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Curtis'wife · #1 11-12-2011, 07:05 PM

So today I made the 4 hour flight to visit my man. It was the day ive waited and worked for, for the last 3 months. All went well and then I landed back in TO I feel apart all over again. I love my man and was so glad to see him even through glass but now its like the first night all over again. I got home and literally cried for hours uncontrollably and even now the tears wont stop coming does this ever get easier

MiiSSiiNGHiiM · #2 11-12-2011, 07:24 PM

Aww....I know how you feel! My first visit I was extremely nervous but VERY exciting and it wasn't until I got home that it hit me, the weekend I was waiting for was done and gone.

and I couldn't go back for a month because of the snowy weather and icy roads.

But I can honestly say, it DOES get better!!

When I come from my visits now, I smile instead of tear up.

So hang it there!! Everything will be okay &hearts;

januaryflower · #3 11-12-2011, 07:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Curtis'wife

So today I made the 4 hour flight to visit my man. It was the day ive waited and worked for, for the last 3 months. All went well and then I landed back in TO I feel apart all over again. I love my man and was so glad to see him even through glass but now its like the first night all over again. I got home and literally cried for hours uncontrollably and even now the tears wont stop coming does this ever get easier

Totally felt the same thing! I've been back for two weeks and I'm more depressed now than when it first happened.

big hugs

Princess1029 · #4 11-12-2011, 07:48 PM

I know how you feel I hadn't seen my husband in 4 months, I went and saw him for our first contact visit, even got 3 days! That third day I left & had a 10 hour drive home and it was a very silent ride home with my friend in the car. I was so upset I felt exactly the same as the day he first went away

It is so hard..I know what you mean! I got through it after 2-3 days. I wrote him some letters (they were sad letters but oh well) and eventually I was back to my normal self again!

Ytisgirl · #5 11-12-2011, 07:52 PM

I was the same way. After our first visit I cried forever it seemed. Each time has gotten easier. I will not get to see him the rest if this year unless he us transferred. After our last visit in October he had it harder than me. He said he went into a depressed stage for a bit. I had to realize that I am not the only one. It affects him too