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misshim1307 · #1 06-15-2008, 05:35 PM

I love my man and no matter what I could never do anything other than wait for him. I would rather be with him while he is in prison, then be with any toher man outside of prison that I could see 24/7.

But do you ever get these tiny fits of anger for just and hour or even just a couple of minutes where you are just straight pissed about what you're having to go through? I go through my day and latley I've been fine and keep thinking about the positives, and then today, for like 5 minutes, I was just pissed... and then was fine lol. Wierd I know, but I know I can't be the only one...

Who else ever gets this way?

thugwife · #2 06-15-2008, 05:53 PM

Yes, and hes been in almost 9 years this rip. I am finding myself overly anxious now because he should be coming home next year. My mind is on a 24 overload. I constantly think about us and the future and even more about sexual relationships, and I NEVER try to do that because it makes it very hard. I think I am past the point of being angry but I do know that I constantly tell him, I am not going thru this again. This is the second time. But, I would say I have anger spells

LostTime · #3 06-15-2008, 05:57 PM

Well I have tiny fits of anger and then I BIG fits of anger and then I have GIANTTTTTT fits of anger LOL
He's been in for 5 years now with a little less than 4 to go and I have minutes and then sometimes I have hours and then sometimes I have days and then sometimes I have weeks but I think it all has to do with the emotions and sometimes something triggers something a smell a song a store anything and your mad and sad and everything all at the same time! So hang in there and You know what it's ok to be mad sometimes now not all the time LOL but sometimes you should allow yourself that and then let it be done and not feel guilty about it later!
God Bless

misshim1307 · #4 06-15-2008, 07:22 PM

so true. it almost made me laugh today because it was like i was a 2 year old during the terrible twos stage lol. there's just times where you dont know why this is going on in your life when it wasnt something you did, and you cant help who ya love... and theres days when you dont feel like wondering why your going through it, it's more like "WHAT THE HELL!? WHY?!" (with a few cuss words) lol

Sunshine26 · #5 06-15-2008, 07:37 PM

LOL...I can relate to all of you only today instead of bouts of anger I had about an hour of tears. I tell him too I am NEVER doing this again. My issue today is that I just miss him. He moved this week and of course I haven't heard from him & I'm positive he hasn't heard from me either. To top it off this new place is on LD so who knows when I'll hear his voice again.
I ought to be angry today but I'm just wondering how he survived his move and if he's ok.

Stay strong ladies...we are pretty special to be able to stand by our men as we do. We are entitled to have days of different emotions.

Ms Nick Deere · #6 06-15-2008, 07:46 PM

I think we all have been there,it is hard to go through what we are going through,It takes a strong women to handle a situation such as we are we need to give our selves more credit then we do give ourselves,we should have a couple of hours to have a fit,we take care of everyone else so i mean its part of getting some of that stress and worrys of your shoulder.To get to the point its normal.

iloveyoumore · #7 06-15-2008, 08:01 PM

I feel like a weenie but I haven't had a fit of anger yet. Now if you were talking about my ex-husband I often have fits of anger. Because he is willing to be a piece of pooh and not see his kids or help by paying child support our lives are so much harder than they need to be. I don't expect my man who is in prison to do anything for me other than give me love and emotional support. That's all I can give him most of the time and he is okay with that. But my ex- is happy living in his camper 10 minutes away picking his face, and loosing his teeth (sexy). I am trying to be as independant as possible but with even a little help I would do better. I digress but that is who causes my small, medium, large and super size fits of anger!!!

lilithinwaiting · #8 06-15-2008, 08:38 PM

Oh, Yes, I am the queen of fits.. I can rage on for hours. LOL I can be angry about other things in life and by the time I am finished I have included my husband and this situation and before it is over , I have worked my self into leaving , running away, filing for divorce and on and on.

flforever322 · #9 06-15-2008, 08:44 PM

Yes. I do get little fits of anger sometimes at Baby when I think of the little things that went wrong along the way that kept us from getting back together long ago. They were little but still... I sometimes start getting a little "fit" after I've been worrying over a lockdown or when I'm perfectly ripe and he's not here to tend his garden.

But they pass quickly. Especially after I hear his voice.