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bricesPnut · #1 06-01-2012, 09:54 AM

Sorry all ladies but I need to write something down or let it out how pissed I am before I'm going crazy...... So this sun of B***H (my ex)tried to get his mom talk to me again and sending me $$ so he can talk to me but i refuse and tell her straight up that me and him are done and I don't want to hear from him ever again so she understand that but again this asshole keep calling me which I didn't picked up I was so happy with what I'm doing but just about to brake down today. I call to cancel his mail but they said they can't stop the mail from mailing out... Ughhh kill me!!!! I HATE HIM!!!! .. This kind of ppl dont know what's the word" we are done mean"

**frostwoman1954** · #2 06-01-2012, 12:15 PM

Sweetie, the solution to this problem is simple. Change your phone number (this can be free if you tell them you're being harrassed by your ex-abuser) and when mail comes, mark it "REFUSED!" and send it back unopened. Don't let him cause you to break down. You lose your empowerment that way. If you need me for anything, you may PM me.

Michele

**LeBeau** · #3 06-01-2012, 12:36 PM

Do you have a restraining order?
If you do, enforce it.
If you don't, then get one that specifies NO contact by any means.

canadiangirl098 · #4 06-01-2012, 01:56 PM

i agree with what the other 2 have stated as well if you dont want him contacting you by phone or mail

InmateLover67 · #5 06-01-2012, 02:03 PM

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Originally Posted by bricesPnut

Sorry all ladies but I need to write something down or let it out how pissed I am before I'm going crazy...... So this sun of B***H (my ex)tried to get his mom talk to me again and sending me $$ so he can talk to me but i refuse and tell her straight up that me and him are done and I don't want to hear from him ever again so she understand that but again this asshole keep calling me which I didn't picked up I was so happy with what I'm doing but just about to brake down today. I call to cancel his mail but they said they can't stop the mail from mailing out... Ughhh kill me!!!! I HATE HIM!!!! .. This kind of ppl dont know what's the word" we are done mean"

I say burn the letters when you get them, block his calls and tell him Mom you do not want to hear anymore about him, PERIOD!

I am surprised that she is supporting him in wanting to contact you, she has no respect for you if she is giving you messages from him. He has abused you and she is contributing to him being able to conact you, Mom needs a wake-up call. If she is telling you about him wanting to talk to you, then in my opinion, she is contributing.

Stay strong and keep moving forward with your life.

Peace~

bricesPnut · #6 06-01-2012, 02:29 PM

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Originally Posted by InmateLover67

I say burn the letters when you get them, block his calls and tell him Mom you do not want to hear anymore about him, PERIOD!

I am surprised that she is supporting him in wanting to contact you, she has no respect for you if she is giving you messages from him. He has abused you and she is contributing to him being able to conact you, Mom needs a wake-up call. If she is telling you about him wanting to talk to you, then in my opinion, she is contributing.

Stay strong and keep moving forward with your life.

Peace~

His mom will always on his side no matter how he hurt me how he cheat how he stole... All she said ohh really (sound so surprise )and sorry for his action.That's it!! she said she been through this and she said she understand obviously she don't cause she never do anything about it.Can't blame her tho IT'S HIM!!

bricesPnut · #7 06-01-2012, 02:13 PM

Thank you ladies I'm def changing my # I didn't done first place cause I thought everything was done he never call for a while but at this point I'll get it done about the mail I'll do like what u said

I'm done · #8 06-04-2012, 11:31 PM

no his mom is wrong. She can stand by and love on her son but she needs to leave you alone. I love my son but I would never ever ever tell his x anything, its a domesticviolence case and I know if it was me I wouldnt want any info from him. I love my son and stand by him but I dont say a word to the victim.
I'm sorry you r going through this. But the other ladies are right listen to them, you may have to take legal actions aganist the mom ifshe doesn't leave you alone, that's horrible.

welderswife · #9 06-05-2012, 01:08 AM

why can you not contact the warden's office and inform them he is harrassing you thru the mail? Surely if they can stop any priveledge and inmate has they can stop him from contacting you.

bricesPnut · #10 06-05-2012, 08:19 PM

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Originally Posted by I'm done

no his mom is wrong. She can stand by and love on her son but she needs to leave you alone. I love my son but I would never ever ever tell his x anything, its a domesticviolence case and I know if it was me I wouldnt want any info from him. I love my son and stand by him but I dont say a word to the victim.
I'm sorry you r going through this. But the other ladies are right listen to them, you may have to take legal actions aganist the mom ifshe doesn't leave you alone, that's horrible.

I never call the cob on him about dv he got locked up bc he was robbed bank