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JustaNJgirl · #1 02-01-2011, 06:50 PM

Tues are his nights to call. So far, no call, and it's getting late and I am assuming no call. I am sure he couldn't get the phone because they (like us) are under a huge winter storm, and they are low staffed, because no one can get in to work. So he can't call, and I am sure he is flipping out thinking I am gonna be mad at him for not calling. So who takes it worse when the plan falls through, you or him? (in my case, he does....I'll get a call tomorrow, or Thurs, or Fri telling me how sorry he is, and how sick he was over it.....blah blah blah....)

angeldoll · #2 02-02-2011, 06:56 AM

oh he does, if something doesnt go his way or plans fall thru, i HATE it just because of how it gets to him. ima try and get him to be more laid back when he gets home.

angels_girl · #3 02-02-2011, 07:21 AM

He does. It really upsets him when plans fall through like calling me or going to see him. Dont get me wrong I hate not being able to visit sometimes but I take it better than he does.

ms3D · #4 02-02-2011, 07:28 AM

i do, i be straight trippin when i dont get a letter or a call when i want! then i apologize for being a mean crazy B%$@#! lol

mrszrod · #5 02-02-2011, 07:30 AM

He does, especially when the phones are tied up & he can't call at our scheduled time, or when it takes his letters longer to get to me

june5 · #6 02-02-2011, 07:33 AM

I would say he might slightly be worse but when there is an issue and he can't call or if I am planning to visit and can't for some reason, we are both pretty bad.

ilovebigg · #7 02-02-2011, 09:34 AM

he does and he is full of drama when things go wrong,especially when he cant call.He tells me how he couldnt breath and how he almost died.Sometimes i want to laugh bcause its just that funny. I love him so much hes my baby but sometimes that man just needs a serious chill pill.He will learn sooner than later.

alwayshim · #8 02-02-2011, 09:36 AM

He does!!! He's a big old baby when any plans or set things fall through. Not to say I don't have my own issues, but I have more control over my life at the moment.

ifound4ever · #9 02-02-2011, 11:09 AM

Ummmmm, I wanna say he does because he is more verbal than I am!! I hold on and/sensor what I say more often than not (not so good I know cause I tend to go big when I'm full) but whenever things fall thru he's all nervous and anxious and/or on edge and he let's errr body around him know it!!

I on the other hand am more reserved lol! When things don't go according to plan I feel ummmmmmm "a certain way" but I've learned nothing is ever full proof or guaranteed with the cdc, and so I've adapted so to speak! If I don't get a call I get an lil anxious maybe even on edge a lil but then I call the hotline check my home forum to see if something has happened and if nothings been announced I just wait!! If they go on lock down or something on or days to visit, sure I get upset but it's "par for the course" I guess!! Him on the other hand, if I miss a call he thinks the worse, he's all like "what's wrong, what happened, are yall alright, why didn't you pick up" and I always respond the same way, in the calm monotone that he hates so much I'm like "babe I'm at work I couldn't pick up right then", he gets himself all worked up over nothing and/or sh+t we have no control over! OH yea he definitely takes things far worse that I do!!

"I'm just saying" (in my snookie voice, hand gesture and all) lol!!!

Chulita28 · #10 02-02-2011, 03:33 PM

He deffinately does. When he hasnt called me on the days he says he will I kno that its just cus he couldnt get the phone in time. Cus they all share one phone for like 30 people and they all hog up the phone in their cell. Lol. I kno he is the one tripping out waiting for the phone.

JustaNJgirl · #11 02-02-2011, 07:49 PM

Still no call, and I know he's upset about it. But it is what it is. We can't control it....they control when he can have the phone, when he can use the phone. Ugh, this stinks!

OoMiracleoO · #12 02-02-2011, 08:37 PM

With us...its a tie!

FutureMrsM · #13 02-02-2011, 09:10 PM

I do...without a doubt. Especially since I'm new to this whole prison thing. He's been in before he and I got together. I used to think that he could call whenever he wanted and didn't realize things like lock downs existed. I'm going on 2 days waiting for a call as well. I'm not upset about it this time because I know why he isn't calling. If I didn't know, things would be totally different. I'd be flipping out something serious!

lovinMr.SPENCER · #14 02-03-2011, 01:11 AM

This is a tricky one i think its a tie maybe i know when it comes to phone calls its me i get so upset with him but I try to remember that its only a few phones to a bunch of inmates but i still hate it but as far as visits i think that may be a tie cause it hurts my soul when i plan one and cant make it and i knw it hurts him he trys not to let it show so much but it does

JustaNJgirl · #15 02-03-2011, 07:02 AM

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Originally Posted by FutureMrsM

I do...without a doubt. Especially since I'm new to this whole prison thing. He's been in before he and I got together. I used to think that he could call whenever he wanted and didn't realize things like lock downs existed. I'm going on 2 days waiting for a call as well. I'm not upset about it this time because I know why he isn't calling. If I didn't know, things would be totally different. I'd be flipping out something serious!

My guy is in your neck of the woods, nice to know no one is callin...I was begining to think it was me....<whew>

Tina · #16 02-03-2011, 05:26 PM

When it comes to phone calls I think I do, but when it comes to other stuff he does. Guess it just depends

FlaminHotCheeto · #17 02-03-2011, 05:29 PM

I do most def!

JustaNJgirl · #18 02-05-2011, 07:14 AM

He def does. He called last night (3 days later then normal) "I was crying for 2 days for the phone, they finally gave it to me" LOL

lovingwifewaiti · #19 02-05-2011, 07:18 AM

I do I think. He is in survival mode.

Peach&Cream · #20 02-05-2011, 10:34 AM

it depends on what the situation is, phone calls - i trip out more than he does now... he's the one behind that wall he knows why he cant call me & assumes that by now i should know it's an issue about not being able to get to the phone and not about him being in any kind of trouble, but still after all these years i stress with anger over not getting that call, our calls our like a blood line keep'n me / this relationship alive!

but if he asks me to do something and or if i've asked his family to do something and things do not follow through OMG he takes total lead in "taking it for the worst"