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Loving a Violent Offender Discuss the issues of having a violent offender as part of your life. Please keep in mind that some of us are married to violent offenders. Please remember that these offenders are human, and as such, can change... just like anyone else.

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Old 08-12-2011, 07:32 PM
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I was working at pizza hut he order something I delivered it and the rest is history in the making. and I must say he was a real good tipper.
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Old 08-12-2011, 07:45 PM
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Isn't it cute to just go back and think about stuff like that...like, how did we get HERE from THERE?

Haha, me and my fiance met through his sister. She and I used to be best friends. She brought him to my house one day and actually introduced him to me as her boyfriend as a joke...and they didn't live together so I'd never seen or met him before. We were like 14 years old...so after that I was writing her little notes about how I thought her brother was finnnnnnneeeee in hopes that he would find the letters
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Old 08-13-2011, 08:21 AM
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I hope I'm writing this in the right spot... Sorry if it's not

I met my fiance when we were 2yrs old.. Our mothers went to school together and are best friends.. Our brothers are best friends.. We Always Shared are birthdays due to they where a day apart.. I moved away and he went in when he was 17 and wrote on and off for many years.. and here we are in our 30's together finally and happy as ever.. He just purposed to me in May and of course I said YES...
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I met mine a few days after I was born. I was brought home, and they said, "meet your brother."
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Old 09-11-2011, 07:56 PM
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I met mine a few days after I was born. I was brought home, and they said, "meet your brother."
What are u saying? You are in love with ur brother

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Old 09-11-2011, 08:15 PM
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I meet my fiance when my daughter from a previous relationship was 2 month old. He was friends with my roommates friend. I was sitting on our sofa getting my daughter dressed. I remember she was sick that day so i was busy all day. My hair was a mess, no make-up and in my PJs lol. So he shows at our house and was damn this guy is really hot but I was really shy and went hidding in my room cause i did look like shiz. So after he left his friend came back and tells me that his buddy kept asking him who I was cause he thought I was sooo beautiful. After that he kept coming over and we fell in love. so my babe like even when i looked like a complete mess
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Old 09-11-2011, 08:47 PM
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I met mine in high school. and now i can't get rid of him lol . . ugh 6 more months
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Old 09-12-2011, 12:29 AM
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I had a '' get to together'' to celebrate the buying of my new home, and a couple of people from the neighborhood wanted to celebrate and they had extra drinks so I couldnt be un neighboraly and there he was! within two seconds of seeing a complete stranger to leaning over to my sister telling her that was the man I was going to marry, we connected immediatly, our first kiss was on a crowded deck the most memorable kiss my leg went up as everybody watched, we have always said it felt like our first dance at our wedding with the spot light shinning and everything around was oblvious, as crazy as it sounds that night until 3 years later to our nightmare we lived 2gether,and always felt that there where never enough hours in the day. Yeah hes my soul mate!!
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Old 09-12-2011, 11:22 AM
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Mine at college, then we went dif ways, few years later we finally got it tgeva lol did she say shes in love with her brother?
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Old 09-12-2011, 04:41 PM
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i met my future to be hubby on moco space lol
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In the cafeteria when we were 12 and in 8th grade. I knew he was the one for me and would be my husband before he even spoke a word to me. Simply something I felt in my entire being. The moment I looked into his eyes it was as if I had known him forever. He said he felt the same thing and 25 years later here we are still.

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Old 09-16-2011, 05:15 PM
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I met my husband at buffalo wild wings after her spilt his beer down my shirt and told me he was sorry about the beer, but not about the view through my wet t-shirt. By the end of the night we were in love and now I just want my love home
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Old 09-22-2011, 12:03 AM
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I practically lived in my homegirls house and then one day when i was over there was some guy there. so i pulled her aside and was like "wtf who is this guy in your house", and she said "thats my cousin he lives here but hes been in prison for the past couple years." we saw each other everyday after that and i fell in love with him. it was so hilarious when my homegirl found out we were together: she caught me under his blanket! lol
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we actually met when we was 13 and i was his best friends girlfriend'
i ended up having a crush on him when my boyfriend went away upstate to a boys home. we all hung out a bunch of us in a group on his block' but then i went back with his boy for a couple of years and he went with someone and we always was in the same circle but never anthing with us' we grow up' have kids and he is neck deep in the game...
eventually he gets locked up for a 25 year bid and i hear his name from time to time from his baby mama.

