Notice to new members intending to register - from January 9th 2012

bnj112307 · #1 03-12-2008, 11:53 PM

hey ladies!
well first off i want to say hi to all of you.... i know we have either probably had our good days, and some of us have had our bad days... but in the end, here we are... thinking of our men and still staying by their side!

well, march 13. my birthday... my 21st birthday...
wow. i finally made it to the age of my dreams right!
well not really....

the man that i love and cherish the most isnt here, and i dont know what to do to take this horrible pain away from my heart. im so sad that i dont have him. and im sitting here crying my eyes out... LIKE LITERALLY RIGHT NOW.... thinking about what he's doing, and if he's thinking about me as much as im thinking about him. my birthday is here, and he isnt. and im so sad. i have no idea how to deal with this pain. it hurts to not have him here with me. i dont know what to do. im just so sad. what can i do though really? well, i get to atleast visit him for 45 minutes through glass... thats always a good thing. at least i get something right? well... im sorry ladies. im just sad that its my birthday and the only thing in this world that can make me happy wont be able to. and thats a pain i need to learn how to deal with.

thanks for reading. and dont forget... i love ya guys! a lot! more than you guys think!

KSNDJ · #2 03-13-2008, 12:00 AM

Don't be sad! Well try not to be. The thing about life, actually time is that it waits for nobody. You only turn 21 once, enjoy it, do things that will make you happy. Just b/c your man is locked up doesn't mean you can't enjoy life.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BabygirlNGary · #3 03-13-2008, 12:06 AM

Happy Birthday! Ive spent one birthday so far away from my love May will be 2 birthdays. This time apart has been time for me to really concentrate on making my family's life better not only for when he comes home but for the rest of our lives. I work all the time and am going back to school for my bachelor's degree. I get knocked down by life alot but take my blows and get back up stronger than I was before. Your 20's are a time of self discovery and growth. He will be very proud of the things you do to better your family while he's gone. Dont waste a second of the time you have. Always strive for the best. The sky is the limit!!!

miss_my_tony · #4 03-13-2008, 12:08 AM

Try and have a good birthday hun..mine was two weeks ago and was absolutely awful this year cos it would've been my first birthday with him in my life

Even though he's not there I bet he would love to hear you say you had a good day, I went shopping with my friend on my birthday, hardly a massive party but I felt pretty good after a lil retail therapy!!

missinghim23 · #5 03-13-2008, 12:18 AM

aww girl im cryin with u

i think about this all the time my birthday is less then 2 months away and he wont be here for it and his just passed this is so hard i know

... but u only turn 21 once and he would want u 2 enjoy it not sit in and cry over him so go try and have some fun ...

HAPPY 21st BIRTHDAY GIRL!!!!!!!

tands · #6 03-13-2008, 12:22 AM

BNJ,
HAPPY EARLY BIRTHDAY!!!! I know it's not the same without your man by your side, but I am really happy for you that you get to see him. (and for 45 min wow! CJ in LA only gives you 10...yep) You never know he might have a surprise for you!

If I were you, I would grab my closest girl friend and have a drink with her. I would feel a lil off having a party without my guy, but you should give yourself a nice night out with your girls.

again...HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!

stacey4415 · #7 03-13-2008, 02:07 AM

Happy Birthday!

I'm glad you get to see him, even if it is only for a while

Try and have lots of fun, when i miss my boyfriend dearly i go shopping! Sounds silly but it makes me feel better and then i tell him about all the things i bought

Have a wonderful day sweetie!

rockys babygirl · #8 03-13-2008, 03:04 AM

Happy Birthday. Do something that makes you happy. i don't think your man would want you to sit home and be sad.

Sei · #9 03-13-2008, 07:23 AM

Happy birthday to you girl. I totally know how you feel celebrating your birthday while your man is locked up. My birthday is coming up on March 16th and it'll be the second time celebrating my birthday without him. Well, I hope you have a wonderful birthday and don't be sad, I know your man wouldn't want to see you sad. Have fun on your birthday.

jezz056 · #10 03-13-2008, 08:14 AM

HAPPY BDAY from one Pisces to another!!I just celebrated my 25th this past sunday without my Fiance and that was hard so I know how u feel!!!This is my second bday without him=(.Keep your head up and GO out today with soem girlfriends!!Its okay to get ut and celebrate ur BDAY!!.Afterall, You only turn 21 once!