We r now seperate

[tommysgirl113]

Well where do i start...My man cheated on me before he went in n now he has a baby girl out of it well he is 99% that its his baby girl so needless 2 say i had 2 tell him i can accpet taht i cant accept another woman carried his child,another woman gave brith 2 his daughter n that baby was conceived when we was together n tryin 2 have a baby ourselves i cant accept that.Well he told me baby we should seperate until he comes home so at this point i dunno wat is gonna happen im tellin myself i can make myself accept this baby but deep n my heart i kno i cant but i love him so much n dont wanna walk away from him even though he brought all this on hisself i dunno which way 2 go my mind is goin crazy ppl tell me i should dump his a$$ cus im 2 good 4 that but ya kno it aint taht easy when ya love sumbody 2 jus walk away but im sry i jus needed 2 vent.

[poni'swoman]

It sounds to me like you know what you should do. And he doesn't seem to be trying to encourage you to stay with him. Move on. There are too many good men out there that won't be making babies while they are supposed to be with you.

[California Sunshine]

I'm sorry to hear this.I know its hard to walk away when you love someone believe me but you have to decide what you can and can not accept.If you can't accept his child concieved while with you (Yes that would be very hard because not only did he cheat but he produced a child from it) then seperation is probably the best thing for you.You have to do what is best for you
Hang in there

[MsAloha1018]

My heart hurts for you. I know how hard it is to separate from someone you love so much. Only you know what is the right course for your to take. I wish you all the best that life has to offer. And there is PLENTY of good stuff out there for you! Mourn this loss and then just take things one step at a time.

{{{HUGS}}}

[LovingYou]

Take it day by day. It hurts a lot now, but with time it will hurt less. Same thing happened with my sister. She was with this guy for like 10+ years and he cheated on her with a call girl and got her pregnant. Does not sound like he is bending backwards to keep you. Good luck with your decision and stay strong. There's plenty of fish in the sea.

[AmyLynn]

Hugs!! You are doing what you need to do for yourself...

[tommysgirl113]

Jus wantin 2 say thanx so much...yall r tha best !I havent heard from him nemore since Friday so i dunno mayb he will call tomorrow i dont kno nothin nemore all i kno is i think that im gonna let it go ive thought n thought so much but my heart is tellin me one thang n my mind is tellin me another but once again thank yall so much!