Karma!!!

[La Divina]

So ladies many of us have been hurt in great ways..smh i know ive been hurt..people tell me to let karma do its work and im trying but dammitt sometimes i wanna beat my lying ex and his disrespectful GF to a pulp! Do u guys believe in Karma? and if u do is there a reason why? i believe but i feel like sometimes it takes a long time to see it happen if u get to see it at all!!

[InmateLover67]

Originally Posted by La Divina

So ladies many of us have been hurt in great ways..smh i know ive been hurt..people tell me to let karma do its work and im trying but dammitt sometimes i wanna beat my lying ex and his disrespectful GF to a pulp! Do u guys believe in Karma? and if u do is there a reason why? i believe but i feel like sometimes it takes a long time to see it happen if u get to see it at all!!

Hell yeah, I believe in Karma and that train I have been on myself a few times..lol

Everyone has Karma face them, we just do not get to see it, most of the time.

Hun, chill out, they are sick and will get what they have coming to them. Don't get wrapped up with being angry at them, but rather be thankful you are not dealing with his ass anymore.

Peace~

[MRS.GRIFFIN]

Yes i do,,,,karma is a bitch when it hits. You may not hear about,mostly likely they are shame. When things happen to us we dont understand at that time, but wow nelly when we do see it!!!!! When you in a relationship with someone always ask god, if he isnt for me take him out my life. Just thinking new gf got your leftovers, and now she's putting up with the s.o.b. Not you. Believe me its someone for everybody, just be patient and mr. Right could be closer than you think.

[marissaa]

I believe in karma.. big time. (: Just let nature run it's course, everyone gets what comes to them because what goes around definitely comes around. We don't have to be around to see it, we shouldn't even be concerned with how it comes back because those people aren't our concern anymore (: just know that it will. No one leaves this earth without getting exactly what they deserve..

[Mrs.taylor2011]

yup i believe in Karma..it happen to me once..dont worry whatever they're doing is going to come back and bit them in the ass,then youll have the last laugh

[Miss_A]

I believe that you reap what you sow. That includes what you as well as what you do.

And even though everything may look great on the outside with the ex and the girlfriend, I highly doubt everything is all sunshine and rainbows. I'm sure they fight and carry on all types of mess. That, in and of itself, is it's own karma.

[sidewalker]

I saw a t shirt once.....

Karma fairy, you missed a few......

(or something close to that)
Yes, I do think Karma will eventually pay all of us a visit.

But another saying Ive heard and try to go with.
Dont let them live in your head rent free.

Live well, its your best *revenge*

I have a few people that have crossed me. I can only hope someday to read some crap in the paper about them. I try hard never to entertain them in my thoughts.
Usually works.
Dont give them the power to be in your thoughts at all. Make them powerless to you.

[Eternal Sunshine]

Yes, I believe in karma. I had an ex that I was there for when no one else was there for him, for three years, visits, letters and helped when I could. We had made plans to be together when he came home, have a family, everything. Within two weeks of coming home, the truth came out and all revealed itself. He had been lying to my son and I the whole time. This fool had someone else and was already planning a life without us. Well, this was in July of 2010. Guess what? The fool has broken the law yet once again and is on his way back to prison. Yes, karma is a bitch and I have waited for him to go back because I knew he would. It is time for him to go back to the environment that he knows best (this is his fourth time in there at least). I get satisfaction from him going back-sorry. That is where he deserves to be because he can't follow society's rules. Lastly, I won't be there for him this time and I hope somewhere deep down inside that he eventually realizes how much he messed up and what he could have had. Karma is something else.

Oh, and another thing, I did get the "chance" to know for sure that this fool had messed up. His high speed chase and arrest were on television. I laughed the whole time about him getting in trouble because I knew he was going back to prison.

[La Divina]

Originally Posted by Eternal Sunshine

Yes, I believe in karma. I had an ex that I was there for when no one else was there for him, for three years, visits, letters and helped when I could. We had made plans to be together when he came home, have a family, everything. Within two weeks of coming home, the truth came out and all revealed itself. He had been lying to my son and I the whole time. This fool had someone else and was already planning a life without us. Well, this was in July of 2010. Guess what? The fool has broken the law yet once again and is on his way back to prison. Yes, karma is a bitch and I have waited for him to go back because I knew he would. It is time for him to go back to the environment that he knows best (this is his fourth time in there at least). I get satisfaction from him going back-sorry. That is where he deserves to be because he can't follow society's rules. Lastly, I won't be there for him this time and I hope somewhere deep down inside that he eventually realizes how much he messed up and what he could have had. Karma is something else.

Oh, and another thing, I did get the "chance" to know for sure that this fool had messed up. His high speed chase and arrest were on television. I laughed the whole time about him getting in trouble because I knew he was going back to prison.

