different words and all. It helped a lot!

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Originally Posted by Jazzione

I love getting his dirty letters! I usually just pick up where he left off in his. There is this website called hoochymail.com that I have heard of people using to get ideas...you can also do a google search for erotic stories. Good Luck!

deonsgirl · #5 08-03-2010, 08:17 AM

I am the opposite, open on paper but shy in person. My man says I write the hottest letters.

I write what I want, my fantasies, his fantasies and sometimes I "borrow" scenes from a hot movie or book. I always tell him "where" the letter came from and he loves it!!! He is saving every one of them. He says later on when we need to spice things up, we can draw one out and fulfill each word!!!!

smokeyswife · #6 08-03-2010, 09:31 AM

I love to get the "Nasty Nasty" letters...
Honestly, there isnt any pointers to give. You write him as if you were talking to him about it. You say your not shy, then you shouldnt have a problem. Being expliced (sp) as you can be, makes the letters even more interesting..
If it helps, close your eyes, picture what you or he wants done, and then let your fingers do the walking..

GO FOR BROKE GIRL

DYMOND0311 · #7 08-03-2010, 10:01 AM

When it comes to this type of thing I like to DO IT rather than talk about it..but sometimes we have to work with what we got. lol So for me I just get in that zone & just write down everything as if it were happening. From the touch of his hands to his kisses and so on... just try to imagine like he was there with you and what you would do to him and what he would do to you! hope that helps lol

philipswifey91 · #8 08-03-2010, 10:48 AM

thanx ladies alot ..i thought i was the only one out there ...who thought this way..lol

much lovee to all!

bssugafoot · #9 08-03-2010, 11:08 AM

If it helps reflect back to the last time or anytime that the two of you have been together and write the details from it. As you write more your thinking will evolve and you will enjoy and be surprised of your creativity. I have improved in the verbal and written form of erotica to my baby. He loves it! Good luck and enjoy writing.

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Originally Posted by philipswifey91

thanx ladies alot ..i thought i was the only one out there ...who thought this way..lol

much lovee to all!

Ronsbaby · #10 08-03-2010, 11:22 AM

tell him what, where and how you would be doing somethings to him if he were home --- and you can even start with well right now if you were home ..... fill in the rest! if responding to one of his dirty letter's go off of it and take it over filling in more to what he's already said -- we've done the he starts and i finish -- or i start and he finishes it from there --- ya know like were both adding to the "story" tell him how you would kiss him, how you would touch him, if your touching lighter and softer or harder and faster ya know just as if he was there and you really were touching kissing and so on ----

mallardlakes · #11 08-03-2010, 11:56 AM

I use to be the same way but since he wrote the letters first I just used what he wrote and made it my own, if that makes any sense. With time I got use to it and it became easy so now I don't have a problem writing anything at all.

**Patty** · #12 08-03-2010, 12:01 PM

You say you aren't shy in person so my best advice is to be yourself on paper!

MiaRose100907 · #13 08-03-2010, 05:53 PM

I usually just go off of what I would do to him, and what I would want him to do to me. I too, am shy on paper, but not so much in person. I would much rather DO than TALK so it's a little hard for me to think of the right.. words, so to speak lol
So far he's been pretty happy with what I write

And I'm getting better too, at our "special" phone calls. That was a tough one to conquer lol

hismess · #14 08-03-2010, 09:52 PM

oh the "special phone calls". Those i dread!! haven't quite gotten over that hurdle yet for me. now him......he's like a little dog, just jumping from one side to the other with his dang tail wagging and tongue hanging out! lol. but me.....just ain't feeling it. lol. i know i need to work on that one. but the nasty letters.....oh yeah he loves them!!!! my goal is to send that man to the bathroom within the first few sentences, and it sometimes happens that way. lol. i tend to let my mind wonder and they come to me. i do them in stories, with many parts, and each week, he gets a new part of our story. he loves them!

SJR713 · #15 08-03-2010, 10:01 PM

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Originally Posted by ravencholena

oh the "special phone calls". Those i dread!! haven't quite gotten over that hurdle yet for me. now him......he's like a little dog, just jumping from one side to the other with his dang tail wagging and tongue hanging out! lol. but me.....just ain't feeling it. lol. i know i need to work on that one. but the nasty letters.....oh yeah he loves them!!!! my goal is to send that man to the bathroom within the first few sentences, and it sometimes happens that way. lol. i tend to let my mind wonder and they come to me. i do them in stories, with many parts, and each week, he gets a new part of our story. he loves them!

LOL! They ARE like little dogs! I love it though.

MiaRose100907 · #16 08-15-2010, 10:39 PM

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Originally Posted by ravencholena

oh the "special phone calls". Those i dread!! haven't quite gotten over that hurdle yet for me. now him......he's like a little dog, just jumping from one side to the other with his dang tail wagging and tongue hanging out! lol. but me.....just ain't feeling it. lol. i know i need to work on that one. but the nasty letters.....oh yeah he loves them!!!! my goal is to send that man to the bathroom within the first few sentences, and it sometimes happens that way. lol. i tend to let my mind wonder and they come to me. i do them in stories, with many parts, and each week, he gets a new part of our story. he loves them!

LOL they are!!! Almost every morning he calls me he wants these special phone calls

Now don't get me wrong, I love them too, but I feel so odd about what to say. He does most of the talking and I do the.. well, you know LOL

SJR713 · #17 08-03-2010, 10:00 PM

Right now, my man and I are currently writing a dirty story together. And it is FUN! (I write a LOT and was shocked he agreed!) It works the imagination and since it's a story, it's easier to let go. I'll write a few paragraphs and leave it kind of open for him to figure out where I'm/we're going with it, and then he'll send back the last page with his part on the back.

philipswifey91 · #18 08-04-2010, 09:45 AM

lol OH YEA THEY ARE LIKE DOGS! LMAO!!! hahaha

CHATA · #19 08-12-2010, 08:27 AM

I love getting his xxx rated letters, so all I can say is let your imagination go wild.

SweetLadey · #20 08-19-2010, 05:44 PM

ok so how is Larch Mountains policy on "Dirty Mail?"......I once sent him a very explicit letter when he was housed in Shelto and they retured it back to me.....SO how dirty can you get? .......and what about pics......I have some naughty pics I wanna send......whats the limit on pics?

kag896 · #21 08-20-2010, 11:47 AM

So my man and I decided to do this and he sent me out a first one. Then I sent one back and he is not receiving it. He has gotten every other letter that I have sent him, even the several I have sent after that one, but he hasn't gotten this one. Have any of you ever had any problems with these type of letters getting through to your man? I am paranoid now and he is worried that he's going to get called in for rejection of that mail but it's been a week and no one has said anything. Is there some sort of rule that you can't send explicit material in the mail? Cause I'm pretty sure I've seen threads that some of you ladies do send this type of mail.

Kemo'sWife · #22 08-20-2010, 12:10 PM

Yes my fiance and I send each other dirty letters all the time and I mean there very explicit in detail and they always get through, maybe it depends on the state or facility, Where in Illinois.

mrz.crusha2005 · #23 08-20-2010, 12:14 PM

I think it depends on how explicit it is!

tannersgirl0710 · #24 08-20-2010, 12:54 PM

I sent him one and he got it yesterday, and it was pretty explicit, I wasn't sure they'd even let him have it LOL but they did, so far we haven't had any problems with it, he is in Missouri

JeromesBabyGirl · #25 08-20-2010, 01:27 PM

I think we all do this. I have never had any of my letters to him be held back. He has gottne them all.