It's taking a toll on me

[JayJay's Boo]

Everything in my life is taking its toll on me. Right now I live with my parents. I moved out of an apartment since JayJay has been locked up. I couldn't afford the rent on my own but anyways ever since I lived at my parents, it's like... I'm being dependent on everything. I have to cook dinner for my dad and my nephew and wake my dad up. My first 2 oldest sisters * i have 3 oldest sisters* gets to go anywhere they want and expect me to do everything. I clean the house, I cook dinner, I babysit, I do everything around here. It, I admit, is taking its toll on me. I feel really lost since JayJay isn't here to help me and comfort me. I live here at my parents rent free and so does my 2 oldest sisters. My 3rd oldest sister has her own place and her own son and a stepson and her boyfriend. But its like, my 3rd sister expects me to visit her and everyone else expects me to do this and that only because I'm usually home. That's like no excuse. *sighs* I don't know what to do to revise this situation. I'm tired of doing everything in this house.

[mlynnm]

Well, my dear I know that feeling all too well. I live in a similar situation, I live with my dad ( in his house ), my son and two sisters. And just like you everyone expected me to do everything around here because I'm here the most. Well to heck with that, I got fed up myself and you know what I did? I went off on my sisters. I'm sure that wasn't the best thing to do but it worked for the most part. Everyone does work in this house now ( besides my dad, of course ). We all sat down and made a schedule for housework, each of us getting two days a week washing dishes and cooking. And one day a week we all do a complete house cleaning and throughout the week we each pick up when needed. Sunday is everyone's day off.
So I would suggest sitting down and having a talk with your sisters. Otherwise your gonna end up in the hospital due to a nervous breakdown. If you wanna talk please PM me anytime.
{{{{Hugs}}}}, Melanie