Women being "friendly" while your lady is away?

[RLF5400]

Am I wearing a sign on my forehead that says I'm available? My girlfriend's best friend and now her sister have both asked me over. And I don't mean to dinner... Just because your sister or best friend is in prison doesn't make me uncommitted.. I told them both that when Nichole returns and asked me if I was loyal to her.. I can look straight into her big beautiful blue eyes and say, “Yes I was faithful to you!” That means so much to me. And If I couldn't survive six months without being loyal to her,, our relationship would be meaningless...

[InmateLover67]

Originally Posted by RLF5400

Am I wearing a sign on my forehead that says I'm available? My girlfriend's best friend and now her sister have both asked me over. And I don't mean to dinner... Just because your sister or best friend is in prison doesn't make me uncommitted.. I told them both that when Nichole returns and asked me if I was loyal to her.. I can look straight into her big beautiful blue eyes and say, “Yes I was faithful to you!” That means so much to me. And If I couldn't survive six months without being loyal to her,, our relationship would be meaningless...

This goes to show they do not respect your g/f, but they do not respect you or the relationship. I am sure she would be hurt that they were even willing to step over that boundary.

Kudos to you for standing by your woman, she should be proud to call you hers.

Peace~

[Abraann]

I'm sorry but a lot of girls are just scandalous and will do whatever to get what they want. I'll always believe this. Good for you for staying faithful.

[MRS.GRIFFIN]

Omg her sis and her bff,,,omgesha!!!!!!!!!! You did right n-o!!! Im glad you are holding it down for nichole,,good job!!!!!!!!!! Watch out for those vultures,,,,and you let them know queen nichole is here for life along with her king<you>

[Her_Man]

I suspect you are being tested, and whatever happens would be in a fast pipeline right back to your girlfriend.

I'd bet your girlfriend is feeling very insecure and asked them to "check you" and see what you would do. All she hears on the inside is that guys can't keep it in their pants and you are out partying and messing around on her.

[mandarose]

Either they that scandalous and disrespectful or you were being tested..

I've seen woman test their men this way.. wouldn't surprise me if that is what happened..but good for you for being true to her!!!

[tripsgirl]

I know the feeling.
The same night my fiancee went to jail his friends started hitting on me.
No respect. -_-

[missingdee]

You know, about 3 weeks ago I got a letter to my P.O. Box from a young girl who's in with my girlfriend saying my name was on a hook-up list and promising me all this ish when she gets out. I'm not sure if my address got swiped and passed around or if it was a test, but I told my girl about it and I told her "for the love of God don't retaliate, it's not worth it to add time and I'm not writing her back." Of course, I was also thankful at that moment that the mail goes to a P.O. Box and not my home address...I set this up for two reasons, one was I'd been the victim of identity theft where the culprit was actually picking stuff out of my mail (including my replacement credit card!0 and the other was because even though I don't worry about my girl having my address (she's been to my house, she knows how to get there by heart, it's not like she wouldn't be able to find me anyway,) I do worry about it getting passed around, and somehow that is exactly what happened.

But yeah, they do test, for sure...

[Southernsun]

Its nice to see that "good guys" do exist.

<3 Heart belongs to Droopy <3

[hiswife1014]

Aww that is soo sweet!!!! Shes got a great guy yeah stay away from the "bestie" it can make you relationship into a living hell if you ever crossed bounderies.

[RLF5400]

Originally Posted by Her_Man

I suspect you are being tested, and whatever happens would be in a fast pipeline right back to your girlfriend.

I'd bet your girlfriend is feeling very insecure and asked them to "check you" and see what you would do. All she hears on the inside is that guys can't keep it in their pants and you are out partying and messing around on her.

I'm quite sure that's not the case.. Neither one has taken the time to even write a letter.. Let alone visit my Nichole.. If there's nothing in it or them,, they don't do it.

[csgirlalways]

Women and men can both be scandalous as hell. Good for you for staying faithful