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Criminal_Lesbia · #1 04-28-2006, 04:17 AM

I met a girl in juvenile detention and she is the first girl I ever fell in love with and I found the number she gave me her home phone number when she got out like 2 years later I got out of prison and today I tried to call her and I found out she is now in prison for sale of controlled substance. I am on probation and my probation officer is not too happy with me with the things I’ve been doing. But I don’t want to get locked up again I still love this girl.and shuld I invite her to live with me when she gets out?

angelica916 · #2 04-28-2006, 04:40 AM

Personally I would focus on getting your life straight before taking on added responsibility.
You know what they say, sometimes you have to love someone from a distance.

BabyBooWV · #3 04-28-2006, 07:11 AM

I agree. You have to take care of yourself and the things in your life before you can take care of someone else. I truly in my heart believe that everything happens for a reason. In the long run if it was meant to be it will be. Give yourself time and get your head straight first. I hope everything works out for you!

MonkeyBoi77 · #4 04-28-2006, 04:08 PM

Take it from someone who has been there done it on alot of things, take care of yourself first

JJsPenPal · #5 04-28-2006, 04:37 PM

definitely write to her and see how it goes. she may not be the person you remember. be cautious but hopeful and don't ask her to live with you until you've visited her many many times.

HardHeadedWoman · #6 04-28-2006, 11:44 PM

I agree with everyone else but you may also want to check into it with you being on probation she may not be able to live with you when she gets out.

robs_angel · #7 04-29-2006, 05:57 AM

You need to take care of yourself, but at the same time, write, and see how it goes from there. I would not offer your house right a way. Good luck!

Criminal_Lesbia · #8 04-29-2006, 06:15 AM

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Originally Posted by JamiesFeatherwood

I agree with everyone else but you may also want to check into it with you being on probation she may not be able to live with you when she gets out.

She can live with me because I will be eather off probation or the worst out of Jail by then and I don't want her liveing in a homeless shelter srounded by drugs

Ravenslove · #9 04-29-2006, 06:17 AM

Just because your out of jail or off probation doesn't mean you can live together. Many Po's put restrictions to stay away from all known felons in the stipulations of parole or prc. Write her but take care of yourself. Good luck