How does marrying an inmate effect your occupation?

[Sweet_Tee]

Hello ladies. I am posting this thread because (a) my fiance and I have been approved to get married and (b) I may be getting cold feet :-(

Now that this is REAL, a million and 1 questions are popping into my mind. (1) I work security and had to be cleared through Homeland Security. After marrying my love can they revoke my license because he is an inmate? (2) I am also attending nursing school, will it be harder to get a job in a hospital? Will they know he's incarcerated if I don't tell them. (3) He is divorced since 2006 and share 3 kids with his ex-wife (she has all 3 on SSI), can she come after ME for child support because I am married to their father?

I really wish I had thought of all this before I said yes. I truly love my man and want to be his wife so bad. But now I am scared. If anyone has been through this, please share. I feel like crying, I am so nervous and don't know what to do. Hellllp :,-(