Heartless so I'm done

[La Divina]

Hey everyone so after holding on for this long, finally i opened my eyes and finally realized is time to let go after all this time of crying and suffering like i have never before im finally ready to just move on. Im pregnant 6 months now ill be 7 soon and i just want to dedicate myself to my child since i know his father will be a good for nothing dad..what made me decide this? well he supposely has another girl out of all the ones he has but the shit is i know the girl, she was f*&^ing around with my brother .Yes im soooo disgusted i knew he had cheated before but it was never public and the crazy thing is the girl is a hoe...after the years of waiting while he did time after giving my all he did soo much things that hurted me..never considered me! i was going to hit the girl because i feel disrespected but since im preggo and my unborn baby is my world I will wait till i give birth to whoop her A**! I will never be so naive to trust no one ever again and he can go to hell cuse im so done with the tears

[Patty]

I'm sorry things didn't work out for you. Although one would not expect you to have kind things to say about the other woman, remember it was he not she that betrayed you. I know it must be difficult for you to end this relationship and hope that your heart heals quickly. Best wishes to you and the little one on the way - such a blessing!

[La Divina]

Originally Posted by Patty

I'm sorry things didn't work out for you. Although one would not expect you to have kind things to say about the other woman, remember it was he not she that betrayed you. I know it must be difficult for you to end this relationship and hope that your heart heals quickly. Best wishes to you and the little one on the way - such a blessing!

Im very happy for my blessing...and i know theres nothing more to it but to take it as a lesson learned, and as for the girl i def know its his fault but is just that the girl is a hipocrite who knew bout me and him and who i considered cool smh thats why i will make sure she gets a nice surprise back

[Patty]

Originally Posted by La Divina

as for the girl i def know its his fault but is just that the girl is a hipocrite who knew bout me and him and who i considered cool smh thats why i will make sure she gets a nice surprise back

When you are no longer concerned with revenge you will truly be free from this unfortunate situation. I hope peace finds you very soon!

[Webbelayne]

That's sadly a part of the game that they play when they get locked up! My man my whatever he is right now because I haven't gotten a call in about 51 hours so I'm not sure I met locked up 10 years ago, he gets pissed off at me and marries some tramp on me that was suppose to just be someone on the side. Long story short I've accepted it I'm back with him he's getting divorced from her and she put him back in prison so keep your head up, it's not easy. Him and I well he has been fighting me for days and now no calls. It's not easy but try to at least remain good.

[Olderthanmost]

A new baby on the way is awesome! There are two things that you need to concentrate on now! YOU and the BABY! The most important things in your life. I know that you are hurt but soon, it won't feel quiet as bad any more. Then, you will know that you are making progress in the healing department! You are moving on with your life and I am so proud of you!

[amyluvsny]

Yes, congrats on the baby
i'm sorry you're hurting right now...it isn't a good place to be emotionally with the baby on the way. try and relax and focus on YOU & the baby...that's what's important. sending you a {{{HUG}}}

[faith_ful]

I met my man while he was locked up through a freind of mine. I was 18 he was 29. My man played head gmaes with me through the 4 years he was locked up. I gave up so much for him. When he got out we were fine for 2 years then one day we get in a fight and he leaves. Now Im 7 months pregg and hes no were to be found. Stay strong for your baby becuase he will nned you alot.

[brooks]

Revenge, nah, let it be. She already has her punishment..she's with him; a cheater & a liar.

Congrats on the baby.

[countryzgirl]

Sorry things didn't work out. Congrats on the little one! You might want to rethink the revenge thing or your child might have both parents in prison.

[Hakimu-Rosetta]

Originally Posted by La Divina

Hey everyone so after holding on for this long, finally i opened my eyes and finally realized is time to let go after all this time of crying and suffering like i have never before im finally ready to just move on. Im pregnant 6 months now ill be 7 soon and i just want to dedicate myself to my child since i know his father will be a good for nothing dad..what made me decide this? well he supposely has another girl out of all the ones he has but the shit is i know the girl, she was f*&^ing around with my brother .Yes im soooo disgusted i knew he had cheated before but it was never public and the crazy thing is the girl is a hoe...after the years of waiting while he did time after giving my all he did soo much things that hurted me..never considered me! i was going to hit the girl because i feel disrespected but since im preggo and my unborn baby is my world I will wait till i give birth to whoop her A**! I will never be so naive to trust no one ever again and he can go to hell cuse im so done with the tears

Violence is not the answer.

Even after you give birth...your child will be there and what will happen if this gets legal? You'll be the one locked up and your child will be motherless.

Never fight over a man! especially with another woman whom you "think" is not on your level. It's him who did this to you not her, even if she knew about you. He was the one who decided to hurt you. He could've just walked the other way than to fall tempted.

Stay strong for your unborn child.

[InmateLover67]

Originally Posted by La Divina

Hey everyone so after holding on for this long, finally i opened my eyes and finally realized is time to let go after all this time of crying and suffering like i have never before im finally ready to just move on. Im pregnant 6 months now ill be 7 soon and i just want to dedicate myself to my child since i know his father will be a good for nothing dad..what made me decide this? well he supposely has another girl out of all the ones he has but the shit is i know the girl, she was f*&^ing around with my brother .Yes im soooo disgusted i knew he had cheated before but it was never public and the crazy thing is the girl is a hoe...after the years of waiting while he did time after giving my all he did soo much things that hurted me..never considered me! i was going to hit the girl because i feel disrespected but since im preggo and my unborn baby is my world I will wait till i give birth to whoop her A**! I will never be so naive to trust no one ever again and he can go to hell cuse im so done with the tears

If you have chosen to move on, why do you want to whoop her ass? It takes two people for cheating to happen, and if your man was a real man, he would not have let it happen to begin with.

I suggest you not stoop to her level, let them have one another and move on with your life.

Immature and childish are what comes to my mind....it is really worth it to kick her ass? Really? be the more mature one and get over it.

Peace~

[La Divina]

Originally Posted by Olderthanmost

A new baby on the way is awesome! There are two things that you need to concentrate on now! YOU and the BABY! The most important things in your life. I know that you are hurt but soon, it won't feel quiet as bad any more. Then, you will know that you are making progress in the healing department! You are moving on with your life and I am so proud of you!

awww thank you for ur words i really appreciate them

[La Divina]

Originally Posted by amyluvsny

Yes, congrats on the baby
i'm sorry you're hurting right now...it isn't a good place to be emotionally with the baby on the way. try and relax and focus on YOU & the baby...that's what's important. sending you a {{{HUG}}}

thank you and im def taking the advises

[La Divina]

Originally Posted by brooks

Revenge, nah, let it be. She already has her punishment..she's with him; a cheater & a liar.

Congrats on the baby.

I think i will let karma do its work...soon either shes going to be hurt as much as me or he is either way im done and im ready to just finally be happy for myself

[skellerton]

Originally Posted by brooks

Revenge, nah, let it be. She already has her punishment..she's with him; a cheater & a liar.

Congrats on the baby.

Right on, Brooks! There couldn't be anything worse, as the OP and the rest of us already know. Let those folks in the gutter live their drama- you can have a good life if you take the high road. Best luck with this baby.

[La Divina]

Originally Posted by skellerton

Right on, Brooks! There couldn't be anything worse, as the OP and the rest of us already know. Let those folks in the gutter live their drama- you can have a good life if you take the high road. Best luck with this baby.

Thank u guys what would i do without pto members