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ButtaPecnKiss4U · #1 02-04-2011, 11:02 AM

soooo i was watching an episode of woman behind bars that i had DVR'd and it was very interesting to find out now that the lady has gotten her life together who is still incarcerated.... she cannot be given a conjugalwith her new husband???!!! in my mind im like why is this fair where men only in the states that allow conjugal to take place can receive them... but women cant!!! okay yes pregnancy is a issue but if she is married and wants to begin a new life with her other half shouldntit be allowed??? so then im like what if these women are given birth control ans an option to those who dont want kids..... yes yes it is expensive... but it was brought to my attention that low income families are given little cost or free birth control... so how is it different in this case... shouldnt the same steps be taken??? i believe it should be provided, and depending on the income the payment for it can be determined. i have also noticed that when men go to prison women tend to flock to them even more
(4 whatever reason) and women tend to get abandoned!!! if they eliminate the lack of intimacy reason... could this cut down on those abandonment issues???

toadyy · #2 02-04-2011, 11:40 AM

I know in California women are allowed conjugal/Family visits if they are married. You are allowed to bring 10 condoms for your visit. And some men do leave there women once they are incarcerated. I for one will not leave my Fiance. She has 15 more months to do and the she is out.

ButtaPecnKiss4U · #3 02-04-2011, 01:24 PM

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Originally Posted by toadyy

I know in California women are allowed conjugal/Family visits if they are married. You are allowed to bring 10 condoms for your visit. And some men do leave there women once they are incarcerated. I for one will not leave my Fiance. She has 15 more months to do and the she is out.

thats very commendable of u to stick by your mate!!! if thats the case in cali thats good... but what about the other states???!! the anchor woman said no states allowed had allowed them... so maybe alot has changed since the original air date... which is a good thing but for states other than cali.. its still not allowed... which is sad