Wondering......but I don't know what for.........

[teardropswife]

So I have not ever posted in this forum before all because I never considered him a V/O, I guess due to the fact that he really did not beat up all EIGHT of the police officers while in HANDCUFFS, I didn't think to call him violent. ANYWAY.........I love my husband so much that I married him while in prison. I am doing this time with him no matter what comes or goes. It is not easy and I know it takes a special woman like me ( and you reading this) to go through this without him knowing everything we sacrifice for a few minutes on the phone, a long drive for a few hours of contact, foregoing a shopping trip for "me" stuff just to send him money to eat.

I know there are a lot of females who break their backs to take care of the their L/O, I do the same thing. I pray more for him than I do myself. I take care of the kids, the house, and him. I just graduated school as Valedictorian, so sad he was not there at my graduation. I am thankful for the little things we are able to have when we can b/c not everyone is able to have mail daily, or a phone call here and there, visits, or even money in their accounts.

I know that when he comes home, everything he promices he is going to do his "dangest" ( I don't curse) to make sure I have all the things I deserve, want and need. He knows it has to be done the LEGAL way. Should I tell him how hard things were for me while he has been locked up? I will not tell him now while he is still in there, all that will do is stress him out more. Would you tell him when he comes home? Do you think telling him would keep him from doing the wrong thing again?