So frustrated

[mikeyswifey]

This waiting sucks so badly, not knowing where my husband is going or when he is going to get there. I found him finally in KC yesterday... (which is only 3 hours away)... and it listed him as having visitation this morning from 11-2.. so I'm thinking, sweet i can maybe go see him and figure out what going on... So I called this morning and asked if he would still be there by 11 and was told no, he was being transfered as we speak. I wanted to scream... at least the guy was nice enough to tell me that he was gong to Benton County today (he said I'm not supposed to realease this information but since you're his wife...) I'm just so frustrated, he can't call unless he's bein booked into a new facility, I can't send letters, because he's being moved at least once a day... Yes I know, every step is one step closer... but it still sucks.....
sorry needed to vent... my family all thinks i should leave him so I'm basically on my own with the kids =/

[TLWWIFE]

I THINK WE HAVE ALL BEEN THROUGH THIS MY HUSBAND WAS IN RECEPTION FOR SIX WEEKS WHERE i COULDN'T TALK ON THE PHONE WITH HIM OR VISIT. BUT YOU KNOW WHAT I WOULDN'T GIVE BACK THE GREAT JOY I FELT WHEN I OPENED HIS FIRST LETTER TELLING ME DON'T CRY THAT HE WILL CRY FOR US THIS TIME AND THAT HE MISSED ME AND OUR GIRLS AND FELT JUST AS ALONE AS I DID. TO KNOW THAT HE WAS OKAY AND FEELING THE SAME WAY I WAS AND WAS THINKING ABOUT ME JUST AS MUCH AS I WAS THINKING OF HIM WAS SO COMFORTING. HANG IN THERE YOU'LL HEAR FROM HIM SOON.

[my-T-sad]

Bless your heart. It is so hard not knowing what is going on. You can't really help but panic even when you know deep down he is not happy at all but he is ok. He will be ok and so will you but it is pure hell in the early stages of this.Feel free to lean on us as much as you need to. Thats how we all managed to get through it.

[takenmomof3]

Hang in there!! I know exactly how you feel. While my man was being extradited from AZ to CO he was in various county jails and every time I'd plan on driving hours to go see him before he was over 1,000 miles away, they'd move him!! I havent seen him in 4 months but will see him soon now. ITS extremely frustrating, just know you are not alone and you can come to PTO day or night and we're all here for you!!

[j.d]

The move SUCKS. They leave em there just long enough to get comfy then off they go again. My baby went like a month with no mail from me cos everytime i sent it he moved and they would fwd it and he moved so fwd again again you get the drift. He ended up with a whole bunch at once though so he knew he was being loved all through it.
Hang in there he WILL settle eventually.