Does he ever irritate you?

[mandarose]

Lmao actually past few days.. I said I love you baby but you been getting on my damn nerves!!!!
I think its normal.. if things were 110% perfect.. not annoying each other or no arguments I'd feel worry.. because God knows I love my mama my daddy my siblings my nieces n nephews.. my children but....... they all annoy me at one point LOL its all love, shake it off.. and keep living and enjoying them & my life with!!! ;-)

[GuerosMama]

I guess the reason I ask is we've been together almost 4 years- so I consider us to be pretty new at a serious relationship. We love each other so much, and up.until a year ago it was all mushy mushy evrythnig is perfect and so this annoying-one-another thing kinda made me feel like maybe we were in the wrong track. But you guys made me feel better.

[Mrs. DM Brown]

Of course at first everything is all mushy and lovey dovey and after all that you notice the annoying things lol. But at the same time those are the things you notice you kinda love about him. (Well some of them! Lol!)

[hismess]

Yes he gets on my nerves sometimes. Just like I can get on his. Its normal

[Forever&aDay]

Yep---he did it yesterday and it took me all day to get over it. His mom has called several times today so I know he must have told her that I'm ignoring him. I just couldn't say anything nice so I decided not to say anything at all. Now that I've gotten my space though, I can deal with him.

[HappyNLove]

Well not often but he did the other day. So my baby is the type to always be thinking way ahead. Like years ahead. Which is really good because I want my future to be planned. Anyway I understand that he has nothing to do besides Thomas about the future but I have to deal with the day to day. It's so annoying to deal with 2014 and on but not listen to my day to day struggle. I love him all the same but.its annoying.

[Fox_Rider]

This ia normal. I have known my LO since we were 14 years old we are now 49 years old. He said being inside with all the CO's stomping on the emotionally all the time takes it toll on him. He forgets what it is like to be outside. I just send him a letter telling him how I feel and prison does not give him immunity to be rude to me and treat me like crud !! That straightens him right out. I also sent him the first card from our first date and remind him how I deserve to be treated... Keep your chin up sister !!

[tabathapope1]

Originally Posted by Forever&aDay

Yep---he did it yesterday and it took me all day to get over it. His mom has called several times today so I know he must have told her that I'm ignoring him. I just couldn't say anything nice so I decided not to say anything at all. Now that I've gotten my space though, I can deal with him.

Haha I ignore my mans calls when I am mad at him and I got nothing nice to say to him and I know we will argue again if I answer the phone. But he is persistant. I swear one day he called me eight times before I finally answered his call. Then he was like why didn't u answer ur phone? And I was like because I was mad at u and didn't want to argue again.he hates me to ignore his calls and hates it when I get all silent on the phone and won't talk to him or I hang up on him. Yeah he gets on my nerves and I get on his nerves. Its natural

[canadiangirl098]

he has in the past when he wasnt in jail and we were friends and stuff but in jail no so far we havent had a fight but i know he will irritate me once he gets out and moves in lol but i love him alot

[missinmrreyna]

Originally Posted by tabathapope1

Haha I ignore my mans calls when I am mad at him and I got nothing nice to say to him and I know we will argue again if I answer the phone. But he is persistant. I swear one day he called me eight times before I finally answered his call. Then he was like why didn't u answer ur phone? And I was like because I was mad at u and didn't want to argue again.he hates me to ignore his calls and hates it when I get all silent on the phone and won't talk to him or I hang up on him. Yeah he gets on my nerves and I get on his nerves. Its natural

I've tried that before but it doesn't work. My husband will call back to back until I answer. I'll be mad and be like naww...I don't wanna talk to yuu but then I end up answering. Sometimes he's appologetic and other times he'll be even more of an ass because I didn't answer when I was supposed to.. :/

[lique]

Honey u r so not alone my hubby works my nerves more than ever...

[Sad_Eyes]

Originally Posted by GuerosMama

We have opposite personalities, and sometimes when I want to be serious he is in the joking mood. Granted, its not altogether a big deal, but sometimes he just annoys me.

Everyone else makes it seem like their guys and relationship are perfection. Like kittens and bubbles. But come on, for real, does he ever just get on your nerves?

