a little confused

[his_love_4ever]

Ok so me n my man r going on 2 yrs of being together..i met him through my mom she was writting his dad and they aske dme 2 write him i agreed..well at the time n still 2 this day hes dad is married n my mom fall n luv with some1 else and married this person his dad has no idea.. i feel like its nt my place 2 tell either of them wats going on but its my moms place i feel stuck n the middle hes dad said no matter wat i will always b apart of his family and i feel like my mans mom gonna hate me due 2 my mom being with her husband but she gots a new man as well.. ehhh its so confusing..do u think it should affect our relationship based on wat goes on between our parents??

[msmarrie]

It's not your place. They need to handle their own mess.

[qylaila]

You are correct this is very confusing I am lost myself.....but to answer your question no it shouldn't play a roll in your relationship at all it should not affect what you have with your man. I do however feel you need to make it known that the two of you should stay out of it to everyone involved.

[his_love_4ever]

Yes i have asked my man if anything tat happens between his dad n my mom would effect us he said no tat tats between them

[qylaila]

Originally Posted by his_love_4ever

Yes i have asked my man if anything tat happens between his dad n my mom would effect us he said no tat tats between them

If you are responding to me, I am not just talking about your man. The father needs to know just like your mother needs to know. Don't just assume for them to just leave you or him out of it!!!

[his_love_4ever]

Originally Posted by qylaila

If you are responding to me, I am not just talking about your man. The father needs to know just like your mother needs to know. Don't just assume for them to just leave you or him out of it!!!

Yes i was responding to u sorry i didnt put it that way.. and his father does know n so does my mother they said ok.. i just think all this will still effect it in 1 way or another...

[qylaila]

Well all you can do is just wait until you get to that point if you ever get there then face from there.