They asked how can you fall in love with a prisoner and I had an answer.

[NileMusiq]

Girl, I have to give the original poster props for that answer. It is the best part, the perfect part of the whole MWI thing! Realistically, they (society, friends and family) are asking us "how" after he has obviously been "incarcerated for a crime" which means "socially and politically" set aside, and targeted to have his future "disenfranchised"; therefore permanently "negatively labeled". Many people have legitimate concerns because we tend to look at the future of things. The Stock market is a prime example: Up if they feel the future looks bright financially and down if it looks bleak. SOOOO...not wanting to be a wet blanket but wanting to add to her explanation BECAUSE I AM GOING TO USE IT...but I want to address THOSE neysayers, "He was only caught" Many men out there are the most villainous criminals...look at the 2 percenters at the two percenters; they commit the same crimes and make the rules and laws that makes sure they use these men as free slave labor for far too long. I have a friend who thinks he went to prison for child support, and thinks he is better because went in for not having a job and he was in only a short period. Sir, you were in JAIL! Regardless! You could have worked at McDonald's, but that would have cost him his pride? The human mentality can be jacked up! Give me a broken man any day...one who has his heart and false pride broken and rebuilt because money can not buy you love. For me, it is a gift from God, whether you believe in him or not. Thank HER for her words of love and hope!

[JavisLady]

I LOVE IT!!!!! Thank you!!!

[emtjen]

Wonderful!

[MikesWifey]

LOVE IT!!!! could have said it better myself, people are so close minded, shame on them.

[NatesGurl]

Originally Posted by futureMSMuth

I know why a girl falls in love with a guy who is in prison. First of all we don't spend time judging them. We knew they were not perfect when we met them and we accepted them for who they are not the perfect person they wanted us to think they were. We built a friendship by writing and taking a whole lot of time to get to know them. We gave them enough trust to give them our phone number after several letters not after several drinks. We spent countless days waiting for responces and smiling at jokes and serious things written on paper. We passed photos instead of body fluids and still wanted to send more. We waited months before we decided to meet face to face and met in a public place without having sex. Months and years later we still believe that we can make it even through the toughest times. Why because we passed the test of time and all we have is time. So basicly it is because when he was not our boyfriend we fell in love with the laughter, we fell in love with the advice. we fell in love with the smiles, and we fell in love with the friendship before we fell for the person. Yes ladies, my friends willing to do the time with our men. We have something special and that is why a women stands by her man no matter how much time he has left. I love an inmate and would not trade it for any guy who is currently on the outside. Hold your head up high and know that true love can withstand any amount of time. We are all in this together. Thanks for reading sorry it is long.
Nikki

Thank you for this post!! It definitely sums things up very well, I fortunately have a couple family members and friends who support me even though they don't really like it.

[imnluv]

That was great & on point!!!! Loved every word of it!!!!

[qpwings]

Thanks so much for this post ! It is sooooo true !!!

[CLTIJERINA]

I soooo....love it and its so true!

[Katallac04]

Originally Posted by futureMSMuth

I know why a girl falls in love with a guy who is in prison. First of all we don't spend time judging them. We knew they were not perfect when we met them and we accepted them for who they are not the perfect person they wanted us to think they were. We built a friendship by writing and taking a whole lot of time to get to know them. We gave them enough trust to give them our phone number after several letters not after several drinks. We spent countless days waiting for responces and smiling at jokes and serious things written on paper. We passed photos instead of body fluids and still wanted to send more. We waited months before we decided to meet face to face and met in a public place without having sex. Months and years later we still believe that we can make it even through the toughest times. Why because we passed the test of time and all we have is time. So basicly it is because when he was not our boyfriend we fell in love with the laughter, we fell in love with the advice. we fell in love with the smiles, and we fell in love with the friendship before we fell for the person. Yes ladies, my friends willing to do the time with our men. We have something special and that is why a women stands by her man no matter how much time he has left. I love an inmate and would not trade it for any guy who is currently on the outside. Hold your head up high and know that true love can withstand any amount of time. We are all in this together. Thanks for reading sorry it is long.
Nikki

Girl amen to that!

[tabathapope1]

Originally Posted by futureMSMuth

I know why a girl falls in love with a guy who is in prison. First of all we don't spend time judging them. We knew they were not perfect when we met them and we accepted them for who they are not the perfect person they wanted us to think they were. We built a friendship by writing and taking a whole lot of time to get to know them. We gave them enough trust to give them our phone number after several letters not after several drinks. We spent countless days waiting for responces and smiling at jokes and serious things written on paper. We passed photos instead of body fluids and still wanted to send more. We waited months before we decided to meet face to face and met in a public place without having sex. Months and years later we still believe that we can make it even through the toughest times. Why because we passed the test of time and all we have is time. So basicly it is because when he was not our boyfriend we fell in love with the laughter, we fell in love with the advice. we fell in love with the smiles, and we fell in love with the friendship before we fell for the person. Yes ladies, my friends willing to do the time with our men. We have something special and that is why a women stands by her man no matter how much time he has left. I love an inmate and would not trade it for any guy who is currently on the outside. Hold your head up high and know that true love can withstand any amount of time. We are all in this together. Thanks for reading sorry it is long.
Nikki