Wow!!! Thats my kind of karma lol!!!!

[Patty]

What I believe very strongly is that the sooner you get on with the business of your life and move forward the sooner you will forget the vengeful thoughts of them despite what they do or do not do. You know they say that, "Living well is the best revenge."

[waitingforD]

I'm trying very hard to motive on and live my life. It's just so hard. I'm having a hard time and his life is still intertwining with mine even though I don't want to hear or know anything about him. Things about him just randomly pop into my life when I am trying to move on. It sucks and puts me right back to square one.

[La Divina]

Originally Posted by waitingforD

I'm trying very hard to motive on and live my life. It's just so hard. I'm having a hard time and his life is still intertwining with mine even though I don't want to hear or know anything about him. Things about him just randomly pop into my life when I am trying to move on. It sucks and puts me right back to square one.

Omg same thing with me..either someone keeps bringing up his name or i simply see him since i work with his mom, but im not falling to step one still moving foward and not letting him n the memories crush me anymore remember we choose to b happy

[mzcarrie]

I know Karma exists, I seen it happen time in and time out. If you saw the Color Purple, Whoopie Goldberg's character told her tormentor, "until you do right by me, everything you even think about is gonna fail." That's exactly what happened to my jailbird BD.

8 months after my son's father paroled to me I found out he was cheating like crazy. I thought I was gonna die, I was so in love with this man. I was also pregnant with our son so I had to pull my self together. I would be balled up in the fetal position trying to keep myself from calling his PO and snitching him out. I wanted him to hurt like he hurt me. But I just couldn't do it. Eventually his deceptive behavior reared itself in every area of his life, and he lost his extended family, his job, and the woman he was living put him out. It wasn't long before he got desperate and tried to move weight across state lines and he pulled his 2nd 15 year federal bid. I thought it would feel good for me, but it didn't. When the smoke cleared I was actually sad. I got no pleasure out of seeing his life fail because when it's all said and done, I really don't have a true vindictive nature. Plus I have a son who now has no father! Today we are friends and our son has a decent relationship with his still incarcerated father.

Trust me it hurts now but it will not always feel like this. If it's any consolation, you now know the true content of his character. Let someone else deal with raising him. Also, don't question whether he loved you or not, I am sure he did to the best of his ability and after 17 years, his capacity to be in a healthy loving relationship right now is probably PISS POOR! Your heart is obviously golden and once you give yourself some time to process this, you should get back out there and find a man who knows the value of a good, loyal woman!!!

[avasky]

I do believe in Karma, but not in the way that it's thrown around today. It's actually part of my religion. Please understand that wishing bad karma upon someone, brings bad Karma upon the wisher as well. You just sent out MORE negativity. Negativity begets negativity.

I know that we've all been hurt, it's soo hard. A broken heart once kept me in bed for almost a year. I was a zombie. I hope you all find your center and your ex's just leave you alone. <3

[kccss16]

Karma is definitely The truth. Don't get ur self dirty.. Allow Karma to do her thing I promise it's so rewarding..

*Will Ride to the End*

[hisbabygurl2014]

I do believe in Karma. BUt does that mean i cannot wait untill Karma gets my ex? No, because i am too busy doing other stuff that he is does not phase in my mind about him getting hit by karma. I know it will come by that it wont be my misson. I already know that Karma came to him because the best thing that happened to him- *ME* is out of his life. So i am not worried at all.

[chili]

Originally Posted by avasky

I do believe in Karma, but not in the way that it's thrown around today. It's actually part of my religion. Please understand that wishing bad karma upon someone, brings bad Karma upon the wisher as well. You just sent out MORE negativity. Negativity begets negativity.

I'm really glad that you have posted this. Karma is not a weapon we can use, like some sort of spell, to wish bad things for someone. And yes, if you are genuinely considering Karma then you wishing those bad things contributes to your own.
I think the OP is more talking about the idea that what goes around comes around. I don't believe this to be true. We all know instances of good things happening to seemingly bad people.

[hisbabyny]

well i definetly believe in karma' because i believe we ALL "reap what we sow" i know i had to pay the price for many mistakes i made.
i also know that its very hard to detach in a situation like yours La Divina but you will get thru this! your baby will give you strength' and it is sad how many broken people there is in the world'
divine timing is not always OUR timing but i would just ask God please help me to let go of my anger and bitterness with my ex husband or any other family members that hurt me. cause when i was consumed with what they did to me i was still living in the pain...

but then i woke up! one thing that i realized very late in life but that gave me such peace was to finds out that it was not my fault or something wrong with me when people act scandalous!!!

