Intro--Imissnancho from North Carolina

[Imissnancho]

Hi I miss Nancho... Nancho is my older brother, I just joined this website I am really in pain with a real confusing situation, I cant think straight and dont even know how to explain this. From wherever I see it it is difficult and I cant seem to find an answer. I came to USA in 2001 to study and to visit my family that lives in FL, it has been 11 years and I have been living in peace and rightfully respecting the law of this great country. Recently my older brother was arrested in New york Airport for drug trafficking.He lived in Colombia and I have not seen him in 11 years, my parents that are now American citizens are shocked and devastated and none seem to understand why or how he got involved in this, he is a family oriented person with a generous heart and all he is done in his life is helping others...Now he is in New Jersey jail alone waiting for Court day...Now here is the twist, He does not Speak the language he is there alone he does not have any family in NJ the closest to there is me I live in NC but I am afraid to visit him because I am a legal resident and they will probably think that I am his connection here,,,I am scared and deeply sad because My mom and dad are destroyed and they are older...My brother is 50 years old and It is impossible for me to visit...all I can think is that he made a huge mistake but now he is locked up abroad in a place where he does not know anybody and does not have any family that is going to visit him...can someone tell me what can I do.
My family is a humble family from Colombia, we never had anything thing to do with drugs. my father came to USA on 1986 running away from violence and became a political assailed. We cant be sadder or more brokenhearted with this, it is embarrassing because we are Colombians that things like this happen but the pain of having my older brother the one that I loved respect and looked up for many years is now victim of all this is just unbearable,.My mother has been a woman of a strong faith and her prayers keep her alive cause i dont see any other way to explain how is she so strong to go through all of this...cause there is nothing we can do.I dont know if someone is reading this, But I need some advice I dont know what to do. Thanks