His daughter is pregnant how do I deal?

[MsPiggy]

Hi! I just needed to vent and get some advice on how to deal. I got a call from my man's 17 yr old daughter yesterday telling me I was going to be a grandma. I wanted to cry cause I felt I like got kicked in the stomach. See my man has kids and I have none of my own. So these are like my children but still not the same. Although I am disappointed in her and wish she wasn't going through this I will support her 110%. The question is how do I deal with my own feelings because it hurts to know his kids are having babies before we have a chance too. We do want kids of our own but have to wait obviously. This is highly upsetting and depressing to me. I feel like I have to sit here while life passes me by. I am only 26 and my man is 37. So I mean its not like I don't have time but still. Thankfully my man is very understanding and talks with me about things like this but it doesn't take away the ache I have in my own heart. How do I cope?

[butchies_girl]

I know how you feel Piggy hence the mask. You just gotta be patient and tell her how happy you are for her and go home take the mask off and let you true feelings show and rest in the fact that you and Kermie will one day have one of your own

[QueenBizzle]

Mspiggy,
Your time will come, God has a plan for everyone and yours is being made as we know it!!!! Your still young, beside I'd rather be mature and have all the kid stuff put away before having a child, 17 wow she has no idea what she's in for. As you know Im 26 also and expecting in October, and Im scared to death!!! She's lucky to have someone like you to help and support her!

[joenash4lyf]

Well look at is as experience..lol. You can have the baby some days and help out.I'm sure if you and your man are to have kids someday you will.God works in myslterious ways.She's only 17 and will need some guidence you can be that for her.It sure will keep you busy..God Bless

[MsPiggy]

Thanks, for the words of advice. I think its my own hurt pride I can't get over. I am way too emotional these days.