Unbelieveable-he stopped communicating

[ace9807]

So I been with this guy 4 years...stuck by him, helped him out, gave him support when noone else did not even his family. He asked me to marry him and of course i said yes...everything was great we were making plans for our future and so in love, or so i thought. He gets paroled to a hwh 8 hours away, but we were gonna make it work. First time i went to visit, everything was great - we had a wonderful time. Then he started calling less. I wrote letters but got none in return. He seemed depressed and was not adjusting well to the hwh at all so i decided to go visit again hoping that would get him out of his funk. The first day was great - again we had a great time. But i noticed that some of the things he was telling me just didnt make sense...i asked him why he wasnt calling and he said that he cant call without any money, and thats understandable because i really dont send him much cuz i just dont have it like that right now. So he got a phone and promised he would call every day now that he had one. The second day of my visit was a complete mess...he wanted to leave and wanted me to take him home with me! Was this dude serious?? Yes he was. He only has about 20 days left but he said hes tired of it all, and dine. Well i talked him into staying, but he wasnt happy about it, but oh well cuz i'll be damned...anyway now i havent heard from him at all, and i cant believe how absolutely selfish and ungrateful this dude is. No explanation no nothing. Am i wrong for wanting to wring this guys neck? I mean who does he think he is? This is not the first time hes not called - he used to do it when he was in the jail but not as much as now. He seems like a complete stranger to me now - i dont even know who he is anymore. The other thing is that hes been lying about the stupidest things...things that dont even matter. I guess im assuming its over at this point. Not sure if hes walked away or not, but if not, im damn sure about to! I think its time. I mean actions speak louder than words and dude is really showing his true colors. How is a relationship supposed to work with no communication? Im so angry and hurt - ive done nothing wrong to him except be in his corner the entire time and he gives me his a** to kiss? Yeah, ok...good idea, you just got the wrong one.im so angry that there are such ignorant selfish people in this world that use people and treat them like garbage. He was down 20 years, and i guess he never overcame his "young boy " mentality. Unreal....well although im so hurt, at least i know i loved with my whole heart - and i dont regret that because there were many good times. At least there are no children involved so i dont have to worry about EVER speaking to this sheisty grimy scallywag again...thanks for letting me vent!