NO LONGER Stuck Between 2 men, Part 3

[i'mstillhere]

Hello, it's been a while but I have had alot going on. But I have the ending to the story. It was painful but the outcome is GREAT. I took alot of your guys advice and I stayed with the man who was in prison and let go of my first husband. Well hubby number 2 got out of prison and was deported to Mexico. My grandmother decided that I needed to fallow my heart and gave me the money to go to Mexico to be with him for 2 weeks. So I packed and head for Tijuana airport and borded a flight to Jalisco, Mexico. He was there waiting for me. It was a wonderful time. I cried my eyes out when I had to come back, but I told him that I would figure out a way for us to be together. Well a week later I got a phone call from him. He was back in the U.S. He could not stand being without me so he took it in his own hands to fix it. I was upset about the illegal entry stuff but was happy to see him anyways. Well he got a job and things were looking up even though we had to be looking over our shoulders. Well he got locked up 11 years ago when he was 18. Well he still acted like he was 18 and we could not see eye to eye on one thing. One day I suggested therapy through the church and he flipped out on me. I told him that he had to leave. He left and quit his job and went back to the rough lifestyle that he swore that he was done with. I guess he did it thinking that it would hurt me but I'm ok and he is the one regretting it now. Well in the process the guy that has been by my side all this time went to my grandmas house to give her some money for me in case I needed it. He didn't want to bother me if I was with some one but he wanted to make sure I was ok. My grandma let him know that i was having a hard time dealing with the fact that I wasted my time just to be alone in the end. FIRST hubby came to my rescue yet one more time. I don't regret a thing because I knew that i needed to give the guy in prison a chance or else i would always wonder what could have been. Well now I have nothing holding me back and I know that the man that is the one was the my first love and he was right under my nose the whole time. I just needed a rude awakening to realize it. I filed for divorce from hubby #2 and me and hubby #1 are taking it slow. Now I know that we both needed some growing up and our relationship is so much better now that I have nothing to hold be back. So the relationship is over and I'm really ok. Thank you all for your advice. If you need to hear the begining of the drama please read part 1 and 2. Once again thanks.

[melancholy]

Congrats.... what a relief.

[PTO-110524]

So glad it all worked out in the end. Congrats and all the very best to both of you.