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How 2 keep my man happy when all we can do is write to eachother.. when he's stressing.
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there's not a whole lot you can do unfortunately. :/
Just keep writing & let him know how much you love him.
I've had a lot of friends who have been in prison & have told me the BEST thing you can do is keep writing letters.
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Hang in there with him, take his stress if he shares and ride it out. Then when all the dust settles ask him how the situation could be handled next time, have him tell u what he needs during those times.

My husband needs more space when he stresses, he'll call and have nothing to say and I shower him with love then he goes back into silent mode and I ride it out, when I ask what he needs from me he says "just love me." They get comfort in us just answering the phone or sending a card.
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Mine always says just be there and don't quit writing me. Even if im busy I send him a daily letter. Just so he knows im here. He gets out in August.
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Not much you can do, just keep writing. Is there ever a chance that you will be able to visit? Or have phone calls?

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KaRae- your so right... At times my husband would call and say nothing and I wouldn't understand... But once he told me 'all I want is to here your voice and get away from all this drama'

UK- your crazy but oooh so right... Everything and anything ends up with sex with my husband... Just how some men function...lol Love that crazy man...
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Have you thought about getting him his favorite magazine subscription? That always helps and he probably would appreciate the gesture while changing things up a little.
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Uk you're so funny. You can always get a good laugh out of me. Lol!
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Frankly, you can't; he has to thaw it out himself; that's the only contentment he'll get.
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I was just going to say I feel your pain, we are in the same situation.
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