What does YOUR faithfulness mean to your man?

[jeswannabhiswyf]

Thug, I like your way better. I'm gonna ask L tonight in my letter and see what he has to say. Hopefully it won't be long but I'm definitely coming back to post it

[Miss Superwoman]

My being faithful to him means I trust,I trust him and the love and friendship we have built all these years.Not only that I trust it I believe in it and it is enough until we can be together again in everyway.This was very good thugswife.

[jonivea]

My faithfullness means EVERYTHING to my husband and if there is none of it, then it is NO US, and the same applies for me to HIM....

[EternallyHis]

I know for one thing is that he said it makes his time 'easier' knowing he doesnt have to worry about me being out acting crazy....but now I am inspired and i think I will write him and ask him straight up as well...thanks for the great idea!

[QPunky7408]

My man had said to me when we first got "back together" I dont expect you to not "do you" but hopefully in time you will choose that on your own I am not going to tell you that you have to but if you ever decide to do that I would be very special to me because you chose to do it. But its only been 5 months and I still havent chosen not to do my thing out here. I love him but I love me more haha and me needs an occasional booty call....Also I am not married and if I was it would be a different story but right now its a dating thing just like if we were dating out here and different dates ere different purposes..lol

[BlueEyedEllie]

Originally Posted by A'S GIRL

HEY, speaking of faithfullness, does anyone ever wonder about their man being unfaithful while in prison?? AND I DON'T MEAN IN THAT WAY lol? My Man was always faithful....BUT....am i naieve to think that NOTHING is going on in there. You hear these crazy stories of inmates fooling around with woman CO's, counselors, who the hell knows. In this day & age, NOTHING surprises me. Anyone else think these crazy thoughts?? Or is this ridiculously far fetched...

honestly, that has never been a concern of mine!!

[jeswannabhiswyf]

Yay! He called last night. Daddy said, my faithfulness means the world to him. He knew years ago that I was the only females he's had in his life that he could trust, but this just confirms it. My faithfulness means that he is the happiest man on earth because he is completely satisfied. It means he is truly blessed by God because when he prayed for a wife, I was the answer He sent. It means he was a fool for letting me go all those years ago instead of forcing my to stay in DC with him or deciding to move to NC with me. And it means he's forever in debt, he owes me a lifetime of honor and respect for being true to myself, our marriage(we're already married in his mind), and him.

GOOD THREAD THUG!!!!!! I was near tears last night on the phone. I'm already siced they let him off lock-up on his birthday. He did tell me he doesn't get his visits back until 2-4-09, but hearing what my faithfulness meant to him erased everything else in my mind. The convo got real mushy! I'm sitting there with the school girl blush, my nieces and cousins(12 and younger) looking at me with their faces mushed all up like something "stank"(no, not stinks but stank). Excellent thread, plus L said thanks for allowing him to tell PTO 'bout his wife.

[thugwife]

OK 471 views and 31 replies, whats up ladies did ya'll forget about me?

[revred]

Hi everyone, I am sort of new here. I joined up some time ago but have not been very active. Faithfulness is the cornerstone of our marriage and our relationship from the first day we dated. We talk about this alot. He is very proud of the fact that he doesn't have to worry at all about me tipping out on him. It gives his world some meaning in a place with no meaning at all. We are in our 6th year, 6 more to go and the thought has not crossed my mind, not one time! I find that it gives me a stronger self respect and I have all the respect that a woman could ask for from my man. As far as the question about them cheating in there, sure it goes on. My husband was in school and the teacher was so obsessed with him that we had to report this woman. When we were just about to get our trailers back she told him that she was going to do everything in her power to make sure it didn't happen. She tried, but it cost that #itch her job!!! If there is women around, a man can cheat. It is all about that individual man. I hope I don't offend anyone by saying this, it is just my opinion. If they cheat out on the streets, the chances of them cheating when they are down is greater. I do believe that men can be faithful. I never believed it until I got with him 10 years ago, but I know it now. Nice to meet you all. red

[Temeron0926]

In Ray's own words: EVERYTHING