[Candy4U]

I believe in it.... My first husband was so in love with me and I left him without touching my heart ... then when i fell in love with my second husband he left me without valid reason...
Personal experience... and never again will I ever play shady.....

[FastCarGirl]

What goes around comes around. I tell Romeo that if he wrongs me, Karma will get him. Living well is the best revenge....don't bother triffling with them, they're not worth it.

[Scotties_Girl21]

Its very true. My name is carma, not spelled the same as the actual "karma" but I've always been a firm believer what goes around comes around.

[Rox73]

Originally Posted by avasky

I do believe in Karma, but not in the way that it's thrown around today. It's actually part of my religion. Please understand that wishing bad karma upon someone, brings bad Karma upon the wisher as well. You just sent out MORE negativity. Negativity begets negativity.

I know that we've all been hurt, it's soo hard. A broken heart once kept me in bed for almost a year. I was a zombie. I hope you all find your center and your ex's just leave you alone. <3

I agree. I believe in karma but this concept is misinterpreted a LOT. It's not even part of Christianity (I'm assuming many people on this thread are Christian?).

Karma isn't like a law either - more the natural consequence of our actions or simply put "cause and effect". It does NOT equal the revenge of the universe - I'd like to think of it as a "correction of an imbalance created in the universe".

For all we know, being in a relationship with an inmate, helping him through a dark spot in his life is OUR karma. Maybe we had someone wrongfully imprisoned in a former life and we're correcting that imbalance now? Maybe we knowingly or unknowingly were the cause of someone being a prisoner of [whatever]? Thinking this is a personal revenge tool is just wrong on so many levels. Maybe the guy who did you wrong will correct the imbalance he created by helping another person who is in pain because of a bad relationship? Someone who commits murder may correct the imbalance he/she created by saving someone's life later? It doesn't HAVE to be something bad or negative that will make them suffer for all eternity.

Going back to prison because a relationship didn't work out makes NO sense when it comes to karma IMO - natural consequence of our actions. How is a prison term a natural consequence of a relationship gone wrong??? How is breaking the law and going to prison correcting the universe??? Hey I do get why people get angry and hurt - I've been there myself in the past. Anger is good for awhile and it makes us stronger at a weak point in our life. But it's a phase and it will pass once you get strong enough to build yourself up again.

But yeah, I do believe in karma - just not in the way people are throwing it around on this thread.

[avasky]

Originally Posted by Rox73

I agree. I believe in karma but this concept is misinterpreted a LOT. It's not even part of Christianity (I'm assuming many people on this thread are Christian?).

Karma isn't like a law either - more the natural consequence of our actions or simply put "cause and effect". It does NOT equal the revenge of the universe - I'd like to think of it as a "correction of an imbalance created in the universe".

For all we know, being in a relationship with an inmate, helping him through a dark spot in his life is OUR karma. Maybe we had someone wrongfully imprisoned in a former life and we're correcting that imbalance now? Maybe we knowingly or unknowingly were the cause of someone being a prisoner of [whatever]? Thinking this is a personal revenge tool is just wrong on so many levels. Maybe the guy who did you wrong will correct the imbalance he created by helping another person who is in pain because of a bad relationship? Someone who commits murder may correct the imbalance he/she created by saving someone's life later? It doesn't HAVE to be something bad or negative that will make them suffer for all eternity.

Going back to prison because a relationship didn't work out makes NO sense when it comes to karma IMO - natural consequence of our actions. How is a prison term a natural consequence of a relationship gone wrong??? How is breaking the law and going to prison correcting the universe??? Hey I do get why people get angry and hurt - I've been there myself in the past. Anger is good for awhile and it makes us stronger at a weak point in our life. But it's a phase and it will pass once you get strong enough to build yourself up again.

But yeah, I do believe in karma - just not in the way people are throwing it around on this thread.

Beautifully put. The ex who broke my heart is now married, and so am I, and we're friends. All I wanted was to find my peace and in me doing so, he found his and things are back in balance again. There is no negativity, no hate, no pleasure in seeing something awful happen to him. Karma, in the way I believe it, restores the natural balance. Wish them peace, wish them balance, wish them happiness and THAT is what will be returned to you.

[SexyChef1]

YES \ SHE"S LIKE A B*TCH ON HER PERIOD AND SHE HAS NO EXPIRATION DATE. I must agree with Patty you successfully happily goin on with your life will be the sweetest revenge ever. Let them go!

[SexyChef1]

Originally Posted by Candy4U

I believe in it.... My first husband was so in love with me and I left him without touching my heart ... then when i fell in love with my second husband he left me without valid reason...
Personal experience... and never again will I ever play shady.....

I did the same thing with my first hubby walked off and left him hurting and the guy I started dating treated me like crap I paid for ever single tear my ex hubby shed over me, and I knew I was paying at the time