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Val912 · #26 05-22-2010, 02:05 PM

thats great!!! and keep us posted on how it went for you guys

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Originally Posted by baby_ bird

I like it. I'm gonna send it to him tomorrow, thanks!

Val912 · #27 05-22-2010, 02:06 PM

your welcome!! and let us know how it went

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Originally Posted by Lady_Chanel

Excellent thread! I will most definately send this to him and let you all know the results. Thanks for sharing! God Bless.

Neener6983 · #28 05-27-2010, 08:06 PM

Well my baby sent his back filled out and it was amazing we were actually dead on with everything, but still it helps to know what his needs are. It was beneficial to me just seeing what he had to say about each of the needs. He loved that I sent it so it definitely was a good result!

mrruiz · #29 05-27-2010, 08:15 PM

Val912, I think you and I think a lot alike. You might enjoy a book called The Love Dare. it takes these question so much further. Its dares you do different things for 40 days. My husband and I have really enjoyed doing them and we really learned a lot about each other we didn't know. Thank you for your continue support, Its refreshing to see some positive things for a change.

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Originally Posted by Val912

no problem.. and please share if and how this excersise helped you guys

Val912 · #30 05-27-2010, 10:35 PM

omg thats awesome!!! i bet it feels great to know in black and white how your both in tune with each others needs and wants. Unfortunately me and my hubby didnt match one answer but it did give us alot to talk about and we discussed how we are each going to do to make sure the other one gets what they need and feels loved and fullfilled in our marriage. Im glad to know you guys benefited from this and your growing stronger and more committed

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Originally Posted by Neener6983

Well my baby sent his back filled out and it was amazing we were actually dead on with everything, but still it helps to know what his needs are. It was beneficial to me just seeing what he had to say about each of the needs. He loved that I sent it so it definitely was a good result!

Val912 · #31 05-27-2010, 10:38 PM

the love dare?? hmm im gonna check it out tomorrow at barnes and noble and send a copy to my husband!! Yea i actually got this while attending anger managment class

and we really benefited from this excersise and well there is alot of negativity in some of these posts, but we all want one thing and thats to be with our men and make it work and well i decided to share. And i encourage all those who try it to share how it worked for them sort of a testimonial if you will. Maybe if others read the women who tried it and if it helped them improve their relationships well they might try it and so forth.

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Originally Posted by mrruiz

Val912, I think you and I think a lot alike. You might enjoy a book called The Love Dare. it takes these question so much further. Its dares you do different things for 40 days. My husband and I have really enjoyed doing them and we really learned a lot about each other we didn't know. Thank you for your continue support, Its refreshing to see some positive things for a change.

Tina · #32 05-27-2010, 11:25 PM

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Originally Posted by mrruiz

Val912, I think you and I think a lot alike. You might enjoy a book called The Love Dare. it takes these question so much further. Its dares you do different things for 40 days. My husband and I have really enjoyed doing them and we really learned a lot about each other we didn't know. Thank you for your continue support, Its refreshing to see some positive things for a change.

This looks very interesting. I'm going to look into it and see what I think. Thanks for sharing.

Damask8 · #33 05-28-2010, 12:36 AM

The love dare is a great book for couples- it saved my bestfriends marriage. even if you dont participate in the dare, its still a great read.

Val912 · #34 08-24-2010, 07:54 PM

ok so weve had a bumpy couple of weeks and so i had to send him this again and our answers totally changed from when we first tried it!!! and now were back on track!!! definately keeping this handy

hisqueen2012 · #35 08-24-2010, 08:19 PM

Another good read is "the 5 love languages" a lot like the dare book being dicussed. They also have one for teens and I think even younger children. Obviously as time goes on your 5 love languages can change as in prioritizing them. You obviously need all 5 but which is most important. As do the kids as they grow. Its great for self discovery as well as what you learn about your spouse significant other and or kids.

Val912 · #36 08-24-2010, 08:32 PM

yes my sister recomended it also and im buying it this friday !! thanks for the tip

hisqueen2012 · #37 08-24-2010, 08:41 PM

Praying wife and praying husband are good ones. The other side of love is a good one. Gary smalley books. Joyce meyer books. James Dobson is good. Kids in danger is also good. Wild at heart is another awesome one..they actually encourage the wife to read when husband is done reading or you could always read it first and then send it to him lol

thuy_duong · #38 08-24-2010, 10:56 PM

Thanks for sharing these book-read ideas. Our relationship is good, but it can always be great... gonna go check out some of those books you've all mentioned! I like a good read!!!