You Guys I have an update!

[HisLady4ever]

Okay I know you guys remember that the last time I posted I was happily in love with the man of my dreams who lied about how much time me actually had but by me being the woman I am I put that beside me and I gave him a second chance enough though he lied. So then after that he proposed to me at a visit of course I accepted and I thought he was really trying to change and by him making me his wife I felt like that was the best thing he could have did. So after that I start to make plans for us to get married and it was like a sign from God, then I notice he started calling all the time asking me why didn't I answer the phone, it was like a controlling attitude out of nowhere. Then I actually catch him up in a lie I know for a fact that I'm not the only one he has been writing and seeing and having phone calls with. So when I asked him about it his responds was we aren't married yet! I'm like no he didn't. So I over looked it, then when I actually had a long talk with him he wanted me to come see him, I went and drove 2 hours and when I got there they said he already had a visit for that day, so when he called I asked him and he said that it was a female friend of his, and the bad thing was he knew I was coming that day and time. So I told him I don't want nothing else to do with him and I'm not going to put up with it anymore. So after a few months of being single a old friend of mines I have been knowing since middle school came in my life we have been together for 8 months and we plan to get married after I finish school maybe 2012. He is respectful and he is supportive. I haven't heard or seen my ex since that phonecall now if he really loved me and I was the only one then he would have been trying to work on our relationship. I heard from his sister that he is dating his ex now probably the same girl that visited him that day I came up there! I feel like I just got a 20lb bag off my bag and it feels good. After 2 years of being used for money and comfort I'm glad to say that I'm blessed that it was 2 years instead of 6 years!

[HisLady4ever]

Oh yeah you guys let me erase that signature!!!!!!!!!!! lol

[alwayshim]

Glad you wised up and are now happy!!! Guys in prison can be real dogs. I had a x that had quite the business going he was getting money letters all kinds of stuff he wasn't choosy he'd be gay he'd be straight he be jewish he'd be what ever they wanted him to be but honest. He made more money off women & men in a year in prison then I made for two years, Oh yeah he even had some guy buy him a harley!! That was deliverd to his brothers house. So whenever I hear someone finds out they are being used I'm sorry for them but glad the dude got busted!!

[HisLady4ever]

Yeah I mean I'm so happy and I don't hate him I thank him and I forgive him because if he wouldn't have been a real azz hole then I would have never met the one for me!!!!!

[tearfallzbreak]

Oh man if i would have drove and found out someone else visited and he knew i was comming he would be done. Im glad you have found someone else and im glad you saw the signs sooner then later. you deserve the best... Im happy you have opened you heart to someone else good luck.

[HisLady4ever]

Thanks it wasn't easy I must admit I had to get over my trust issues and I told myself before making it official between my new bf that I wasn't going to not trust him because of what my ex had done, I open my heart to him and to my surprise he has been the best! and I love him for that my ex was a instant shocker how he started acting prison turned him into a pig, no let me change that prison don't do anything to a person, you have to do it yourself so it's no excuse really! Thanks tho

[mrs.bug]

I'm happy that you've found a new man but I hope you're looking at him more carefully than you did this one. Your ex gave you plenty of signs that he was a dog. That relationship should have been over years ago.

Good luck with everything!

[BlueEyedEllie]

You go girl!!I'm glad you got your happy ending after all.

[canthelpbutwait]

I am glad that you found happiness and love Sometimes it takes a few wrong relationships to find the right one

[losowife]

Originally Posted by alwayshim

Glad you wised up and are now happy!!! Guys in prison can be real dogs. I had a x that had quite the business going he was getting money letters all kinds of stuff he wasn't choosy he'd be gay he'd be straight he be jewish he'd be what ever they wanted him to be but honest. He made more money off women & men in a year in prison then I made for two years, Oh yeah he even had some guy buy him a harley!! That was deliverd to his brothers house. So whenever I hear someone finds out they are being used I'm sorry for them but glad the dude got busted!!

lMAO i was having a bad day and after reading this post it made me laugh soo hard especially the part about having a buisness and being anything they wanted him to be tooo funny lol

[SexyChef1]

Sweetie u got your HAPPY back! I'm so happy to hear you have someone in your life who's worth your time.

[WaitingForHer1]

Originally Posted by misspatterson18

Okay I know you guys remember that the last time I posted I was happily in love with the man of my dreams who lied about how much time me actually had but by me being the woman I am I put that beside me and I gave him a second chance enough though he lied. So then after that he proposed to me at a visit of course I accepted and I thought he was really trying to change and by him making me his wife I felt like that was the best thing he could have did. So after that I start to make plans for us to get married and it was like a sign from God, then I notice he started calling all the time asking me why didn't I answer the phone, it was like a controlling attitude out of nowhere. Then I actually catch him up in a lie I know for a fact that I'm not the only one he has been writing and seeing and having phone calls with. So when I asked him about it his responds was we aren't married yet! I'm like no he didn't. So I over looked it, then when I actually had a long talk with him he wanted me to come see him, I went and drove 2 hours and when I got there they said he already had a visit for that day, so when he called I asked him and he said that it was a female friend of his, and the bad thing was he knew I was coming that day and time. So I told him I don't want nothing else to do with him and I'm not going to put up with it anymore. So after a few months of being single a old friend of mines I have been knowing since middle school came in my life we have been together for 8 months and we plan to get married after I finish school maybe 2012. He is respectful and he is supportive. I haven't heard or seen my ex since that phonecall now if he really loved me and I was the only one then he would have been trying to work on our relationship. I heard from his sister that he is dating his ex now probably the same girl that visited him that day I came up there! I feel like I just got a 20lb bag off my bag and it feels good. After 2 years of being used for money and comfort I'm glad to say that I'm blessed that it was 2 years instead of 6 years!

Your sister said he is dating his ex now. Oh no he isn't. A date is when a man picks up a phone at his expense and takes a woman out at his expense. He's locked up and he aint dating no one. I think your sister meant to say his ex is allowing this man to put his foot into the doorway of her life and use her again. Betcha don't know which one to feel sorry for.On a lighter note I am soooo happy for you. You are a beautiful woman and deserve to have a caring person in your life.

[HisLady4ever]

Thanks but I think you read it wrong I didn't say my sister I said his sister! But yeah I'm happy and thank you guys for all the support and words can't explain how I feel now that I have let go a big problem and the comment about I should have been let him go, he wasn't been acting like a azz he had started to act like that for only a few weeks maybe a month!

[pisces317]

gurl you been real good cause god brought a real man into ur life and next yr god's willing ur going to get married,this dude trying to be a player from prison it ain't that serious,you do you cause he's obviously doing him