Girl u r so write about all of that. My guy knows me. He got to know my heart and soul. If I am upset or in pain he knows it. We know each other.and we started out as friends and he has always been there giving me advice and loving me and supporting my emotionally.and u hit the nail on the head about everything u said.I wouldn't leave my man for anyone. He is my heart. He is my friend. He is my one true love and I am blessed by god to of found him

[ebfisherculp60]

Originally Posted by futureMSMuth

I know why a girl falls in love with a guy who is in prison. First of all we don't spend time judging them. We knew they were not perfect when we met them and we accepted them for who they are not the perfect person they wanted us to think they were. We built a friendship by writing and taking a whole lot of time to get to know them. We gave them enough trust to give them our phone number after several letters not after several drinks. We spent countless days waiting for responces and smiling at jokes and serious things written on paper. We passed photos instead of body fluids and still wanted to send more. We waited months before we decided to meet face to face and met in a public place without having sex. Months and years later we still believe that we can make it even through the toughest times. Why because we passed the test of time and all we have is time. So basicly it is because when he was not our boyfriend we fell in love with the laughter, we fell in love with the advice. we fell in love with the smiles, and we fell in love with the friendship before we fell for the person. Yes ladies, my friends willing to do the time with our men. We have something special and that is why a women stands by her man no matter how much time he has left. I love an inmate and would not trade it for any guy who is currently on the outside. Hold your head up high and know that true love can withstand any amount of time. We are all in this together. Thanks for reading sorry it is long.
Nikki

Love love love love it!!! I have to somehow send this to my guy!! I told him I had a support group...I Love you guys!!

[myssqueen]

Originally Posted by futureMSMuth

I know why a girl falls in love with a guy who is in prison. First of all we don't spend time judging them. We knew they were not perfect when we met them and we accepted them for who they are not the perfect person they wanted us to think they were. We built a friendship by writing and taking a whole lot of time to get to know them. We gave them enough trust to give them our phone number after several letters not after several drinks. We spent countless days waiting for responces and smiling at jokes and serious things written on paper. We passed photos instead of body fluids and still wanted to send more. We waited months before we decided to meet face to face and met in a public place without having sex. Months and years later we still believe that we can make it even through the toughest times. Why because we passed the test of time and all we have is time. So basicly it is because when he was not our boyfriend we fell in love with the laughter, we fell in love with the advice. we fell in love with the smiles, and we fell in love with the friendship before we fell for the person. Yes ladies, my friends willing to do the time with our men. We have something special and that is why a women stands by her man no matter how much time he has left. I love an inmate and would not trade it for any guy who is currently on the outside. Hold your head up high and know that true love can withstand any amount of time. We are all in this together. Thanks for reading sorry it is long.
Nikki

Love it!

[dixiebelle1973]

Exactly I was in love with mine before this happened but I've grown to love him on a level I may never have gotten to now.

[KirstenTaylorC]

Such a great post and 'explanation.' So true as well! I really enjoyed reading that

[csgirlalways]

The next person to ask me that question is getting that exact answer. Beautifully written!

[Mzkelley09]

When people asked me that i told them because when i had no one he was there for me and he understood and he kept me smiling and he was still there when it all got better

[jandj10]

Awwww i really loved reading that,i get sick intired of people asking me the why's. Why are you dating someone in prison,why would you wait etc etc... Man i'm going to print this out and just start handing them out when people ask me the why's..

[pjnjclyn]

Originally Posted by futureMSMuth

I know why a girl falls in love with a guy who is in prison. First of all we don't spend time judging them. We knew they were not perfect when we met them and we accepted them for who they are not the perfect person they wanted us to think they were. We built a friendship by writing and taking a whole lot of time to get to know them. We gave them enough trust to give them our phone number after several letters not after several drinks. We spent countless days waiting for responces and smiling at jokes and serious things written on paper. We passed photos instead of body fluids and still wanted to send more. We waited months before we decided to meet face to face and met in a public place without having sex. Months and years later we still believe that we can make it even through the toughest times. Why because we passed the test of time and all we have is time. So basicly it is because when he was not our boyfriend we fell in love with the laughter, we fell in love with the advice. we fell in love with the smiles, and we fell in love with the friendship before we fell for the person. Yes ladies, my friends willing to do the time with our men. We have something special and that is why a women stands by her man no matter how much time he has left. I love an inmate and would not trade it for any guy who is currently on the outside. Hold your head up high and know that true love can withstand any amount of time. We are all in this together. Thanks for reading sorry it is long.
Nikki

Although I did not meet my husband while he was inside that is very beautiful! You are right that love begins in many ways and you where able to have something that most do not have you met the person before the bed. Bless you on you Journey!

[Wanbli]

I couldn´t have said it any better. You spoke right out of my heart. Thank you !

[loveloyality]

Well said, nothing just happens. God don't make mistakes.