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reisha91 · #1 05-25-2012, 08:20 PM

Me and my fiance sister didnt really take to well when we first met, both of us have a problem with trusting other females but we were cool for a good week or 2 but now i feel like out of no where we became distant...I'm kind of skeptical about her though because even though she knows me and him are getting married i feel like she will turn on me and only reason I'm saying that is because she was bestfriends with this girl that likes him and tried to make her brother be with this girl...am i wrong for being skeptical about his sister or would you ladies be cautious about the situation too??

lf00251 · #2 05-25-2012, 09:04 PM

Nope but do give her a chance..Dont tell her your business, keep everything positive and happy when you are around her. Dont ever let her think she has the upper hand in any situation!!

reisha91 · #3 05-25-2012, 09:11 PM

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Originally Posted by lf00251

Nope but do give her a chance..Dont tell her your business, keep everything positive and happy when you are around her. Dont ever let her think she has the upper hand in any situation!!

that's exactly how i've been acting but i just feel like its a set up and my feelings haven't ever failed me....i just don't want it to get to the point where me and my man sitting behind bars lol

Zuweee · #4 05-25-2012, 11:15 PM

I'm having the same kind of issues with my boyfriend's sister! She tried hooking him up with one of her friends from school when we got into a fight a long time ago. I just keep my mouth shut and don't say anything to her. She lives off of drama. Accused me of smoking weed with her brother so he'd fail a drug test- I don't even smoke. Accused me of texting her some childish stuff on a private #- I don't even know her phone number. She even told my boyfriend I was dating another guy- he's my gay best friend from elementary school and has his OWN boyfriend lol. She's pretty much been trying to sabotage our relationship and it just keeps going with this girl.

My best advice is to keep everything casual, and watch your back. Just keep doing the right thing, and he'll eventually get tired of her immature games! A lot of siblings get jealous when they're brother/sister try to move on and start a life of their own. Sad, but very true!

tripsgirl · #5 05-26-2012, 08:37 AM

I'm having the same issue!
My fiancee's sister has always been nice to me. Spoke her mind on everything.
But now that the baby momma is trying to get back with him it seems like she's trying to get them back together. My fiancee swears it's only me and i'm the one he's gonna marry but it's so stressful having her make up all these lies & trying to destroy our relationship!

reisha91 · #6 05-26-2012, 09:17 AM

Exactly...but his sista dont know i'm crazy and her brother aint going to be with the other girl...she one of the people who helped him get behind bars...and i only feel weird about her, i love his mom nd dad and everyone else in the fam that i met but somethin about the sista is jus skeptical 2 me

tripsgirl · #7 05-26-2012, 09:18 AM

Yeah, I'm definitely not feelin the whole situation but I gotta stop stressin myself out about it. It's his decision & since he asked me to marry him I'm pretty sure I know who he picked!

Zuweee · #8 05-26-2012, 11:02 AM

Glad I'm not the only one having issues. I get along with everyone else in his family too, they love me and have nothing bad to say. It's that jealousy stuff... I imagine it'll only get worse once we're engaged lol. You'd think they would cut the crap once they see it isn't working!

InmateLover67 · #9 05-26-2012, 11:33 AM

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Originally Posted by reisha91

Me and my fiance sister didnt really take to well when we first met, both of us have a problem with trusting other females but we were cool for a good week or 2 but now i feel like out of no where we became distant...I'm kind of skeptical about her though because even though she knows me and him are getting married i feel like she will turn on me and only reason I'm saying that is because she was bestfriends with this girl that likes him and tried to make her brother be with this girl...am i wrong for being skeptical about his sister or would you ladies be cautious about the situation too??

If you and your man have a solid relationship, his sister is NOT going to be able to cause you trouble. This does not mean you have to get close to her, but worrying about what she might do is not needed, if you two are solid in your relationship.

Peace~