Should I stay or go?

[Jaspersbae]

So my fiance is sentenced 12 years or whatever he is so jealous always accuse me of doin stuff & I'm not doin nun but today he call me he is n county still & says ily bae den wen I answer we talk or whatever & I say who u talkn to just beening silly ol me & he says some bitch name baby doll so I say or u serious he say yes we said we was goin to be honest & I say u playn huh he said no but I dnt talk to her on no ily type shit so I said I can't trust u for shit & he say man I'm playn I hung up n his face & he call bck 2x I not answer he saids he met her cuz his friend gal brung her friend up there

[mrs.marks]

Sounds like if you stay with him you're gonna have to deal with a bunch of middle school games. It's up to you whether or not you can deal with that.

[brooks]

Drama, if you want it, stay.
On the other hand, going in is stressful, but on the other hand, his actions got him there.
So, can YOU face 12 yrs of being a nun ?

[MRS.GRIFFIN]

Pray about it
do mention to him yall are grown not in middle school

[InmateLover67]

Originally Posted by Jaspersbae

So my fiance is sentenced 12 years or whatever he is so jealous always accuse me of doin stuff & I'm not doin nun but today he call me he is n county still & says ily bae den wen I answer we talk or whatever & I say who u talkn to just beening silly ol me & he says some bitch name baby doll so I say or u serious he say yes we said we was goin to be honest & I say u playn huh he said no but I dnt talk to her on no ily type shit so I said I can't trust u for shit & he say man I'm playn I hung up n his face & he call bck 2x I not answer he saids he met her cuz his friend gal brung her friend up there

Do you want to spend the next 12 years explaining your every move and being accused of doing shit you are not doing?

I do not like the way he talkes down about women....like "some bitch called baby doll". That is disrespectful even if he is joking. Do you want to be with someone who treates women like this?

Sounds like he needs to do his time, without having you to put down and accuse you of everything under the sun. You also do not seem to communicate very well....you two are unloving when you speak to each other, from what you posted here.

You have to decide if this is how you want to live the next 12 years of your life, or rest of your life for that matter. If you are planning on holding him down for 12 years, I would like to believe it is because you see a long-term future with him.

I hope it all works out for you.....but really, if neither of you trust one another, why bother????

Peace~

[countryzgirl]

Sorry - I have no earthly idea what you said in your post. Evidently others are better with text speak than me. Could you please clarify? Thanks!

[InmateLover67]

Originally Posted by countryzgirl

Sorry - I have no earthly idea what you said in your post. Evidently others are better with text speak than me. Could you please clarify? Thanks!

I was thinking the same thing when I first read it, but I figured I would wing it and see how close I was to knowing what was being said...lol

Peace~

[DougsCandy]

Originally Posted by countryzgirl

Sorry - I have no earthly idea what you said in your post. Evidently others are better with text speak than me. Could you please clarify? Thanks!

Girl you are just making all kinds of people fall outta their chairs tonight

Sent from my LG-P509 using PrisonTalk

[missmybebe]

Originally Posted by DougsCandy

Girl you are just making all kinds of people fall outta their chairs tonight

Sent from my LG-P509 using PrisonTalk

Bwahahahahaaa!!!!

[Ms. Tazzie]

Ok,, after some SERIOUS decoding,,,, *I* think he's full of it,,, just ask him if it's alright for you to talk to some guy but not on any ily (i love you) ish... If he is already accusing you of doing things,, that a pretty good indication of his guilt.
Ask your self if you want to sign up for 12,, twelve,, XII (roman numeral) years of the madness.
I know you dont want to bail on your man while he's locked up,, but do you wanna go insane?? And PLEASE don't think he DON'T call you the same thing he calls Baby Doll behind your back,,, cause I'd bet a fat man rollin in fifty's he does. Is that alright with you?

[shaunna]

I had a lot of trouble even understanding your post (i don't do the whole text type thing) but it just sounds like a some immature game playing? Sounds complicated already


*edit* just read everyone elses response... glad to see I wasn't the only one that couldn't understand it, makes me feel a little better now Lol

[pisces317]

he's only being his self and thinking that your his and he can have as many as he likes,some guys just dont it and am so glad that your getting it,hope you make the best choice for your happiness good luck

[Olderthanmost]

SMH! Thats about all I know about text talkin!