Down, sad... need help

[reesesweetie]

Ok im really down today. I just can't seem to do anything. Everything reminds me of my baby. Saturday is our anniversary and it is so depressing. How do you handle the pain, the lonely nights, the cold mornings, all that. I'm so lost. I love him with all my heart, i truly do. He is my soul mate and we both know that. I just do know how to handle and take in all this. What do I do? I need help to get through this

PLEASE HELP

REESESWEETIE

[Terrysgurl]

You handle it one day at a time!

[love14]

hey there Sweetie I know i can speak for almost everyone because i know how it is to go thru that feeling not a day goes by that i dont miss my man. ANd when the holidays come around especially. Congradulation on your anniversary. I also have gone thru 2 anniversaries and without my baby to spend the day with, But just be patint and be there for him and the time will pass and youll have other anniversaries. Cause i know that he is also feeling the same feelings and remembering your anniversaries and he's sharing that with you emtionally and that is what make your love so much more truthful and loyal.

LEtty

[prisonwidow]

When anniversaries or special holidays roll around I go out and celebrate them for both of us and then write to him about it. I am his eyes and ears on the outside and he enjoys me "living" for both of us.

[taylormade]

Hey chicka!! Well i write Lee when i'm down. Not about how depressed I am, but how much i love him!! Thats when i come up with the best stuff. It reminds me of the good things we had together, and what will come when he gets home, and it helps boost his self-esteem a little too. Oh yeah and I get on PTO and VENT VENT VENT. (I've been doing pretty good here lately though) We all have days like you are having, that's why we are all here. PM me anytime you need to talk or wanna bi**h and moan!! BIG HUGS to you!!

[hheavenly69]

i look at his pictures get out some paper and write to him and tell him everything and i try to think about all the fun things we are going to do when he gets home and that helps me get through the hard times