Conjugal states would you prefer that...

[MzVirgo]

IF you knew there was a possibility of your man to get in trouble again would you move to states that allow conjugal visits to make life easier for you, and you alls family if you had one or planned on having one?

This is just a weird thread...it was on my mind so I posted it.

For me I would I mean I went enough years without him and since we plan on having children and things I would prefer moving to a state that allowed conjugals also because he'd probably do better in a state where he isn't well known.

These are the states that allow them:
California Connecticut
Mississippi
New Mexico
New York
Washington

[eddiesgirl1]

i dont know really im very close to my family leaving tx would be very hard for me lol but conjugals sound good even phone calls would do it for me lol

[j_v_g05]

i sure would travel if i could or move sooo we can get down to it ; )

[lmonet]

NO thanks. I wouldn't move

[laydlyke]

Ahh what a very thought provoking question!

You know, I'ma "go with your instinct" type chick, and my first reaction to reading your post was, YEP! So, I'ma go with that...yes I would moved to a conjugal state.

[MzVirgo]

Originally Posted by laydlyke

Ahh what a very thought provoking question!

You know, I'ma "go with your instinct" type chick, and my first reaction to reading your post was, YEP! So, I'ma go with that...yes I would moved to a conjugal state.

Yeah my thing is why not...I mean if you know your guy is probably going to get in trouble again or something else stupid could happen why not?!

[laydlyke]

Yeah that's how I feel. See, we're thinking of moving to Syracuse NY anyways. But I never thought about it being a conjugal state until now. But regardless, we have no kids to uproot and my house is paid for, so yeah, why not?

[my-T-sad]

I'd move in a skinny minute

[krackergrl]

darn right

[donutandpickle]

No.. if he wants to get into trouble again he can move to another state by himself.

[1Luv4Him]

Originally Posted by donutandpickle

No.. if he wants to get into trouble again he can move to another state by himself.

RIGHT ON GIRL!

that's exactly my thought on the matter as well. after going thru all this with him, and his way to 'thank me' would be to get into trouble again... hell to the no!

[NowHisWife]

Good question. But no I wouldn't move to another state to get conjugals cause he might mess up again.

[Cookies Babe]

I agree that I wouldn't move just in case he gets into trouble again. He better not! However we were thinking of moving to Cali anyway so who knows.

[robs_angel]

Yep in a min,

[Capribry]

Originally Posted by donutandpickle

No.. if he wants to get into trouble again he can move to another state by himself.

Girl I was thinkin the exact same thing. I'm not gonna keep putting my life on hold and stressing myself out for a man that thinks jail is so cute that he needs to keep going back. I mean I kinda understand if you get caught up into something but usually that isn't plan. How many times do I guy have to go to jail before he starts smelling his own s**t and realize he needs to better himself?? Ladies like how would that conversation come up..."um boo I know you still doing criminal s**t so lets just move to New york so that we can have conjugal visits...you know just in case" I wish my fiance would say some mess like that to me. I'll check his ass into a mental hospital cause something is obviously not right with his brain...especially asking me!!

[Rena]

No way. There is not going to be a next time.