Intro--AngelPrincess12 from Pennsylvania

[AngelPrincess12]

Hello Everyone!!
First I must say I lurked for a day or two before i even registered here but that was just to make sure that this is the place I wanted to be. I must say that it is and I am very greatful that there is a place i can go that others know what it is I am going through.
My story is that I met my fiance while he was still on probation/parole. He told me everything and I told him that his past is his past and i cant judge him for that. He is doing and did some time for what he did. He ended up getting very intoxicated in 2007 and robbing someone. I am not going to get fully into it all but he was sentenced to time in jail, probation and being a registered sex offender. I met him last summer and we started dating Dec. 14th. He was doing great. He was going to his anger management classes every Monday and Thursday along with his weekly PO visits. His parole was over in April about 2 weeks after our birthdays. He is still on probation till 2014 and will still be a registered sex offender till 2017. Also in January we found out we were pregnant. Lets just say it really only takes one time to get pregnant.
Well my life got turned upside down July 18th. He went into Lancaster to see his original PO. We live in York so he had gotten transferred. Well his appointment was for 1pm and it started getting really late. He had not come home or called or anything. Which was not like him. Around 8pm I got that phone call. Hunny it's your husband pick up the phone. So I answered the phone getting ready to yell at him and I am being told it is a collect call do I wish to accept the charges. I was not fully sure what that was about cause I am still mad. Then he tells me that he doesn't have much time and i need to go pick up the truck before it gets towed. Towed?? What the hell!!! I ask him what is going on and here to find out when he got there his PO and some officers were already there waiting for him to take him to jail. What!!! Needless to say they were probation violations but still. I am not fimiliar with the law I have never been in trouble. He always says I am from the opposite side of the tracks and that is what keeps him in line. I have been stressed out since that night. We were already having financial issues and problems of all kinds. Things were bad for us for awhile. Not our relationship just cause of the economy. Our relationship has always been strong. However on the 6th of August my body just couldn't deal with the stress any longer and I had lost our son. I didn't know if telling him this in a letter was the best thing to do but that is the only way I have to communicate with him. I still have not heard anything from him but I still write him faithfully everyday. His hearing is set for the 24th of this month and my best friend and I are planning to go to it. That will be the first time I get to see him again. He is in LCP (Lancaster County Prison). I know one violation is to do with not registering within the certain amount of time with the sheriff for his address and another is for denying a drug and alcohol class. He turned it down because he feels he doesn't have an alcohol problem. Which i must agree with. Maybe he did before I met him but we been living together since January and he may drink once or twice a month depending if we have the money for it. I am worried he will be sentenced because he was violated before because he was as they say "giving them the run around with where he was living". It was when he first got out of jail and staying with family till he could get his own place. So they violated him on a compliance check.

Thanks for listening.