Does him irritating me once in a blue moon say anything about our love? Or is it just natural part Of a relationship?

I think it is natural to a degree. I think the only thing that really irritates me is when he is so excited to tell me something that he forgets to listen to what I am saying right before he speaks. His attention span and trouble focusing combined with my difficulty concentrating sometimes end up irritating us both! Face to face is always better for us.

[Mrs.taylor2011]

hell yeah we get on EACH others nerves all the time.

[BrandonsBabe]

Of course he irritates me sometimes! He's crocheting me a blanket and he always insists on explaining the process to me, though he knows I have no effing idea what he's talking about. It's always just little things that make me crazy, but god knows I do little things that make him crazy, too.

[asabo843]

I have only gotten one 5-minute conversation with my man since he's been gone, so he really hasn't had time to irritate me yet, but when he's home there are things he does that I can't stand. If I'm about to go to work I'll ask him to do a few things around the house, all of which would take him 10 minutes tops. Does he get around to doing it? Of course not. In fact, the house is even messier than it was when I left! When I ask him if he got around to doing his chores he says he did, even though he obviously didn't. When I ask him again he admits that he was busy playing video games. I'm really hoping prison will help him realize how trivial video games are and how important it is to take life a little bit more seriously.

[precioustime]

Yes, not so much when he was out. Alot more since he's been locked up. He's always questioning me about where I been, what I'm doing and then he asks me again later to make sure I remember what I told him before. lol I'm not lying so I don't have anything to worry about. Then he preaches to me about certain things....that he's not doing anymore bc he's locked up-so I shouldn't either. Then if I miss a call, why and where was I that I missed his call. So, yes we have been getting on each others nerves. It's been very frustrating....I think a big part of it is the lack of physical contact.

[Byyourside247]

Mine is a sweetheart after he went in lol he was a pain in the ass before but we never really fought a lot just him being annoying and after he went in he's the sweetest person ever we only argued once when he was in county n he called 5 mins after to apologize and since then its been great of course we are not perfect but we try our best.

[nakeisha99]

I don't think there is a such thing as a perfect relationship, but that's me. We have our disagreements at times but that's because of something we have in common. We are "Know it Alls". I know that's bad. I always have to be right, and so does he lol. Last week we were actually having a disagreement about which fast food restaurant was more popular LMAO . Something stupid and small but we both had to be right. Annoying we are, that's why we're made for each other.

[His Middleton]

Oh heck yes lately really bad. But I also get on his nerves, too. I stress him out. I makes him nervous. I make his blood pressure higher. He aggravares the heck outta me. But its all good. He is a pain in the butt, but he is MY PAIN IN THE BUTT.

[shaunna]

The only thing that 'annoys' me is the fact that when he's really tired he's really grumpy (he reckons he isn't but trust me he is lol)

[Tookie1132]

Usually he doesn't irritate me, we get along really really well, but money stuff makes me feel grrrrrrr. He likes to spend money. That's fine, if he is earning it, but right now he ISN'T. I had to move into my mother's house when he got locked up, for pete's sake. I make a paltry salary as an asst teacher. I don't have money. So when he talks about putting money on the phone, sending him money for his commissary, I can get a little bit irritated. I figured out what I can afford and I stick to it, but he always asks for just a little bit more. Can I add another nutty bar to his commissary order? It is only like $2.78, but that adds up every week! The thing that really got me peeved was that he told me today that he was already spending the tax return for next year in his head. As he was listing stuff off, I was getting to the boiling point. Lawyer money, getting his child support current, paying his court fees...... We are not married, so this is all MY money that I will be getting back, not his at all. I spent the tax return this year on his lawyer! I need a new car and have been planning and dreaming about getting one next tax season (one with working AC!). I told him that and he said to use his car. The one he wrecked a week before he got arrested. REALLY? I want to drive around in a busted a** vehicle (it does drive, just looks ugly) while I give him my tax return to pay for his court fees?? GRRRRRRR!

[shea23434]

Yes when he says I love u more. Dont know why but its irritating

[krystal1985]

Hell yeah we get on eachothers nerves but he grows his nails idk y but he does and he used to flick them and omg I would b like cut them f***ing nails already!!!!! Lol ugh just thinking about it annoys me