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View Poll Results: What would happen if your man showed off the "sexy pics" you sent for him
I would get angry 312 47.93%
I don't care 74 11.37%
It's flattering that my man loves my body enough to show them off 232 35.64%
((other)) 67 10.29%
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Old 08-22-2012, 12:35 AM
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He knows I'm super jealous n so is he. He wouldn't do it bc he doesn't even want a guy looking at me.....jokingly I asked what would he do if I was a stripper...his response You wouldn't so why even ask! Even his porn star chicks I sent he refuses to share. His love 4 me is too deep 2 share my goodies ....let him tell it...it's ALL his!
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Old 08-22-2012, 05:31 AM
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It's not something I'd get angry over. I'd be MORTIFIED cos it took a lot for me to come round to even contemplating sending those kinda pics across the world to him and I expect them to be for his eyes only once he has them in his possession.
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Once you send something in, you have no way of knowing who will eventually see it. Depends upon your own modesty level. If you don't mind, its cool. If you do mind, don't send them in the first place.
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I wouldn't be angry but more embarrassed because those are for his eyes only, but my fiance has told me he showed off the regular pictures I send him but the sexy pics he don't let no one see them
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Old 09-19-2012, 02:17 PM
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My hubby hasn't shared my naughty pics but the normal ones are up (well he says they are lol) I dont have a problem with him showing the naughty ones to someone else as i know its him saying "I'm going home to this amazing woman" It's just nice to know he's proud of me and wants to show me off.
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I wouldn't mind at all. At least I know he thinks I'm sexy enough to show off lol.
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I once lived in a building where I became friends with a neighbor who's boyfriend was doing some time- my daughters father was as well.(different prisons)A few months later I got a letter from my boyfriend informing me that some guy there was showing everyone this picture of some "naked hot babe" that he stole from his cellmate from a different jail,(my boyfriend was in Deer Island)and yup,you guessed it- it was me!Found out the shithead had broken into our place to rob us,found the picture,and kept the damn thing-obviously taking it to jail!!?? P.S. yes my daughters father took the picture back...after spending a week in the hole for beating him up.

