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HeatherT · #1 10-03-2003, 10:01 AM

Does the cold weather that's appearing, seemingly out of nowhere in NJ, make you miss your honey more? I miss getting all bundled up with him in layers of clothing and going to walk in the park or drive around with nothing to do. Sometimes we would even go to the shore when it was cold. He loved the ocean and wished we could live at the beach. Maybe one day...

But I was just wondering what makes you miss your honey? The weather, holidays, etc. Let's share...

miz_pandora · #2 10-03-2003, 10:11 AM

i was thinking the same thing this morning as i hit the snooze button for the zillionth time and covered up in the blankets. i miss him always but one morning to snuggle away the cold is a fantasy that seems forever out of reach. boy do i miss the small things i use to take for granted!

Janel · #3 10-03-2003, 10:23 AM

I know exactly what you mean. I live in California but the weather just recently turned cooler, with clouds and drizzle all day. I think that may be the reason for my latest depression. I was doing fine these 8 months and suddenly this last week just hit me hard. It is either the weather or hormonal (hahaha). Maybe I just need chocolate.
Oh well,
Janel

ABEJAY · #4 10-03-2003, 10:42 AM

For last few mornings the same thing has gone thru my mind. I remember us snuggling under the covers in the morning and I really miss him. Between the cold and the days getting shorter, I'm feeling a little depressed. You are not alone.

melanie · #5 10-03-2003, 10:49 AM

i feel the same way i have wrote my husband about how i wish that he was here because i was cold! he just laughs at me! but i hope that he will be home soon!

Kaci · #6 10-03-2003, 11:27 AM

Yep...like waking up this morning...it's cold...wanting to stay in bed a little longer but no one there to enjoy that warm bed with.

Ms.Heather · #7 10-03-2003, 12:07 PM

I am not ready for the cold weather AT ALL. I just told my hunny that the other day. I woke up and it was like 30 degrees. Way too cold for October.

Funny how we all think the same way... LOL.
Only 14 more cold winters to get through...

HeatherT · #8 10-03-2003, 02:32 PM

I just think in the morning that I miss rolling over and snuggling next to him and having him keep me warm. It's so hard doing this. I'm so happy to see that I am not alone in all this.

JoAnn Marie · #9 10-03-2003, 03:08 PM

I miss EVERYTHING about him but as the weather grows colder, I think of the holidays and really begin to miss him. Hopefully, this will be the last Christmas we spend apart.

JoAnn

MizzCandy · #10 10-03-2003, 03:20 PM

I was just telling my cousin I hate the holidays We used to have so much fun snuggling and decorating and him eating my moms cooking AAAAWWWWW I am gonna cry now!

HeatherT · #11 10-03-2003, 03:32 PM

Thank God I have all of you this holiday season. I'm going to hate it. This is our third Christmas together and our second time being apart!

I hate the holidays when he isnt here!

Preciousrain · #12 10-03-2003, 04:37 PM

I just keep thinking about the two hour drive in snow and icy weather. Man, I'm really going to miss him...

HeatherT · #13 10-03-2003, 07:49 PM

I hear ya on that one! I'm thinking about that 3 hour drive while it's icy and snowy while I'm 8 months pregnant!

**Slainte** · #14 10-03-2003, 09:27 PM

Yup, thinking just last night as I crawled under the blankets alone, why can't he be here to keep me warm???? Rumor has it, it's going to be a bad winter in New England this year... I already told my honey that they better let him out on his detention hearing Nov. 10, cuz I'm not driving on icy roads to go see him!!

cutiepy37 · #15 10-04-2003, 08:12 AM

well we live in orlando so it doesn't get too cold here, but in the summer we get our rain! he loved in when it rained. so every time we get a good storm i cuddle up in bed and think of him. when he used to be here, he would open the blinds, hold me in his arms and we just lay in bed and listen to the rain beat up against our windows, one thing led to another...and well....anyways, i miss him!!

AzGal · #16 10-04-2003, 09:13 AM

I wish it was cold here just a little it was seriously over 100 degrees yesterday and it's October!!!!!! I would love to see some rain or even some snow. But yeah it never gets cold here only cool. I can imagine though if it were to get cold how much I would want to snuggle up with my guy in bed. That would be the best.

LUVFRNKH · #17 10-04-2003, 03:14 PM

I know how you feel. I don't know if it's the weather changing and the leaves on the parkway turning, but there's something in the air making me miss him tremendously bad this week. I put all these extra blankets on the bed and still can't get warm. Anyone else know the feeling? The days are getting shorter, but the nights just keep getting longer and longer. You guys aren't alone. I for one am sharing your pain. Hope it gets better for ya'll, looks like it's going to be a long winter here.

MRSMAZE · #18 10-04-2003, 04:48 PM

Today is our son's eight birthday...It was his first without us being together and it really hurt, I was in a room full of people but felt all alone. Weird...I went out on the porch a little while ago after everyone had gone and it is kinda windy here and he called to talk to our son and when I got back on the phone with him I had an overwhelming feeling of loneliness, the kind only he can heal...cold weather seems to do that to me.

HeatherT · #19 10-04-2003, 05:59 PM

God I went out with his family today. His sister Amanda is 13 and she is a cheerleader and she had her first competition today.

It was so sad being there with his family and knowing that he wouldnt be there with us. I, for the first hour or two, kept trying to convince myself that he was just at work and would be showing up any minute. Then it started to sink in after I looked over at a guy across the gym and said to Louie's other sister Krystal (16) "Look there's Louie." And she looked at me and gave me a hug and said it was okay, that it wasnt him. It sunk in then that he wasn't coming.

It was so sad. I missed him so much, especially when they all started talking about good memories they had of him and I just kinda sat there and smiled but inside I was dying. Then, when I went outside, the wind was whipping and the temperature was about 50 degrees and I was freezing and he wasnt there to wrap his arms around me and keep me warm.

It was just a sad day for me....