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MichaelsGirl143 · #1 05-31-2011, 03:29 AM

I am currently waiting for his sentencing date on june 2nd. Very very nervous.. I feel like throwing up :/ I am 6.5 months pregnant and hoping for a release soon. Thanks for your support ladies. Ill let u all know how it goes

MikesWifey · #2 05-31-2011, 06:14 AM

I hope thing turn out for the best

willi2c9 · #3 05-31-2011, 06:17 AM

Stay strong and stay by his side it will mean the world to him

ejandcgirl · #4 05-31-2011, 06:50 AM

I know how you feel, my fiance is being sentenced today, and I'm going to be 40 weeks pregnant tomorrow. My prayers are with both of you. Try and calm down, it's not good for the baby to put yourself through so much stress. I know that sounds hard, but try your best. You've got support here whenever you need it.

elishaxo · #5 05-31-2011, 07:34 AM

My thoughts are with you. Stay calm for bubs xx

lovesjames · #6 05-31-2011, 09:31 AM

Hugs to you! I hope everything turns out well for you. My man was sentenced last month, he got 27 months and he's already been in there over a year. Waiting and not knowing is super hard when you're getting a big dose of both at the same time. You'll have this done before you know it and then you'll look back and say "Wow, how did I do that?" Hang in there!

MichaelsGirl143 · #7 05-31-2011, 02:10 PM

Thanks everyone.

Im trying my best and over all ive been doing well the past 4 months.. Im just nrrvous of what the outcome will be.

nathalie112 · #8 05-31-2011, 02:25 PM

good luck and stay strong, just try to stay relax for you and you baby!!!

Turbo413 · #9 05-31-2011, 03:53 PM

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Originally Posted by MichaelsGirl143

Thanks everyone.

Im trying my best and over all ive been doing well the past 4 months.. Im just nrrvous of what the outcome will be.

Hope all turns out well, prayers to you all. Very normal to feel and be nervous. Leave the "outcome" up to God, He's got it all figured out

..take care of you, your lil bean and your hunny..stay strong and grounded..All Will Come To Pass.

Keep us posted and here for you!

tearfallzbreak · #10 05-31-2011, 03:55 PM

Oh I hated that feeling so much. A part of me wanted to know because its a step in the right direction but the other half didnt wanna hear the pain it may cause to my heart. Congrats on baby and best wishes you can get thru this...

MichaelsGirl143 · #11 05-31-2011, 04:00 PM

Exactly tear.......
Its a mixed emotion but I am glad to finally have something to look forward to. Its been a long 4 months.

mrsw2010 · #12 05-31-2011, 04:00 PM

You and your family are in my prayers.

JCJP2009 · #13 05-31-2011, 05:03 PM

I know it's hard, but try to relax for yourself and your baby. The silver lining on this is that at least you won't be stressed out wondering anymore. {{{HUGS}}}

His Girl 4 lyfe · #14 05-31-2011, 11:58 PM

Stay strong, we all know how you feel, i remember when my fiance was being sentenced i just wanted to run up and take his hand and just run as fast as i could out the door because i knew that was the last time he was going to be with me freely with no one saying sit here do this do that ect, but we got through it. We had to stay strong for one another. After his sentencing was when i was really hit with the reality and shock of him going to prison. In time it will be better but you need to try and stay as relaxed and calm as possible, i know it may seem hard but you can do it. Stay strong we are always here if you need us!

MichaelsGirl143 · #15 06-01-2011, 01:45 AM

Thank u all. I am staying calm for the most part.. Knowing that reacting otherwise isnt going to help. Im nervous of what the oitcome will be.. As I really want him there for the birth of our second daughter.

but as long as we all stick together emotionally ill be okay. Its just hard.. Plus I dont ever recieve his letters anymore... Its very odd.. Its been like over a mo since I have gotten one and he has sent 5+. Ughhh I hate it!

WifeOfSFS · #16 06-01-2011, 05:29 AM

I understand - I was eight months pregnant when my husband was arrested and I won't lie, it was tough. Do you have family/friends who you can lean on? I know it helped him to know I had people to help me out.
Stay as calm as possible for the sake of the baby (and for his sake, too.) I do my best to not cry to my husband as then he is sad that he can't comfort me.
Hope the letter situation is resolved soon! Write to him as often as you can, even about the "mundane" stuff. My husband treasures the letters I sent right after our baby was born where I detailed every part of our day. (I would write while I was nursing.)

Hisoneandonly · #17 06-01-2011, 08:08 AM

Hang in there. Sentencing was probably one of the worst days of my life.

MichaelsGirl143 · #18 06-01-2011, 03:00 PM

Thanks wifeofsf

I do have family that helps but as u know its not the same. I havent cried yet on the phone and I always try to seem positive because I know how he is. And with him.not being able.to take care of his family is hard.. Sentencing is tomorrow. Hoping for the best.. Preparing for the worst.

mrsw2010 · #19 06-01-2011, 03:49 PM

My hubby was sentenced 2 weeks ago and I am 4 months pregnant. I understand how you feel. Pm me if you need someone to talk to...*hugs*