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auggiesgirl8183 · #1 10-19-2011, 10:55 AM

Okay my boyfriend in every letter tells me he hopes i am faithful to him and only him but he knows i will be because i am a good chick lol and i am i tell him all the time i chased you for 13 years now i have you yeah let me go cheat on you ill get right on that and he laughs cause he knows its true but i am thinking i am going to start responding with make sure ur faithful too? what do you think any other good come back for his stupid worries PS my boyfriend only got 60 days yeah im gonna cheat for sure u know me cant keep it in my pants!

MrsGuidry · #2 10-19-2011, 11:00 AM

HA ma hubby tells me "I will kill you" meaning don't let me find out you fk me over. I tell him if I wanted someone else I would be giving them our money and not you LOL. I guess it's something all inmates stress over. Ma husband has 18 months left on a 2 1/2 yr sentence. Just tell him if I was into another man I would NOT waste my time writing you or whatever else you do for him

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Souldancer · #3 10-19-2011, 11:07 AM

Lol I'm going to use them on my guy I get the ' ill kill you ' comments too I chased him for 6 years stood by his side while he married some one else and had a kid by the gf before that. Ya I'm going to run off and screw someone else Ya right

auggiesgirl8183 · #4 10-19-2011, 11:08 AM

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HA ma hubby tells me "I will kill you" meaning don't let me find out you fk me over. I tell him if I wanted someone else I would be giving them our money and not you LOL. I guess it's something all inmates stress over. Ma husband has 18 months left on a 2 1/2 yr sentence. Just tell him if I was into another man I would NOT waste my time writing you or whatever else you do for him

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So true his cellys girl just left him so he keeps telling my man oh she only says what you want to hear i even wrote him a letter only about not cheating and missing him and our future lives together they are funny though i have never told my man what he wants to hear i tell him how it is thats just me and i will say no you are wrong. he knows that and loves that but i love that others make him so insecure.

MrsGuidry · #5 10-19-2011, 12:05 PM

Yes they are VERY funny. I am the same way Aussie. I tell him like it is an he knows I don't play when it comes to the man I love. He has 2 baby momma with each a son and we have a daughter. He also knows this is the last time I am waiting for him to come home and if he does not change I am done. I'm too young to be this stressed everyday lol.

FastCarGirl · #6 10-19-2011, 01:31 PM

Ever see that old cartoon "Pinky and the Brain?" Each day pinky would ask Brain "Well, what are we going to do today, Brain"
And Brain replys "We're going to take over the world"

Maybe you can make it a running gag like that...because sad to say, the "brain's" plots were always thwarted and he never did take over the world.

So what are we going to do today, Auggie?

Why cheat on my boyfriend, of course.

Only, it never happens.

auggiesgirl8183 · #7 10-19-2011, 01:46 PM

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Ever see that old cartoon "Pinky and the Brain?" Each day pinky would ask Brain "Well, what are we going to do today, Brain"
And Brain replys "We're going to take over the world"

Maybe you can make it a running gag like that...because sad to say, the "brain's" plots were always thwarted and he never did take over the world.

So what are we going to do today, Auggie?

Why cheat on my boyfriend, of course.

Only, it never happens.

Lol right its so funny i know tomorrow will be a pain to day is tranning day 24 hour cell lock down no calls hes going nutz and then his celly oh boy!!!!

gabbsplus2 · #8 10-19-2011, 01:48 PM

Going thru that as I write...Ugh! Sometimes I get mad though. I understand his side, but I am taking care of our almost 1yr old and I am 7 months pregnant...why is it that he still asking or thinking that I would even be with someone else?!?! Lol really? We fight sometimes when he calls and I know he knows that I would never do that. My family has shown him that they are not about to allow such behavior so I still dont understand why he still thinks that I would "look for another father" for our kids...I just try to reassure him in my letters that it will never happen and that I will be here for him always. Sometimes he understands, but sometimes he just looses it and when he calls and I am not able to answer his call he gets all mad and wants proof of why I didnt answer. I cant deal it sometimes and we get into an argument, the call ends and when he calls again he is calm and says i am sorry but how can you deal with his mood swings when been pregnant i have all kids of mood swings myself...I love him very much, but I am hoping he does change his jelousy and stops been obsessed with thinking that I would be someone to betray him...

niks_wifey · #9 10-19-2011, 01:58 PM

What you say is hell ya and if you trusted me you wouldn't question me that's what me and my husband say to eachother. Whenever we get down and just need reassurance from the other..but yet be patient and realize what you both are going threw

waitin4appeal · #10 10-19-2011, 02:28 PM

I like to tell him that he just has to accept the relationship that I have with my fingers...that makes him chuckle.

auggiesgirl8183 · #11 10-19-2011, 02:43 PM

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I like to tell him that he just has to accept the relationship that I have with my fingers...that makes him chuckle.

