Married Women! I need ur advice PLEASE! How to decide to marry

[His Goddess]

Thank u girl!

[deonsgirl]

My man and I are both spoiled. But we both believe that the house and kids are equal responsibilities. Getting married shouldn't put a ton of burden on you. Together we have 6 kids and a grandbaby, granted they won't all live with us when he comes home. But the ones that do, we will share the burden of everything. We have already decided it should all be 50/50, not 90/10. If you know in your heart that he's the one, follow your heart.

[cat0006]

good luck to you! If you love him enough to marry him then the "wifey duties" won't even feel like that. lol. I do however recommend finishing school before you have kids though. It's really hard. I was married young and had to drop out of college cause I was pregnant and never did go back. I've tried a couple of times just wasn't able to do it, however I did end up with two of the best girls in the world and wouldn't trade that for the world!! We ended up divorced when my youngest was three months old and now they are 16 and 18 and I'm planning an April wedding to the man i've been with for the past three years or so and am happier than ever! So basically, every situation is different and its only what you make it. Everyone's scared, if you're not then somethings wrong. It's a big committment that only you will be able to decide you're ready for. If he loves you he'll wait either way

[His Goddess]

Thank u yall! We talked about it and hes more then willing to help me. Love my boo!