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gentle · #26 06-01-2008, 02:26 PM

In all honesty, since he has soooo long, I wouldn't trip if he did get involved with a FEMALE while he was inside. I mean-in our case, he has 17 more to go...years that is! I'm not crazy-I'm realistic. He is also realistic. As long as we are there for each other-that's all that matters. Now, we haven't got into giving each other permission...this rule is simply understood. For me, I'm more of an emotional lover. So if my heart isn't involved-my body isn't either. Men however are very differnt than we are. Men can have sex...and call it "just sex" and actually mean it. We have a hard time seeing it that way-because most of us only give it up if we feel emotionally connected. You know?

Wobabi · #27 06-01-2008, 02:35 PM

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Originally Posted by gentle

In all honesty, since he has soooo long, I wouldn't trip if he did get involved with a FEMALE while he was inside. I mean-in our case, he has 17 more to go...years that is! I'm not crazy-I'm realistic. He is also realistic. As long as we are there for each other-that's all that matters. Now, we haven't got into giving each other permission...this rule is simply understood. For me, I'm more of an emotional lover. So if my heart isn't involved-my body isn't either. Men however are very differnt than we are. Men can have sex...and call it "just sex" and actually mean it. We have a hard time seeing it that way-because most of us only give it up if we feel emotionally connected. You know?

Gentle me and you think a LOT alike!

robs_angel · #28 06-01-2008, 02:37 PM

sounds like a set up be careful