then Suddenly 18 Years later he gets my number and calls my house trying to get in contact with his son'
we start communicating as friends and i tell him the truth about how much of a crush i had on him! he said he didnt know' i said" why do you think i was following you around all the time!!??" at first i was even afraid to be his friend!! but almost 2 years later i know that it was meant to be that i would meet him 28 years ago as a little girl.
a seed was planted and then 18 years later fall in love with him NOW....
hes my babylove
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Me and my husband were close co-workers.. Bestfriends we use to talk about everything. Our parents knew each other. From who was dating and all.. Me not paying him any attention he always flirted with me.. So for a while we hung out.. He never tried to disrespect me. By the time we went to the next level we was so in Love.. And we still standing..
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What are u saying? You are in love with ur brother

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Old 10-16-2011, 06:02 PM
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Old 10-17-2011, 06:17 AM
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We met on a website. However its not what you would think. We actually started off saying we both wanted nothing more than to be friends. We were both too busy to worry about a relationship and having fun. He was a few months out on parole doing his own thing and I had just gotten out of a very abusive 5 year relationship with someone and was on me time. Well over the past few months we found ourselves hanging out more...and then every chance we got. I started getting feelings for him but kept quiet about it. One night we went for a late night drive and he held his hand out and said here..I asked what he want and he grabbed my hand..it made my drop..and then w e went to an empty lot and stood outside the car while he held me looking at the sky. Later he confessed he was getting feelings for me..and I told him how I felt too. We still did not date after that. Fast forward..when we finally started dating which was just a few months ago now..we both discovered that the night drive was when we really started having MAJOR feelings. He says the reason our relationship is soo good now is that we became best friends first and learned about each other. Be also says I accepted him for who he was and did not judge him for his past...and I never have! Here we are just months later and im sticking by his side no matter what..
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I met him properly the day of my cousins 21st birthday. We had been introduced to each other maybe twice beforehand but I was shy and paid no attention whatsoever. He was best friends with my cousins half brother who isn't my cousin and was always at their house. My cousin and I were close so I use to stay at her house. On the day of her 21st I was about 15 and did her hair and makeup for the party. This was the day I noticed Nathan like the moon in a pitch black sky. I could NOT take my eyes off of him! He tried speaking to me and being the shy girl I was, I shrugged him off and actually walked off as he spoke to me LOL. That night at the party everyone was teasing me "Oooooo Nathan keeps looking at you" "you should dance with Nathan Ooo laaaaaa laaa" I was extremely embarrassed and tried not to look at him. After that we lost contact. a few months later he was in remand, was sentenced and didnt have many visitors. Almost 3 years on my cousin asks if I'd wanna visit just as a friend to make him laugh. I agreed and the rest is history!! We hit it off like a house on fire!

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I was on top of his best friend, beating her in the face with a 40oz of crazy horse malt liquor. He pulled me off of her and sat me on the hood of a car and talked to me for the next 4 hours. I left him with my phone number and went home at 2am. At 8am he called me and invited me to breakfast, by the time I had showered and thrown my hair into a pony tail - he was at the front door, meeting my parents..... That was 20 years ago. His best friend never really forgave me, but she never tested me again.
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I was on top of his best friend, beating her in the face with a 40oz of crazy horse malt liquor. He pulled me off of her and sat me on the hood of a car and talked to me for the next 4 hours. I left him with my phone number and went home at 2am. At 8am he called me and invited me to breakfast, by the time I had showered and thrown my hair into a pony tail - he was at the front door, meeting my parents..... That was 20 years ago. His best friend never really forgave me, but she never tested me again.
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Old 10-24-2011, 08:04 PM
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I. MWI and we were pen pals/friends 1st. I was online browsing profiles, I've been snail mail palling for years,and thought it would be nice to brighten an inmates day (sounds cheesy I guess) but at the time I had no intentions of falling in love. It happened after about 6 months of friendship

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AUSTIN,TX: met mine @14 years old on the chatline(how cute) he was 18(i know;robbin cradle)how gross! Of course I lied tld him I was 16 and 5years later here we still are. And I have 2 years to wait on him but he Up for Parole right now!!!
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OMGosh it was love at first site!! My boyfriend and I kinda met like a blind date, I had a friend that I had kinda dated for a couple months, and he had shown John my picture, and John just started texting,, at first I was like who is this stranger texting me, but he was just so cute and persistant I gave in. At the time I was living in Michigan, and John lived where I grew up so I decided to go home and visit my family for the weekend and meet this guy thats texting me. I text him when I got there and he called me and invited me to a wedding! I drove to his house and it was like I knew this guy forever!! It wasnt awkward at all!! LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT! It was the best first date of my life!! I am going to cry just thinking about it!! I FRICKING MISS HIM
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