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I'm not sure I'd be angry, I think more embarrassed. The one time I sent him "special" pics of me, he told me he kept them in his binder. The other pics I've sent him he says are up on his wall for everyone to see. It's weird; I've never been in a relationship where the man I was with was that proud of me. It's nice.
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My husband told me when they show off pics, there just to.sell them off. He told me he see plenty inmates seling there girl pics for money! Its so sad! They dont even respect these girls. My husband never never show anybody my pics at all. Hesay in prison they treat females as objects.
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He knows I'm super jealous n so is he. He wouldn't do it bc he doesn't even want a guy looking at me.....jokingly I asked what would he do if I was a stripper...his response You wouldn't so why even ask! Even his porn star chicks I sent he refuses to share. His love 4 me is too deep 2 share my goodies ....let him tell it...it's ALL his!
That is how you know your,man love you! My husband said the same thing, I love you too much for that. But my hubby dosent get those pics anyway we christians but if he did he would never.
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Yes i would if i send photos like that they are for his eveys only!
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I would beat his a**. I know he would never cause he has so much respect for me as his wife. And he gets mad when the CO do search and look through his albums so I know he would never show them off.
I agree with you. Although it's flattering when any man is admiring the beauty of your body, it's disrespectful for your man to show them off. When we take those pics we are intending for them to be for our man's eyes only, at least that's usually the general assumption. When a man that is YOUR man only and when you are HIS woman only, he will not appreciate another man looking at his lady in that way if he is sincerely serious and exclusive with you.
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Have any of you sent sexy pics to your man? Does he show his buddies? Would you be upset if he did show them? Well, I was just wondering because I have sent some in panties to my fella, and he said they were posted in his locker for everyone to see. I said, oh well next time I will just laminate them so you can hand them out at shower time. He said "OH HELL NO!! He said anyone is more than welcome to look at my sexy girl, but NO ONE can touch them unless they want their nose broken", hahaha. Then he said he could probably make 100$ off of them, but they are worth WAY more to me because I love you and they don't. I don't mind him showing, because I mean everything is covered. No different than wearing a bathing suit, I guess. Just flattering that he wants to show me off. What do you all think?
I think this is a good one lol my man has pictures of me posted im in lingerie bathing suits panties bras lol he actually has a photo album of me . But he mentioned one day that his cellie saw my pictures I was upset like really those are private and just for you . I was mad didn't send him any for a long time . Thn he was like baby you fine ass fuck all my niggas show they girls so I had to show them that they girls didn't have shit on you lol it's like a damn competition he said they accidentally saw my half naked shots . But I was a crowd pleaser and not to worry lol it made me have a attitude but I was flattered I see these guys in the visiting room and I get stares that's the only downfall lol hes now all protective when we go to visiting any guys who looks at me gets the death state eventho it was all his fault. He still has yet to get any more pictures. Via the mail. 👊
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That's funny! I like that. .
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Have any of you sent sexy pics to your man? Does he show his buddies? Would you be upset if he did show them? Well, I was just wondering because I have sent some in panties to my fella, and he said they were posted in his locker for everyone to see. I said, oh well next time I will just laminate them so you can hand them out at shower time. He said "OH HELL NO!! He said anyone is more than welcome to look at my sexy girl, but NO ONE can touch them unless they want their nose broken", hahaha. Then he said he could probably make 100$ off of them, but they are worth WAY more to me because I love you and they don't. I don't mind him showing, because I mean everything is covered. No different than wearing a bathing suit, I guess. Just flattering that he wants to show me off. What do you all think?
I find it flattering if he does show them off. It makes me feel good to know that he thinks im so beautiful and sexy that he wants his homies to know how lucky he is. So, as long as they are not nudes (i have a question, can they even receive nude photos of us mailed to them?) then i say, show them off, let those fools know how good you got it!
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If my boyfriend was showing everyone and their brother my half naked pictures then yeah I'd definitely be mad about that. He would never do that though, he's very protective of me and he already said "no way I'm not showing anyone, the pictures are all for me and me only." I told him if you do show them to ur cellie or like one or two of ur friends in there, its whatever, but just don't tell me that anyone else has seen them lol. It's not like I will ever actually see any of those people again, so I'm not too concerned about it but mostly I just feel like theyre private for just me and him to enjoy because we belong to each other.
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He would beat anyone that ever even tried to look at my sexy photos. I know he would never show them they are for his eyes only and they let him have naked pics as long as my hands are covering my nipples and my legs aren't open. For the last year he had no celly and just recently got moved into a 3man cell so he told me to only send him fully dressed pics and he locked up the sexy ones he already had, then he has one that he keeps under his pillow.
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I didn't know that you could send pics like that 0.0 but my husband keeps all of our pics in his locker he's afraid someone will steal them? Lmao
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I don't really send sexy pics but I did get awards at a ceremony and was wearing a beautiful coctail dress and some other pics from my sisters wedding I sent those. He has one on the wall by his bed he said. I am flattered. Last time I went for a visit his bunky walked past with his brother and he said to him "Lets see him try!" I said what the heck was that about? He was laughing and said that he and his bunky had a conversation and the guy said that when his brother saw me he would try to get my number in the parking lot. I asked him why he would do that and he said I have your picture on the wall by my bed and he said your beautiful and his brother is a sucker for a beautiful woman and he knows he would try. So I laughed and it made me feel good...needless to say I went to the parking lot and got in my car...the brother walked past me smiled and waved and stood there and looked at me like he wanted to say something but I just drove off lol.
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I know my man has shown my pictures in there. He doesn't have a wall anymore so he puts them on the bunk above him so he can look up at them. He says if I dump him, I have a group of tough guys with tattoos asking if they can date me when they get out. Dork. I think he likes it that they like me...or maybe they just like me because I write him every day. Gotta keep those writers.

My guy has requested a mildly sexy pic with me in a skirt and heels. For the life of me, I don't do sexy well. Goofy, yes, Cute, yes. But sexy??? And who's going to take the picture for me? One of my kids? LOL! Any ideas for a pose that shows off your butt and legs? Not sleazy, just sexy...

I did take one of myself, laying in bed and wearing his t-shirt. Mid chest and face only. Nothing revealing at all but kind of intimate all the same....I would be OK with it if someone saw it, but I don't think he'll share that one. We shall see.....
My hubby has been bugging for "sexy" pictures too, and I just wrote him asking which one of our kids would take them
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I would be furious! That's the most disrespectful thing he could do. It'd be a deal breaker.
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I would mind. I am a modest person. I dress dress modestly on purpose. I have sent him some that I do not want others to see. I know the COs see them and I try not to think about that. I do not wear bathing suits in public. So, I expect him to respect me enough to keep my beauty to himself, as I do. And that way, it's all his!
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My hubby has been bugging for "sexy" pictures too, and I just wrote him asking which one of our kids would take them
Lmao....yeah I been thinking the same thing
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I just talked to my baby (our daily 15 minute call is NEVER enough) and asked him if he has shown anyone. He said, "Hell no!" I like that he doesn't want anyone else to see them.
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I tried sending sexy naughty pictures. They wouldn't let my man have them, DOC sent me a letter stating they will be destroyed because of nudity.
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