are you completely open to how sad you are with him???

[x'sgirl]

My boyfriend and I are very honest and open about everything. He tells me when he is having a bad day and just needs me to listen and I do the same. I try to stay strong during visits and over the phone but sometimes I just break. He is strong when I need him to be for me and I am strong when he needs it from me. It is great how that works. But we also share when we are having wonderful days and the amazing feeling of being in love and having your best friend beside you every day.

[bnj112307]

Originally Posted by my-T-sad

hey there miss bride to be. I try to hide when I'm sad but he knows and he thanks me for being his strength but gosh no I don't feel strong. There is something I have been wanting to say to you and now may not be the greatest time to say it but here goes. Be trying to prepare yourself mentally for when they send him to prison. it is like the house falls in on you. I wish someone had told me this so I could have been better prepared to deal with it. His lawyer told us he would get probation and he got 20-33 months. I didn't even go to court with him. Anyway your man is going to be devastated when that happens and if you are somewhat prepared it will be easier on him. Sorry to be a bummer

THANK YOU SO MUCH. i really am grateful for people like you... and im being completely sincere and this is coming from the bottom of my heart. i know that he is going to prison... thats like a fact... and i am definitely preparing myself for it... and for him....
and he is also preparing himself for it... and for me. we are like a team. i just have my days like everyone else you know... but yea, it just sucks when i miss him so much it hurts... i am definitely a strong person... i know that. i just like venting a lot on PTO. lol. but ive come this far, and im not letting go. i already promised... i know when he leaves to prison its going to be a little easier because i could actually touch him. county really sucks. i hope that everything goes smoothly too. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR WORDS.. dont worry... you werent a bummer. lol. i kinda had this coming anyways. thank you.

[j.d]

No i dont hide it, if i am quiet about it he asks more are you ok are you sure i sense somethings wrong whats going on. Easier on both of us if he knows the truth then he dont have to worry about the what it could be's. I always try to end on a positive note and that i feel better now, i think hed be upset if i kept him in the dark.

[twixnstix]

i mostly just let him know in letters, phone calls i try my best to be positive for both of us. its hard sometimes, and i miss him terribly, but i know its just as hard on both of us.

[hiswifey11]

I tend to watch what i say
because i dont want him to worry about me
he feels bad already i know that
why would i beat a cripple down
he is at his lowest and i dont like diggin him deeper
he loves me he sorry
the rest i dont need to let him know
he doesnt mean it

[jusdiva]

My hunnie knows me too well for me to hide anything. If I have had somewhat of a rough day, he can always tell in my voice regardless if I am trying to hide it or not...he just knows. He is good like that!!!! I would NEVER hide anything from him b/c I know he wouldn't do it to me. That is not how our relationship works, although, I am like the rest in saying I don't want to bring worry upon him if I can help it...as he has too much on his plate already.

[meeganv]

There was an issue last night and I asked him if it would be better if I just kept those kinds of feelings to myself, because they "torment" him since there is nothing he can do about it. He told me no...that would be lying (by omission) and he doesn't want that. If I have issues, emotionally and mentally, they are our issues. And we deal with them together, even if it has to be on the phone.