Now that hes finally home he doesnt love me anymore

[lizru9]

Originally Posted by bigsexy2743

Sorry for your hurt, but sometimes we look for love in all the wrong places. They say what we need to hear and make us feel like we are Queens. We don't know nothing about these men. They are locked up like pigs when they get out they become wild pigs, sometimes they come back, but most of them don't. Thank GOD he didn't take you for your valuables. Cry about it and move on, if he comes back take it slow, but remember if he leaves once he will leave again

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[pj663]

And let me just say that it can happen to anyone wether you been in a relationship 2 or 20 years being with someone incarcerated you are taking a chance that things can change once he or she is released. They could put a ring on it tatoos up the Wazoo and shake the spot as soon as freedom rings. But you also have very happy endings I have personal friends of mines that are doing quite well Good luck my love you seem like a beautiful person with a big heart

[BritneyGiggles]

Originally Posted by crazylazz81

Hey girls, I wasnt on PTO for a while. Im living in Europe and my boyfriend (Ex) was incarcerated in a Kentucky prison for the last 2.5 years. He came back home about 5 weeks ago and everything seemed to be fine and now all of a sudden hes telling me that his feelings for me have vanished. We were planning on a future together and he was telling me how much he loves me in all his letters and now he wants to leave me. He said something has changed since he left prison. I cant believe he did this to me! I was backing his damn ass up from so far away and all I get is this now. It really tears me up!

Smfh that dirty dog. Animal he's scum he is doing you a favor. And the fact that you held him down for so long shows how good of a person you are. How strong of a woman you can be and you should be secure in that in ur next relationship you deserve so much more than that bum anyway

5-5-11 @_temptFate

[be_kind]

Bless your heart ...

I know how hurt you must be but if you can set back for a min.and think of a time that you broke up with someone and they either 1). didnt want to let go and got on your nerves or 2). didnt let it bother them and went on with life. Didnt it make you stop and wonder what he was doing and at some point give him a call or do a drive by to see if hes home ? Its human nature to want something we think we cant have ... the thrill of the chase !

If you can keep telling yourself that every minute that gos by without talking to him and every call you dont answer from him means a greater chance of him realizing how much he misses you ! You will feel yourself get stronger everytime you dont answer the phone , It may sound silly but this may help you get passed that deep hurt and if he doesnt come back by then , enough time has passed that its easier to move on !

I wish you the best of luck and all the strength you need to do what makes you feel better ! Hugs be_kind

[hoppin]

Sorry this happened to you. Right now he has got to be going through a big culture shock, where your world has not changed that much. Perhaps when things settle down for him, he will find he way back to you. That will take some time and he may make some mistakes that will hurt you in the process. I would suggest not to do anything harsh, like go out and find another man or say things to him you will regret. I know it has got to be hard to continue to be a friend to him, but if you do remain friendly with him you will be giving him some space to sort things out. If after a period of time he still doesn't want the relationship, then move on.

[MikesWifey]

Sorry that you had to go threw something like that.. I have been in a similar situation with my ex who was incarcerated came home, got me pregnant and ran off to marry someone else. I know it hurts and it will get better in time.

[BritneyGiggles]

He is wicked

[pisces317]

YOUR so lucky he's a loser and even though ur in pain and disbelief ur going to come out the winner you've always been,he never loved you dont mean to be so harsh i went thru the same thing hate sugar-coated stuff give it to me raw this loser used you and karma will bite that azz just sit back cause your going to witness first-hand how he pays,i dont feel bad for you cause like me the user and the heart stomper is out of my life and after the pain i've settle into the fact that HE WAS'NT GOOD AND SO TO YOU I SAY MAMACITA HE'S NOT WORTH NO MORE TEARS OR ANGER GET UR POWER BACK AND MOVE FORWARD HE'S UR PAST AND UR FUTURE IS IN FRONT OF YOU GIVE URSELF THE CHANCE AT HAPPINESS