what do i do

[dazednconfused]

hi im new to pto, my exboyfriend and i have always stayed friends and over the 5 years we have known each other would go alwhile and be mad but always say how much we still love each other, so much so he moved across county to be with me. but things got rocky after he had been here awhile and then he had a new girlfriend well i found out she's a minor and now hes in jail awaiting court because of his relationship with her shes 13.
And im so upset and feel betrayed, but im also worried about him and how he will fare in jail.. and i know that i cant let myself be invloved with him anymore , but i think i need to write a goodbye letter, anyone ever been in my shoes

[amanda8088]

Hi,
Welcome to PTO!
Im sorry to hear that you are having to go through this.

I am sure you will get good support and some advice from the other members.

I wish I help you more than this, but I know someone will tell you the right advice.

I wish you well with this difficult situation.

Amanda8088

[mrsford]

Welcome to PTO. I cannot say I have ever been in your shoes, but I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. My opinion is you don't owe him anything. No farewell letter, no explanation of any kind. Good luck. I wish you well.

[angelsgal67]

welcome to pto

[JJsPenPal]

how old is he?
sorry you're hurting.
no 13 year old girl should be in relationship with anyone other than
her teddy bear.

[HoneyBee4Me]

Obviously you'll have to decide for yourself what is best for you and we don't know enough details to make an informed decision.
The other girl sounds awful young.

But if he's really a close friend, I don't think writing a good by letter will do it. Just take some time and evaulate the situation. This may be a time when he really needs his friends and you may regret cutting ties.
I'm not sure if you feel betrayed b/c of her age or that he simply had a new girlfriend.

[snuggles22]

Hello & Welcome To PTO!