Should there be a label when people think you are together.

[valentine7]

Two people have a relationship that would make outsiders feel they are ( officially together ) but in all reality are not, and their love for each other is mutual as far as taking things to the next step. Does anyone feel there SHOULD be a label and when a their man decides to take it further that he should literally tell you? Or is that high school and things should just flow naturally?

[lovemipapi]

Things shuld flow naturaly however there needs a title/label and expressions of where everyone stands....like if you kno your love and relationship is moving along at the same pace, that's all good...however for me i need to kno what the other person feels things mean to them. I like to kno where everything stands to the fullest so there's no misunderstanding later or at present time to what's what with the relationship...then later there's no "well we were not exclusive " or "well we weren't even serious,or a couple"

[valentine7]

Originally Posted by lovemipapi

Things shuld flow naturaly however there needs a title/label and expressions of where everyone stands....like if you kno your love and relationship is moving along at the same pace, that's all good...however for me i need to kno what the other person feels things mean to them. I like to kno where everything stands to the fullest so there's no misunderstanding later or at present time to what's what with the relationship...then later there's no "well we were not exclusive " or "well we weren't even serious,or a couple"

however there needs a title/label and expressions of where everyone stands; I FEEL THE SAAME WAY! And that's what I was trying to get across but it wasn't coming out right. I want " a label " so I know where I stand in the relationship and not so much how much I would do, thank you so much

[lil peep]

If the couple wants to label themselves, then they should. But I don't think they HAVE to have a label especially if it's for the sake of other people. You should talk to each other to know where your relationship stands, where it's going. You need to be on the same page as far as expectations for the relationship, your roles, etc. If one of the people wants to take the relationship to the next level, then they should bring it up...not just assume the other person wants the same things.

[LeBeau]

And it is for this sort of thing that I invented WEHI soon after joining PTO- It stands for "What Ever He Is" and covers all those odd arrangements that defy the more common labels.

[valentine7]

Originally Posted by lebeau

and it is for this sort of thing that i invented wehi soon after joining pto- it stands for "what ever he is" and covers all those odd arrangements that defy the more common labels.

im trying to find *wehi* and i cant find it?!

[NikNak88]

Originally Posted by valentine7

im trying to find *wehi* and i cant find it?!

It stands for "WhatEver He Is". WEHI.....

LB's trademark and copyrighted acronym

Sent from my iPad using PrisonTalk

[valentine7]

Originally Posted by NikNak88

It stands for "WhatEver He Is". WEHI.....

LB's trademark and copyrighted acronym

Sent from my iPad using PrisonTalk

Oh.. Geez I feel stupid, thanks : )

[LeBeau]

Originally Posted by valentine7

im trying to find *wehi* and i cant find it?!

I invented it and it has not spread far beyond PTO but it should because it sure is useful when you're not a couple, you're not "just friends", you're not "friends with benefits" or anything else that's typically understood.

[VinnysGirl]

I think it all depends on the couples point of view. Ya know though, if it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck...it's probably a duck! Haha

[valentine7]

Originally Posted by VinnysGirl

I think it all depends on the couples point of view. Ya know though, if it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck...it's probably a duck! Haha

Haha, loved the way you put it, and I hear you two ladies out. iT really does depend on the couple

[Leowoman]

I definitely think couples should discuss the boundaries of their relationship and if that creates a label so be it. I've been in many different types of relationships including polyandry and communication has been key in all of them.