I like that one to cute!!!

bobznemo · #12 10-19-2011, 06:06 PM

Yeah.. my husband always asks me if I really have stayed faithful to him, and I have! I have never come close to being with anyone else. I love my husband so much - i have NO reason to ever be with anyone else!! I dont understand how he doesnt see that...?
He is always so worried that I wont stay faithful... Its really frustrating - but I dont get angry at him, I do understand in a way... And I just try work through it with him and give him all the support and reassurance I can..
Its hard at times, but I know I will always stay faithful - so I hope he sees that and starts to settle done with the insecurities soon... lol

Princess1029 · #13 10-19-2011, 07:44 PM

I have gotten "I hope you dont cheat" or "if you do I hope you tell me" I live with his FAMILY, I am home ALLLLL the time, I'd like to know when he thinks that would happen.. I think they all are like that honestly. Probably alot of the stuff they hear in there.

niks_wifey · #14 10-20-2011, 04:10 PM

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I like to tell him that he just has to accept the relationship that I have with my fingers...that makes him chuckle.

That's flipping hilarious lol I don't do that unless im on the phone with him its just weird for me if it weren't for him I wouldn't do it at all he TAUGHT ME YES TAUGHT me over the phone how to do it lol

MrsGuidry · #15 10-20-2011, 05:18 PM

Lmao y'all are all funny. It's something faithful women do to keep our body's sane lol. I've never done it for him over the phone yet but I plan to & I kno he will enjoy that. I wish ma love was at a facility with those "special" visits

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ShanaMoore · #16 10-21-2011, 12:13 AM

Hah he asked me that on visit on Sunday.. It's the most annoying thing cause he knows I would never. I keep telling him ' I can take care of myself!' plus I can control myself. He keeps telling me stories that he hears and I tell him dont listen cause I'm not his room mates fiancé I'm his. And I'm not like them.

niks_wifey · #17 10-21-2011, 01:58 PM

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Lmao y'all are all funny. It's something faithful women do to keep our body's sane lol. I've never done it for him over the phone yet but I plan to & I kno he will enjoy that. I wish ma love was at a facility with those "special" visits

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Yeah I get what you mean I've done it when he calls but I only have 8 months left til we get our congicals so we get a place for privacy for 48 hours where we can do whatever we want...me and my husband just had our first kisses touches and hugs after a year of being together like 4 weeks ago...so in 8 months its our first time having sex im so impatient and need it so bad...ahhhhh!!!!

waitin4appeal · #18 10-21-2011, 02:55 PM

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Yeah I get what you mean I've done it when he calls but I only have 8 months left til we get our congicals so we get a place for privacy for 48 hours where we can do whatever we want...me and my husband just had our first kisses touches and hugs after a year of being together like 4 weeks ago...so in 8 months its our first time having sex im so impatient and need it so bad...ahhhhh!!!!

I'll get over my jealousy and say Congratulations

MrsGuidry · #19 10-22-2011, 06:29 AM

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Yeah I get what you mean I've done it when he calls but I only have 8 months left til we get our congicals so we get a place for privacy for 48 hours where we can do whatever we want...me and my husband just had our first kisses touches and hugs after a year of being together like 4 weeks ago...so in 8 months its our first time having sex im so impatient and need it so bad...ahhhhh!!!!

I don't know anywhere in la that they do them and you are so lucky!! What I wouldn't give to even just sleep in his arms for 48 hrs.

Debylg · #20 10-24-2011, 06:57 AM

They ask (I think) because they are surrounded by so many sad stories where the inmate has been cheated on (or left) because of his/her incarceration. Not all inmates are so lucky to have a spouse/sig other that stays by their side and loves them through this hell. My husband tells me in every letter how the other inmates are sometimes jealous of the mail he receives and the fact that I love him. They tell him how lucky he is - and he knows.
So, sometimes, they just need reassurance that we are not going anywhere and we will weather the storm with them because we do love them.