Frustrated by loss of phone privileges!

[mandarose]

For you women who do not get to speak to your man.. how the hell you deal with it >.< its been six days since I last heard his voice & it's driving me nuts today.. I haven't cried or anything.. I been calm but I just feel lost not speaking to him..
Its hard from him calling 15 times a day to zero!!!!

>.< so angry at him!!!!!

(I found out yesterday he was sent to s.h.u)
Blahhhh..

[tripsgirl]

It's extremely hard. We can only write letters right now so I freak out if I don't get one every few days. I went 16 days with NOTHING and about lost it.

[TrueHappiness]

I know how you feel my love just got out the hole from almost 60 days only one phone call, out a week and back in today and who knows for how long this time!!! Just stay positive a lot of times I replayed convos in my head from visits, phone calls, and re-read letters. Hang in there we are all in this together!!

[TnNDreyfus11]

yeah it is tough when they dont call everyday...when my baby first left i didnt hear from him for 3 weeks because he was transported to 3 different jails and no one would tell me where and then when he finally was placed and allowed to use the phone my cell wouldnt allow collect calls so he had to write me and tell me to set up a special phone system so he could call...that was a nightmare...i felt sick to my stomach and started losing it when i didnt hear from him but i just kept closing my eyes and thinking about conversations we had and listened to his voice in my head and it helped a lil bit...

[agomez84]

Originally Posted by tripsgirl

It's extremely hard. We can only write letters right now so I freak out if I don't get one every few days. I went 16 days with NOTHING and about lost it.

I know how u feel I haven't got no letter since June 2nd cuz of transfer/ orientation I assume...it sux!

[mandarose]

Originally Posted by tripsgirl

It's extremely hard. We can only write letters right now so I freak out if I don't get one every few days. I went 16 days with NOTHING and about lost it.

Ahh I can't blame you.. I nearly lost it after 5 days! Had not one clue what was going on... doc site wasn't showing any changes.. (still not) but Thursday I received a call from the new facility telling me he's there now for disciplinary reasons... I'm like grrrrrreat!! I happened to get a letter from him dated Sunday night.. was a lovely letter, everything seemed okay.. so I'm guessing something happened after that night

This no phone calls suck.. hoped I'd never face this.. ughh

[mandarose]

Originally Posted by TrueHappiness

I know how you feel my love just got out the hole from almost 60 days only one phone call, out a week and back in today and who knows for how long this time!!! Just stay positive a lot of times I replayed convos in my head from visits, phone calls, and re-read letters. Hang in there we are all in this together!!

Ahh that sucks!
(See when I decided to get in a relationship with him I said you have to be good & not get into trouble, don't do nothing stupid) I been proud of him he's avoided kicking ass especially when he was transferred to a medium from a Max. & that facility I know he wasn't pleased and very angry lately (so after he's been doing good & taking programs and all to be released early) and was about to find out soon when his new released date is... ugh this happens! Now I assume that messed up him being released early

[mandarose]

Originally Posted by TnNDreyfus11

yeah it is tough when they dont call everyday...when my baby first left i didnt hear from him for 3 weeks because he was transported to 3 different jails and no one would tell me where and then when he finally was placed and allowed to use the phone my cell wouldnt allow collect calls so he had to write me and tell me to set up a special phone system so he could call...that was a nightmare...i felt sick to my stomach and started losing it when i didnt hear from him but i just kept closing my eyes and thinking about conversations we had and listened to his voice in my head and it helped a lil bit...

Sorry you had to deal with all that!

But I'm frustrated with him because only who knows what he did to get sent to s.h.u! & I'm patiently waiting for a letter to see wtf happened.. he better have a damn good reason why he's there.. >.<

[canadiangirl098]

i cant get phone calls because the cable company i have doesnt allow collect calls..last time i talked to him on the phone was once in december and once in january because at the time there was a guy that would take inmates calls and he had 3 way calling so he would do the 3 way for them...we have to write letters and if i dont hear anything after awhile then i start going crazy and get paranoid

[sdven77]

Have j guys tried the google phone number? U end up having more calls

[mandarose]

Originally Posted by canadiangirl098

i cant get phone calls because the cable company i have doesnt allow collect calls..last time i talked to him on the phone was once in december and once in january because at the time there was a guy that would take inmates calls and he had 3 way calling so he would do the 3 way for them...we have to write letters and if i dont hear anything after awhile then i start going crazy and get paranoid

That really sucks!

[Loubabygirl]

I went from speaking to my love 1-2 times a week to speaking to him everyday at least 2 times sometimes 6 times a day. Things are going on and I haven't heard his voice since Wednesday morning. I'm dieing!!! I miss him do much. I can't even visit! Which I was suppose to do last night ugh. I miss him so much

He didn't Loose phone privelages tho. He was moved for some investigating so where he's at he can't get visits or calls. Just letters.