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DsRideOrDieChic · #1 12-15-2011, 10:28 PM

my darling and i are currently waiting for him to catch chain until then i have gone to see him in county for the past month... this past wednesday we got into a small disagreement if he is really ready to change his life style to be a family. then today i get a letter (after visiting him and he acted like everything was fine.) saying he feels "like a beat down dog"... i feel like crap cause i jsut got a call that he caught chain... that means for three years i wont be able to look him in the eye and tell him i love him and i am sorry for making him feel that way. i feel horrible!!!

Fancy · #2 12-16-2011, 12:59 AM

This bid will be tuff. There will be many, many trials and tribulations.

You and he will hafta grow a tuff skin.

This will not be the last misunderstanding.

Only the strongest will survive this.

MarkLovesMe · #3 12-16-2011, 01:15 AM

Yes, what Fancy is saying is true.

I might add, that it is healthy to have disagreements and then talk things out. Hone your letter writing skills. And I understand why you *might* not want to have disagreements, but that is far healthier than tip-toeing around worrying that you 'might' hurt his feelers. That is not healthy.

I suspect he put himself there. It might be healthy for him to eat a little dish of *humble pie*. Please don't let him guilt you into thinking otherwise.

DsRideOrDieChic · #4 01-05-2012, 05:53 AM

This is his second bid almost third (won a case through trial) and I am sick of the streets. I thought the second time would be the last. I was pregnant. And now that we have our little girl I can't help but question and quiz him. I don't mean to make him feel like shit but your right he did this all on his own and left me to take care of our little girl all on my own!!! I feel like a beat down dog too!! Smh.